“Trans men and women are both suffering” and “trans women are often specifically targeted by bigotry and harassment even within their own communities and deserve to be able to talk about their own unique challenges without being talked over” and “trans men are often erased from conversations about how bigotry and transphobia targets them and are not exempt from all the horribly draconian laws transphobes are attempting to pass” and “being trans doesn’t make you immune to participating in horrible transmisogyny even and especially if you aren’t aware you’re doing it” and “holy shit don’t reinvent bioessentialism but for trans people like holy fuck men are not destined to be evil and women aren’t automatically incapable of harm” are all opinions that can and fucking SHOULD coexist
Also nonbinary people exist in ways that can’t and shouldn’t be reduced to “trans man lite” and “trans woman lite” and experience transphobia in ways that frequently can’t be generalized at all.
Also Intersex folks can have complex relationships towards their gender due to their experience and people should keep that in mind. Y'all also need to listen when an Intersex person tells you that you’re being intersexist.