hot (bitter) take but getting asked for your pronouns is kind of useless when you use anything but One of the big three. cis people short circuit when you answer with it/its or neopronouns or even just multiple alternating sets
one time a girl asked my pronouns, i told her it/its, she tried ONCE before asking if she could just use they/them. right in front of my salad. like why even ask me at that point
people have talked about how it’s not okay to they/them someone who you know uses she/her or he/him but it’s also not okay to do that to someone who uses any other pronoun set. neopronouns & it/its are not interchangeable with they/them! xe/xyr is not code for “if you want a challenge try this out but otherwise they/them me because all non-binary pronouns are basically the same anyways” that is the devil talking!!!!!!!
YOU ARE STILL MISGENDERING PEOPLE EVEN IF THEY ARE NONBINARY AND YOU USE THEY/THEM IN PLACE OF THEIR ACTUAL PRONOUNS