the thing about internalized homophobia is that its homophobia against yourself. the gay guy who posts about how marriage equality was a mistake, gay not queer, stop shoving it down peoples throats isnt an “internalized homophobe🥺😩🥹” hes a homophobe
sometimes i get mad at myself for being biseuxal <— internalized homophobia
i get mad at other people for being bisexual <— plain old homophobia