I do think it’s kinda weird that the common response to “polyamorous people are oppressed” is laughter and ridicule. As if the societal status quo doesn’t enforce monogamy, as if straying from monogamy isn’t punished or treated badly, as if hatred of polyamory isn’t always acted out with homophobia, transphobia, fatphobia and racism. I think it’s funny that someone will be like “the nuclear family is bad” can see that society forces the concepts of straight/cis good but gay/trans bad, but can’t for a second believe monogamy is part of all that. It’s just very silly.