so much of what people attribute to like inherent biological differences between age groups is a lot more just the result of having different amounts of life experience. is that teenager functionally brain damaged because their brain is “underdeveloped” or have they only been alive for 14 years and thus do not have the same amount of practical experience + wisdom to draw on when dealing with difficult situations.
Is that toddler “overreacting” to losing his favorite toy by crying uncontrollably or is it genuinely the worst thing he’s ever experienced because he’s only been alive for two years?
Is that teenager “hormonal” because she’s obsessed with a boy or is it just the first time she’s felt this kind of love?
Is that child “stupid” because they can’t figure out a basic problem or is it just the first time they’ve seen that problem?
I’m more equipped to handle those experiences because I’ve dealt with them before, not because my brain is more developed or because I’m smarter or inherently a better person. It’s their first time being alive, give them a break. Its also your first time being alive, give yourself a break