the second a trans man fucks up, other queer/trans people start calling him “girl” and going ok well its gender neutral. its slang. like how dumb do you think people are to fall for that
‘i would call a cis man girl its not that deep’ do you think . maybe. its bad to call trans ppl words associated with their birth sex. do you think there could be a dynamic at play that doesnt apply to cis people
It’s very weird to see these people (Not you OP, the assholes who say this type of stuff) think misgendering anyone is okay as long as they are acceptable targets in that moment. Maybe it’s bad to misgender anyone for almost any reason except when they ask for it.