The fat transfem experience is multitudes more difficult than you realize
I don’t mean for this to sound petty or like it’s a contest but I get genuinely jealous of people who are able to complain about individual instances of being misgendered. Meanwhile I can count on my fingers the number of times I’ve been gendered CORRECTLY by strangers. To me being misgendered is still the default after 4 years of HRT. Can you even imagine?
All this to say, please uplift the fat trans women in your life. This means you allies, this means you trans men, this means you thin trans women.