I want to have hot gay sex but I dont know if I could do it
Real
like I struggle to find anyone I could actually do it with on Grindr, finding cute people is like finding a unicorn, so rare, and like what if I show up and I’m just not into it at all, just like totally soft, :(
So here’s how I deal with that. First, if the other person is comfortable, meet at your apartment (or go for a walk in the park and then go to your place), and then you put on a movie. That gives you the opportunity to cuddle together and get things going if you two want. And if not - well, you still have a cute guy cuddled up with you, so it’s not as if the alternative to gay sex (gay cuddles) is bad either