underwhelmedandoverstimulated:
i don’t really actually agree that straight t4t is a participation in hegemonic heterosexuality like relationships including trans ppl are very rarely actually capable of being considered normative in a wider societal context regardless of their participants. that being said, the “transfems and transmascs should be fucking not fighting” shtik is still straightforwardly an expression of heterosexual rape culture
anyone who is talking critically about ANY t4t relationship being “straight” (aside from the couples who think its funny and embrace the label), has never been in one.
as someone who was a boy, and dated girls for a while, vs. someone who is a girl, who has dated tboys, THEY AINT EVEN SORT OF SIMILAR. NOT EVEN CLOSE
Make love not war is rape now