Hey, guess what? You’re allowed to identify as something and then later identify as something else. It doesn’t make you a liar or a fraud or an idiot. It’s fine. It’s okay. People change and grow and their understandings of themselves change and grow too. That’s life. Don’t sweat it.
It’s okay to identify as gay and then later as bi or as bi and then later as gay. It’s okay to identify as aro and then later realise you do experience romantic attraction. It’s okay to change what name you use or what pronouns you use three hundred times. It’s okay and you’re always welcome in my community. Be kind to yourself and give yourself grace.