The reason the force-femme is a thing for me is because as a transgender man if I can talk about forced into a pink dress in that way instead of people calling it a “de-transitioning kink” it helps me feel seen as the fact that by default I am just a regular man, which I am. I am a transgender man who is just a regular man. You can force-femme me. Do not say you are “de-transitioning” me. The point is to be treated as a man even in this sort of situation which is actually a common kink for transgender men.