hyperlexichypatia:

Every form of abuse commonly perpetuated by parents is also commonly perpetuated by teachers and therapists.

Every form of abuse commonly perpetuated by teachers is also commonly perpetuated by parents and therapists.

Every form of abuse commonly perpetuated by therapists is also commonly perpetuated by parents and teachers.

Yet discussion of abuse by any one of those agents is always met with the response that the other two agents can solve it, like a constant, depressing three-way loop.

If you respond to abuse by teachers with “This is why parents need to be more involved!” and respond to abuse by parents with “This is why therapists should be more involved!” and respond to abuse by therapists with “Parents and teachers should stop this!” then… what happens to kids who have parents, teachers, and therapists who are all abusive in the exact same way? Which is… quite a common scenario?