the whole “you just have to keep looking until you find the right therapist!!” shit is so fucking infuriating when you’re traumatized and suicidal and have complex dissociation and with every single new mental health professional you meet it’s a fucking coin toss as to whether they’re going to actively abuse you or not. i’m not going to keep putting myself through that shit (and hemorrhaging money along the way lol) to make YOU more comfortable in your belief that there’s a “right therapist” out there for everybody