why r poly ppl interpreting that post in the worst way possible? no one is shitting on poly relationships. all everyone is saying (not in the nicest way) that they couldn't do it. like if i'm dating someone and they ask to add an additional person or more (or for a threesome), clearly that means i'm not good enough for them right??? bc obviously that means they saw something else they liked. strange that no one is looking at this from a monogamous view. find someone else to do it.
… Did… Did you just ask why nobody is talking about how a sexual identity would look like from the perspective of someone who is practicing said sexual identity without actual having said sexual identity???
That doesn’t make any sense!
Nobody said a monogamous person should be forced to give up their idea of a relationship just to accommodate someone else. What I said was with the context of the notes of said post.
In which suicide was encouraged.
There are clearly people who are phobic or even extremely phobic of polyamourus people, whether OP is actually a part of any said groups is unknown.