the thing that makes tumblr discourse so frustrating really is how many people will just straight up not reflect on the biases with which they read things other people say, like it really is just confirmation bias hell. like i don’t put coded messages or defenses of people in my takes, if i were coming to someone’s defense i’d use their name. my post calling out people’s behaviors against me isn’t magically a post defending an entirely unrelated person i don’t know.
your transmisogyny isn’t subtle at all folks