Can we stop with the “do you want a man like this in the women’s bathroom then huh? [picture of a passing trans man]” stuff.
Because it ignores and downplays the violence trans men face in bathrooms it frames trans men as a threat to cis women.
Also just the whole thing of framing someone who looks like a man/masculine as being a threat is just . Weird. Non-passing trans women aren’t a threat either.
Transphobes have made it very clear they want to ban trans men from both the men’s and women’s bathrooms. They don’t want us in either.
the whole “i don’t want someone who looks like a man in the women’s restroom” thing is what they use against trans women to ban them from women’s bathrooms. So maybe trying to switch that around by saying “erm actually do you want this other person who looks like a man in your bathroom. Checkmate!” Is weird!
Here’s why this common argument about trans men in bathrooms does more harm than good