fickes:

[ID: a 4-panel comic in black ink colored digitally with pink accents. Panel 1: Panel depicts a beefy, tall man hugging a much smaller person. A heart appears from between them. Text: "I have that toxic man desire to be bigger than my partner"/ID]ALT
[ID: Panel 2 depicts a tiny, short, and scrawny person standing awkwardly in empty space. Text: "I also am statistically shrimpy" He is labeled: "scientifically proven to be a small dude"/ID]ALT
[ID: Panel 3 depicts the same person up closer, and he's now wearing platform boots that boost him up tall enough that his head is cut off by the panel boundaries. Text: "I (mostly) can't make myself taller" The boots are labeled "big stompers"/ID]ALT
[ID: Panel 4 depicts the same short man, but he's now beefy, and flexing. He wears sunglasses and sparkles. Text: "So naturally, the direction in which I must grow is/horizontal" He's labeled "squishy + sexy"/ID]ALT

it’s either this or work through my insecurities and accept my body as is but that sounds like a lot more work