Some ppl are like “I’m a kinky sex-positive pervert freak!!!” and then make fun of virgins and asexuals….. sure, reclaim freakiness but keep working on that because teasing ppl for their sex lives (or lack thereof) is, unfortunately, very normie mainstream vanilla behaviour. the right to sexual determination includes NOT having sex. 101 shit. Like this isnt subversive dude, it’s using the edge of an ideology for bullying
*slams fist on table* WE RESPECT VIRGINS, VANILLA SHIT, AND ASEXUALS HERE!
A+ for adding “vanilla shit” because honest to God you just like what you like, if you’re really only into missionary in the dark it doesn’t mean anything about you or your politics or beliefs and I’m kind of tired of seeing that as shorthand for “bad conservative prude.” kinksters are great at saying “what I like in bed doesn’t make me a bad person” when it’s their shit but not so good when it’s other people’s shit. that’s a great principle but it goes both ways!
(also a lot of people are dealing with some major sex insecurities because our society is so fucked up and wherever they are in that process is valid)
(but if you just prefer missionary in the dark for no reason that’s cool too)