once you stop automatically accepting it as the default and start to notice how like 99.99% of feminine characters in anything, art, movies, games, etc. are literally skinnier than the average irl woman it’s gonna make you go fucking insane.
putting a gun to the head of every character designer. make some fat women. make some muscular women. make femboys with chub. make femme nonbinary people with some damn meat on them. unlearn your misogynistic association between femininity and skinniness as inherently linked or perish from this world.