One weird experience of transitioning is failing at ur assigned gender role the whole time and everyone constantly deriding you for it but then u come out and it’s like we lost a beautiful gender conforming warrior today. Must grieve for my wonderful child who pissed me off by being ugly and weird since day 1
How many times I heard someone in my young life say “you can’t do that, that’s gay” or “you can’t do that, it’s girly” is frankly ridiculous. Especially for people who would later claim I showed no signs of being feminine or queer
Sweet lord the signs were there and the fact that people didn’t see them makes me happy that they’re not in my life