btw. being kink positive means ALL kinks even the ones you think are “immoral” or whatever the fuck. “but what about-” especially that one. no sex act between consenting adults is immoral actually. kill the cop in your brain.
of course that doesn’t mean you have to be comfortable with every kink. it’s fine to have limits for your own personal stuff. but if you judge people based on what they do with their consenting partners, I cannot stress this enough, you are being a bad person.
Steps to judge if a sex/kink thing is okay:
1. are all involved parties adults? (including planned observers)
2. did all involved parties give informed consent while able to give consent meaningfully (including uncoerced)?
3. did the actions stay within the bounds of said consent, not adding on new things while someone was unable to meaningfully consent?
if yes to all three: IT’S FINE
if it passes all three conditions and you still think it’s morally wrong: you’re judging based on your own sense of disgust, not any reasonable moral framework!
if you are trying to say “okay but what if…”: did you read what i just fucking said??
you don’t have to like it. you don’t have to interact with it. you don’t have to look at it. but you do have to tolerate it and not condemn its practice based on your personal feelings!
bringing this post back with my lovely gf’s addition in case any of y'all haven’t seen it yet
things that this post is about: ageplay, fauxcest, consensual nonconsent, petplay, somnophilia, intoxication kinks, and much more
things this post is not about: fanfiction, any other kind of fiction
I actually want to address the 2nd tag here because it’s very important: several of my kinks are illegal. every time I (allegedly) slap my partners’ ass during sex, it’s technically domestic abuse. it used to be illegal to be gay. WV is currently trying to make it illegal to be trans. legality ≠ morality
muting this now. stop derailing my post to talk about fiction. this post is about real people having real sex.
