Maybe stop dating in general if you feel the need to break things your partners enjoy
I’ll never understand the people who date someone with a specific hobby that they hate.
Like, if I hated gardening enough to pull my wife’s plants, why the fuck would I date a gardener?
I have a theory about this: A number of people think hobbies (some hobbies more than others) are what people (certain kinds of people especially, but could be anyone) do to fill the space that will eventually be occupied by a romantic partner. So they don’t care about the hobby, because they expect to supplant it
I hate that that makes sense.
Or, to put it another way: “Why are you paying attention to that other thing when you should be paying attention to me?”
