fighting ableism isn’t about refuting the idea that we’re disabled at all
“autistic people aren’t incapable!! look at me, i’m autistic and i can function exactly like an abled person!! everyone should be like me” isn’t anti ableist. you’re taking the stereotype from one end of the spectrum and moving it to the other and that helps no one
the answer to “disabled people who can’t contribute to society are worthless” isn’t “all disabled people can do things if they try hard enough”. it’s “everyone inherently has worth just by being alive”