not for nothing but “chastity until marriage” and “lifelong strict monogamy” is every bit as much kink as piss or free use or knotting is. we just don’t call it that because those weirdly specific and highly fetishized sexual practices are institutionalized and considered normative.
what are traditional catholic values if not just an overly elaborate and widely accepted version of a breeding kink
Catholics, Evangelicals, and Mormons all have HUGE breeding kinks built into them. So much of the culture is about finding the right breeding partner who is pure in body and mind to breed large families with.
GOD WANTS YOU TO BREED THIS GIRL NONSTOP UNTIL SHE CAN’T TAKE ANY MORE
But you should only have sex long enough for him to cum in missionary.There’s also huge Dom/sub dynamics built in. Women are expected to be the subbiest subs and this is a highly sought after trait for all those groups. A woman who can keep a house and “serve her husband”
(a lot of the time they add as she served her father to the end of it which is…. Gross….).This dom/sub dynamic is also kinda built in to father-child relationships. The kids (especially the daughters) are supposed to serve him. The weirdly almost identical viewpoint on relationships between kids (especially daughters) and wives to adult men is why they are so many… abusive relationships towards kids…. Since kids and wives are men’s property to use as they wish.
IDK Christians and Mormons are VERY kinky but have worked for a very long time to convince everyone these kinks are normal and also don’t require consent.