I think detaching disgust from morality is one of the keys to Chilling Out. You can find inner peace by being able to go “hm! Gross” and recognize if it’s an actual problem or not. Cause if it’s not an actual problem… it’s not your problem 🙏 god bless
Every callout post that’s like “she jacks off to Weird Porn! Isn’t that gross? Don’t you hate it?” I mean maybe but I have the same reaction to sour cream. Personally I’m in the habit of using my brain to determine if something is ethical/moral/etc or not instead of just my first knee jerk reaction, like, “is this actively harmful to anyone involved” is a more useful question than “do I personally think it’s gross”
Also if you find yourself doing mental gymnastics to explain why something could hypothetically be harmful, potentially, under the right circumstances, it’s probably Just Gross. Especially if the scenario you crafted involves a secret third party besides the Consenting Adults involved ??? You are making up a guy to be mad at, my friend
that last part is really key. “what if some vulnerable child sees it and gets the wrong idea and is HARMED” children have on average ten million random misapprehensions about how the world works at any given time, whether it’s the correct pronunciation of “segue” or whether you go to jail for doing your taxes wrong or whether it’s normal to call your partner “puppy” in the bedroom. they will figure it out eventually as long as they keep being exposed to more and more information. restricting information just means whatever misinformation gets through will stick around longer!