NB 👏 Does 👏 Not 👏 Mean 👏 Woman 👏 Lite
every single person who uses “nonbinary” as a stand-in for “people i consider to be women” needs to do some work on themselves, no matter their gender, sexuality, or any other marginalization
Jose and I are going to start a “Non-binary club for people who are not welcome in other non-binary clubs” and we’re going to be nice out of spite.
Yeah this is what happens when masculinity in queer spaces is so demonized that anyone who looks “too masculine” is assumed to be a cis man and therefore automatically dangerous, instead of judging by actions rather than looks. And idk people in the reblogs are acting horrified, but that’s exactly what it’s like on tumblr :/. I have a friend who is very tall and looks androgynous and on the masculine side, and has told me multiple times about how disillusioned they’ve gotten with queer spaces. We’ve actually bonded over discussions of anti-masculinity/anti-transmasculinity because it’s such an issue. There should be some sort of hang-out for people who are considered “too masculine” (and therefore predatory and dangerous) for queer spaces, and we can all have a lovely time.