tlirsgender:

tlirsgender:

Those questions that are like “is it cheating? 🤔 is it cheating in a box? Is it cheating wearing socks?” get me cause it really makes it clear how a lot of people just aren’t communicating their personal boundaries & betting on some universal truth of what’s right and wrong. And then like 90% of people acting like that are deeply insecure so you end up with those people who are like “is it morally okay if you even fucking look at another person or should I kill them”

I think it’s possible to be healthily monogamous but a lot of you are fucking weird about it. I myself am not even interested in dating right now I’m just watching all of this with opera glasses. Call me crazy but I think the reason cheating is bad is because it’s a breach of trust & the terms you already agreed on for your relationship & not like. Because you’re each other’s property. Maybe try talking to each other idk