Sam Vaknin, the man who coined the term “narcissistic abuse” also had these absolutely brillant things to say about narcissism:
Gay sex is narcissistic, am I rite?
Transitioning? Yeah, also a total narc move.
Fellas, is it narcissistic entitlement to not want to be gatekept out of life-saving transition care?
And of course, an absolute quack on the subject of NPD agrees with a quack on the subject of trans people.
All this to say: If you believe in “narcissistic” abuse, this is who you’ve chosen to listen to.
The idea that there is a type of person who’s fundamentally broken in a way that makes them evil, is an idea that also lends itself to a lot of bigotry for reasons that shouldn’t surprise you.
