this is very petty but weeks ago I saw a tiktok from a trans man talking about going off T to reconnect with his feminity, and he was saying stuff like “I need to connect to the bountiful, peaceful nature of the motherland before I return to the crazy ass tboy village cos all trans men are fucking cringy as fuck” and he was obviously half joking but I was smelling some terfisms so I commented “hey I support this journey you’re on but I think you can talk about it in a way that doesn’t present femininity as being inherently more natural, spiritual or deeper than masculinity is. and no need to call trans men crazy or cringy” and he replied to my comment “chill🙄”
today by serendipity another one of his vids appeared on my fyp saying “I went off T and now I’m back on T because I realized estrogen makes me act crazy and feel miserable”
and I resisted the urge to comment “oh? you didn’t find anything of worth in the bountiful natural motherland of femininity? 🥺” and I think I deserve accolades