why are people pretending that sex is the only axis upon which some people willingly enjoy things that hurt/scare them
BDSM is evil and irrational and nobody is actually into it. now if you’ll excuse me i have to go eat sour candy advertised on the basis that it will hurt my mouth + get on a roller coaster to activate my flight or fight response + read a tragedy that makes me cry + watch a horror movie that will scare me + participate in combat sports for fun and entertainment