Of fucking course Terfamort also started attacking asexual people, and on international asexuality day no less. What a vile human being.
*celebrates Ace Day harder*
*covers myself with an ace flag so maybe I turn invisible*
Like I’m not going to lie, this scares me. I still remember 2016 Tumblr, okay? And I know how much influence this lady has.
Yeah, it’s… not great. I’m not even active on Twitter anymore, I just keep the app on my phone so I don’t have to deal with links opening the browser version, but seeing that first thing genuinely was giving me flashbacks to some of the shit that happened on this site a decade ago.
The sudden wave of terror was the strongest emotion I’ve felt in a while.
Honestly, the lady just really hates her readers. Hates all the people who bought her books. Hates them all so, so much. Not sure why, maybe she read too many Dramione fanfics, or saw too many people suggesting better endings than she could write.
Anyways, I’m not too worried about her bothering aces, myself. Unlike with the trans kids she targets, there’s probably not much she can do to us.
You weren’t in the ace community circa 2015-2016, were you?
Hm. I was not active in the ace community around then. But I have identified as ace since 2003 or so, when I first heard the term on go-gaia.
Like, there’s more than one reason why I dislike the BBC Sherlock series (and ugh that House episode, why is it that the Sherlock Holmeses of media acknowledge and disparage us at the same time), but I’m certainly not worried about Gatiss causing me injury the way that I’m worried about JKR stopping trans people from being treated as humans.
if you didn’t watch how viciously the ace community was driven underground on this site, I kind of don’t think you’ve got any room to be making this kind of what aboutism argument
yeah trans kids are in active danger. if JKR decides that she wants to target the ace kids next, they’ll be in active danger too. Don’t know why you’re trying to gotcha about it.
I *was* here for the “discourse” but let’s call it what it was.
A hate campaign. Intended to drive a wedge between groups in the LGBT+ community, which asexuality is explicitly and inherently a part of, no question, no arguments, no debates. It scared a lot of us, hurt a lot of us. Aces were threatened with and sexually assaulted. Over time, it seems a decent chunk of the community pulled their heads out of their asses once the primary bad actors realized they had a better, easier target (trans people). Don’t whatabout to the threats on trans people as if they won’t come for us, too. They ALREADY tried to, and *will* try again. I was literally threatened both offline and online for just visibly ID'ing as ace. Bigots will attack and do real injury to anyone and *everyone* they consider different. The trans hate just sells better on mainstream media. For now.
You see the way asshole bigots are trying to get the cis members of the LGBT+ community to turn on our trans siblings? That whole “LGB” movement? They tried that with the ace community, too, and now JK is preparing to lead the effort on it again, *because she’s a Neo-Nazi now.* She hates trans people so much that she aligned herself with Neo-Nazis that want to take away all of our rights, including those of all women, cis, trans, straight, gay, white, PoC, all of us.
Don’t let her win. The point of the LGBT+ community is to accept people that are different from the heteronormative, cisnormative, amatonormative, and allonormative expectations of how our society is structured. The best way to beat her and bigots like her? Don’t let her or anyone else drive us apart.
I think another issue so many ace people have issues with is that no one ever really reckoned with the widespread hate campaign. And it was widespread. I have at least one friend who was threatened with being shot if they showed up to pride as an ace person.
And yet, when it finally died down, no one like. Acknowledged what had happened. They just all turned on the next target (trans people, so it’s super fun to be both) and people just sort of forgot about the vitriol and hate they sent to so many people. People just went “wow that was a wild time” if they even remember it.
The ace community is not like it once was. It has never recovered. It used to be a lot sillier and more joyful, and a lot of the ace people I know now are a lot more jaded and angry. And we have a right to be.
The aphobia always been there seething under the surface because no one ever even recognized it. It was never fixed. It just quieted down for a while, and JKR is poking at a bubble of poison again.
Look, I’m ace. I’m also not cis. And this acknowledgement by this woman of ace people has my blood running cold.
Gosh yeah that’s also a great point. There was this massive hate campaign that they had the audacity to call “discourse” (“I’m just asking questions”) and then everyone else just… collectively memory holed it. No apologies, not even an acknowledgement that it happened other than the ace community pointing it out any time someone wonders what happened. I’m pretty sure half of my blocklist is aphobes (the other half is mostly transphobes and bots) because I developed such a kneejerk block reaction to anyone I saw being aphobic.
I’m honestly somewhat jaded to ace hate at this point; a sad statement, but it’s true. I follow Yasmin Benoit on socials and her comments are always full of dipshits showing their ignorance (which has a lot of Venn diagram overlap with misogynoir but that’s a TED talk for another day). So I saw her quote tweet JKR, and at first I didn’t think anything of it - she’s good at tanking the trolls while still getting her message across.
Then I saw who she quote tweeted, and my stomach absolutely dropped to my shoes.
y'all know that whole left-brained/right-brained thing is fake right? and the “brain fully develops at age 25” thing? and the “we only use 10% of our brains” thing? yeah they’re all complete horseshit please yell at anyone who says them
okay people are doing nuance in the notes about the kernels of truth in neuroscience myths but I really really need you to understand that that is not important here. people don’t believe there are “right-brained” and “left-brained” people because they’ve misunderstood lateralisation of the central nervous system, they believe it because that binary framework was deliberately pushed by people who wanted to define who was logical enough to lead, and surprise surprise, white adult heterosexual men are left-brained. people don’t believe the brain “finishes developing at 25” because they’ve misunderstood life stage differences in neuroplasticity, they believe it because the idea that children, teens, and young adults have inferior brains is a convenient rationalisation for a society that marginalises them. people don’t believe you “only use 10% of your brain” because they misread an fMRI study, they believe it because it’s useful bullshit for everyone from hyperindividualist historical revisionists pushing the great genius concept of scientific progress to hucksters recruiting for cults that will teach you to unlock your latent telekinesis for just $5000 a month. that’s why it’s fucking important to know that many popular science ideas are false and to push back on them loudly and frequently, because they’re not just mildly incorrect, they are often active components of systems of violence.
god I could be so wealthy if I had no ethics. that’s so fucking frustrating. I’m living paycheck to paycheck because I’m not grifting vulnerable idiots on TikTok. I feel like I have the ability to very easily scam people. I could make a killing with AI. but god. I have morals and ethics and so I get to be poor as shit. I hate this fucking world
I could have made a killing as a psychic, but noooo I have to feel bad about lying to people ugh
I think abt this all the time because the thing is, evil rich people truly believe that they’re geniuses who have discovered a way to make money that the rest of us dummies haven’t…but the truth is that they are just willing to do evil shit that everyone else would prefer to not to because we have standards
When I attended my graduate school job fair, Raytheon (unprompted, hearing me say my degree at the next table) offered me $230,000/yr to come work for them. That was their opening offer after hearing nothing more than my degree, in a city with a very low cost of living. The only catch was that the job was working on vision systems for missiles. (i.e. those ‘targeted’ missiles which kill a ton of civilians as collateral or intentional damage)
I ended up taking an $85,000/yr job as an optical research scientist at Corning instead.
It is an odd feeling, having a price put on your soul. I’d be a millionaire with a house by my mid-30s if I’d accepted that. And the offer is still open, in fact I’d have an even more generous one waiting for me with the skills I have now.
In all seriousness, if you have the right skillset, you can actually sell your soul. This very week. You will live in comfort and moderate luxury for all your days. Two of my family members did that work decades ago, until they couldn’t stomach it any longer, and it set up the rest of their lives.
But I promise you, it’s not worth it. It’s been almost 50 years for one of them and it still haunts him. He says the worst part was the way they (him included) talked about human lives as things. Numbers on a spreadsheet, sterile corporate jargon in meetings. A lifetime later and you can still see it in his eyes when he talks about it.
You can’t take it back, treating humans like things.
The fragrance people are out these doing some of the best experimental language out there and I for one am.delighted. “haute plasticine poison”! What a terrific combination of words.
“a fully grown female is genetically and physically weaker than a 10 year old male. this is always the case. female are always worse than males, no matter what. the worst male can always beat the best female. trust me, I’m a feminist” - terfs.
flea markets have a general air of melancholy about them but it can be easily shaken, unlike the crushing despair that haunts thrift shops. customers at a flea market generally seem like they want to be there. a lot of the vendor booths will have some huge collection of stuff, whether it’s old comics, baseball cards, Wii/360 era shovelware, craft soaps, toys from the 60s, Coca Cola merch, racist woodcuttings, Funko Pops, DVDs of movies no human being has ever heard of, NCAA basketball championship t-shirts from the early 90s, or obsolete computer help books, but at least it feels like it’s supposed to be there, like it was meant to be sold as opposed to being surrendered because someone died or just didn’t want it anymore or something. at least, until you get to the estate booths and see the table somebody’s grandma was plausibly found dead sitting at, next to her bed and a case of adult diapers, anyway. but you go to a thrift store, though, and you see a mom trying to wrangle three kids while browsing secondhand underwear, or an old woman pushing a stroller with a dog in it stopping to examine a bunch of maga hats on the shelf, and you realize the reason the sign at the door says you can’t open carry in here is so they don’t have to clean up after you when you can’t take it anymore and shoot yourself
god I could be so wealthy if I had no ethics. that’s so fucking frustrating. I’m living paycheck to paycheck because I’m not grifting vulnerable idiots on TikTok. I feel like I have the ability to very easily scam people. I could make a killing with AI. but god. I have morals and ethics and so I get to be poor as shit. I hate this fucking world
I could have made a killing as a psychic, but noooo I have to feel bad about lying to people ugh
I think abt this all the time because the thing is, evil rich people truly believe that they’re geniuses who have discovered a way to make money that the rest of us dummies haven’t…but the truth is that they are just willing to do evil shit that everyone else would prefer to not to because we have standards
When I attended my graduate school job fair, Raytheon (unprompted, hearing me say my degree at the next table) offered me $230,000/yr to come work for them. That was their opening offer after hearing nothing more than my degree, in a city with a very low cost of living. The only catch was that the job was working on vision systems for missiles. (i.e. those ‘targeted’ missiles which kill a ton of civilians as collateral or intentional damage)
I ended up taking an $85,000/yr job as an optical research scientist at Corning instead.
It is an odd feeling, having a price put on your soul. I’d be a millionaire with a house by my mid-30s if I’d accepted that. And the offer is still open, in fact I’d have an even more generous one waiting for me with the skills I have now.
In all seriousness, if you have the right skillset, you can actually sell your soul. This very week. You will live in comfort and moderate luxury for all your days. Two of my family members did that work decades ago, until they couldn’t stomach it any longer, and it set up the rest of their lives.
But I promise you, it’s not worth it. It’s been almost 50 years for one of them and it still haunts him. He says the worst part was the way they (him included) talked about human lives as things. Numbers on a spreadsheet, sterile corporate jargon in meetings. A lifetime later and you can still see it in his eyes when he talks about it.
You can’t take it back, treating humans like things.
it’s really funny how the NYPD perp walked Luigi Mangione as an obvious power play so they could pretend they’re badasses but instead they just look like they’re leading Jesus to the cross
Like any other socially conscious woman, I am a firm believer in gender equality. Ending workplace discrimination, making reproductive health care affordable—I’ve championed these goals my whole life. They’re important to me, and that’s why the feminist movement frustrates me so much. I’m sorry, but I simply cannot and will not support feminism if it means murdering all men.
I understand why some people might believe the only way to advance women’s rights is to slaughter every man on the planet, but that sort of radical, explicitly homicidal position, which for all I know is a fundamental aspect of feminism, is exactly what makes me hesitate to call myself a feminist.
Do I agree with closing the pay gap, ensuring universal access to birth control, and ending the objectification of women? Absolutely, and if that’s all feminism were about, I would get on board without any hesitation. Assuming feminists start advocating that we hunt down all the world’s men and boys, load them onto trains bound for death camps, and systematically massacre them solely on the basis of their sex, then that’s where I draw the line.
god I could be so wealthy if I had no ethics. that’s so fucking frustrating. I’m living paycheck to paycheck because I’m not grifting vulnerable idiots on TikTok. I feel like I have the ability to very easily scam people. I could make a killing with AI. but god. I have morals and ethics and so I get to be poor as shit. I hate this fucking world
I could have made a killing as a psychic, but noooo I have to feel bad about lying to people ugh
I think abt this all the time because the thing is, evil rich people truly believe that they’re geniuses who have discovered a way to make money that the rest of us dummies haven’t…but the truth is that they are just willing to do evil shit that everyone else would prefer to not to because we have standards
When I attended my graduate school job fair, Raytheon (unprompted, hearing me say my degree at the next table) offered me $230,000/yr to come work for them. That was their opening offer after hearing nothing more than my degree, in a city with a very low cost of living. The only catch was that the job was working on vision systems for missiles. (i.e. those ‘targeted’ missiles which kill a ton of civilians as collateral or intentional damage)
I ended up taking an $85,000/yr job as an optical research scientist at Corning instead.
It is an odd feeling, having a price put on your soul. I’d be a millionaire with a house by my mid-30s if I’d accepted that. And the offer is still open, in fact I’d have an even more generous one waiting for me with the skills I have now.
In all seriousness, if you have the right skillset, you can actually sell your soul. This very week. You will live in comfort and moderate luxury for all your days. Two of my family members did that work decades ago, until they couldn’t stomach it any longer, and it set up the rest of their lives.
But I promise you, it’s not worth it. It’s been almost 50 years for one of them and it still haunts him. He says the worst part was the way they (him included) talked about human lives as things. Numbers on a spreadsheet, sterile corporate jargon in meetings. A lifetime later and you can still see it in his eyes when he talks about it.
You can’t take it back, treating humans like things.
god I could be so wealthy if I had no ethics. that’s so fucking frustrating. I’m living paycheck to paycheck because I’m not grifting vulnerable idiots on TikTok. I feel like I have the ability to very easily scam people. I could make a killing with AI. but god. I have morals and ethics and so I get to be poor as shit. I hate this fucking world
I could have made a killing as a psychic, but noooo I have to feel bad about lying to people ugh
I think abt this all the time because the thing is, evil rich people truly believe that they’re geniuses who have discovered a way to make money that the rest of us dummies haven’t…but the truth is that they are just willing to do evil shit that everyone else would prefer to not to because we have standards
When I attended my graduate school job fair, Raytheon (unprompted, hearing me say my degree at the next table) offered me $230,000/yr to come work for them. That was their opening offer after hearing nothing more than my degree, in a city with a very low cost of living. The only catch was that the job was working on vision systems for missiles. (i.e. those ‘targeted’ missiles which kill a ton of civilians as collateral or intentional damage)
I ended up taking an $85,000/yr job as an optical research scientist at Corning instead.
It is an odd feeling, having a price put on your soul. I’d be a millionaire with a house by my mid-30s if I’d accepted that. And the offer is still open, in fact I’d have an even more generous one waiting for me with the skills I have now.
In all seriousness, if you have the right skillset, you can actually sell your soul. This very week. You will live in comfort and moderate luxury for all your days. Two of my family members did that work decades ago, until they couldn’t stomach it any longer, and it set up the rest of their lives.
But I promise you, it’s not worth it. It’s been almost 50 years for one of them and it still haunts him. He says the worst part was the way they (him included) talked about human lives as things. Numbers on a spreadsheet, sterile corporate jargon in meetings. A lifetime later and you can still see it in his eyes when he talks about it.
You can’t take it back, treating humans like things.
firefox is just such a standard browser for anyone remotely interested in computers that remembering basically every normal person uses google chrome feels like a kick in the head
The deep despair I felt when I learned that a friend uses Opera
The deep despair I
felt when I learned that a
friend uses Opera
Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.
they could have said, like, “we made a new wolf morph, which shows how far genetic science has advanced”. they could have said, “we’re calling them direwolves out of a love for the extinct species.” maybe too much to ask for but would have loved it if they’d pointed out some kind of ecological niche they were theoretically intent on resolving - like, “wolves are having trouble adapting to human sprawl and we are hoping that our research into the past will help us save wolves in the present.”
but alas they did not do this. and see this sucks because i want to be hype about new bigass fantasy wolves. there is a 7th grade version of me that would be ecstatic about this. she would be obsessive.
unfortunately, due to capitalism, now i gotta have beef with puppies. can you imagine.
ALT
