so, i know that asexuals are people who feel little to no sexual attraction/urges to anyone or anything. but i want to know if there’s a word for someone who has sexual urges, but doesn’t want to act them out with anyone? like the thought of being intimate with someone just has no appeal and actually freaks you out a lot and anytime you’ve been intimate with anyone it’s just done nothing for you and actually just made you really uncomfortable.
hey 2015 me, it’s 2024 me. it’s aspec. the word you’re looking for is aspec. which is something you very much are. you don’t “grow out of it” cause it ain’t really one of those things you grow out of. sorry for all the years of confusion, but we get there eventually lmao
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