i need everyone to hear the story of colman domingo meeting his husband bc it’s just the most beautiful thing i’ve ever heard
Audio for Interview on Graham Norton audio:
You’re in Berkley, California in 2005 and you’re minding your business going into a Walgreens. Which is like a Boots here. So I’m going in there cause it’s a Sunday night. Just-I live in New York, I go in there to get a mask, a facial mask.
So I’m walking in and I see someone walking out, has beautiful hair down to here, (gestures below the shoulder) lip piercing, beautiful, beautiful. I see this guy and we look at each other and I’m like ‘oh my god’ and I’m on the phone and I come outside. We look at each other and he’s talking to this young woman, and she seems to be angry at something. So its a lot of like- *mimes yelling* and he’s looking at me and she’s all *mimes anger*
And I’m like, what’s going? So I’m like ok let me get off the phone. I get off the phone, they walk off down the street. But he keeps looking back and I wave, but he just keeps going. And then I’m just dumbfounded and I end up in a Blockbuster across the street, and I don’t even know what I’m doing I decide to look at my watch and it’s 8:03. And I look outside, I think is he here? I think maybe I’ll come back next Sunday and he’ll be here. I’m that kind of hopeless romantic.
Cut to three days later, I’m trying to buy a used computer and I’m just scanning craigslist. They have that over here right? I’m scanning craiglist. So I thought, maybe I’ll place one of those Missed Connections ads. I wonder if they work, cause I would read them on the subway. I go to page 2 of them as I’m reading and I see: 'saw you outside of Walgreens - Berkley. He placed an ad for me two hours before.
Sterling K Brown: Come on, brah.
I jumped up I’m like, are you kidding me? That’s me. He described me with my faux hawk, it was 2005. *laughing* And I was like, get out of here. So we met up three days later. We had our first date. I was trying to be a good boy and go home. He said, can you stay over? I said sure but let’s just cuddle. We cuddled. I thought he was asleep. Four o'clock in the morning, I couldn’t sleep and I say to him, “I think I love you and you’re about the change my life.” And we’ve been together almost nineteen years now.
Sterling K Brown hollers. “Yooo! Are you serious? Oh my god!”
The crowd cheers. Graham and the other panelists make similar amazed sounds. /end]