The people who police your gender will police your gender even if you’re cis.
Eat them.
“OH those body builder women with pancake breasts arent-” eat them.
“This woman has a beard, thats not-” eat them.
“That man has a baby face, that’s not” - eat them with barbecue sauce.
Eat them. You will never be gender enough for their definition of gender. Eat them.