btw the objective in pointing out that bro, sis, man, girl, dude, ma'am, sir, etc. are gendered terms and can and do make a lot of people dysphoric isn’t to kill your fun, it’s to point out that we collectively need to stop tacking on unnecessarily gendered language in day to day speech, especially ones that directly attack or undermine the identity of the person you’re talking to, but also in general.