Every relationship post on trans subs is “help I came out to my partner and they said that if I transition at all they’ll hate me. Advice? Edit: I’m not breaking up with them, we’ve been together for 10 years” like please please dump your shitty transphobic partner I’m begging it will make your life better
“My partner says that if I start estrogen and become feminine they’ll hate me” girl kill them!!!! You deserve better !!! You deserve a partner that loves you!!!
That’s not how marriage works.
“In sickness and in health, for better or worse for as long as we both shall live.”.
If you marry a transphobe- then you gotta find a way to make it work. You vowed to choose them over every other person.
If your spouse transitions- then you gotta find a way to make it work. You vowed to choose them over every other person.
In both cases you’ve promised to love that specific person no matter what happens or changes.