hey you. young trans girl dating for the first time as a girl. you know you don’t have to date people that sick and you can have boundaries
if you’re dating cis people you should not be worrying about enforcing boundaries or saying no to anything for fear of offending them. if you’re dating trans people you should not have to worry about lateral aggression- it’s ok to experience gender and sexuality different from your partner, even if you’re both trans women. you are just as allowed to be uncomfortable with things as anyone else.
you are not alone. many girls, cis and trans, feel like they’re on their own when dating and things are just always gonna be bad. they don’t have to be.
you deserve a good relationship, too
“you deserve a good relationship too”
I wish I’d heard that a while ago, going into social interactions online with some self respect about a year ago would have been nice
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