not for nothing but “chastity until marriage” and “lifelong strict monogamy” is every bit as much kink as piss or free use or knotting is. we just don’t call it that because those weirdly specific and highly fetishized sexual practices are institutionalized and considered normative.
what are traditional catholic values if not just an overly elaborate and widely accepted version of a breeding kink
Think about it like this
You are born. You visit your community once a week and everyone there puts alien eggs up their butt. They talk about how it’s really important to do that and how it’s really weird that the rest of the world does not do this.
As that child grows into an adult, everything but putting eggs up their butt is deviant and shameful.
The only thing in the world that is not a fetish? Alien butt eggs.