i feel like i personally struggle with forgiving people who have done bad things because as a pure utilitarian and utility monster, it’s been very easy to be almost perfectly good my entire life and i can’t really put myself into their shoes. luckily my mild discomfort vastly outweighs any problems this attitude causes, so i can continue dismissing anyone who isn’t perfectly good (ie, who has not dedicated their life to the overwhelming necessity of my happiness) without feeling the slightest bit bad. this morality shit is easy