December 2024

transandrophobia isnt real the way transmisogyny is real because thats not how intersectionality works. transmisogyny is specifically the intersection of oppression transfemmes face of transphobia and misogyny. for transandrophobia to be real, androphobia itself would have to be real. men are not an oppressed class. there is no systemic disenfranchisement men face for being men when living in a patriarchal society. transmascs absolutely face transphobia, and there are certain aspects of transphobia that may be different between transmascs and transfemmes, but that is not transandrophobia.

vaspider:

a-polite-melody:

alabastermask:

teaboot:

transcyberism:

teaboot:

This is a fantastic explanation for why the term faces skepticism and I appreciate it because it’s finally made the argument against it click for me

The remaining issue is, I don’t have a different word to use when I specifically reference “transphobia that is distinctly directed towards trans men in ways that combine transphobia bioessentialism and mysoginy, that is similar to but also slightly different from that which is directed towards trans women” that still acknowleges that trans men are not women

IE, “You’re not a man, you just hate facing oppression as a woman”, “You’re not trans, you just have internalized mysoginy”, “You don’t have to be a man to accomplish your goals, You’re just pretending to be one so you don’t have to face female gender discrimination”, “Transitioning to male means you’re eager to oppress women”, “Now that you’re a man you don’t have to deal with mysoginy or gender-based violence”, etc

I think the men’s rights movement is bullshit, don’t get me wrong, but walking around being an openly trans man, emphasis on trans man and not just man, seems to read to a lot of people as “female gender-traitor pervert”, and I don’t have the VOCABULARY for that experience

and this particular exchange, the “men aren’t oppressed” vs “I don’t have words to talk about how trans men are oppressed,” is a great example of another way transandrophobia functions: through hermeneutical injustice.

“hermeneutical injustice” is a type of epistemic injustice, the other type being “testimonial injustice.” these terms were coined by Miranda Fricker in 1999 to describe a framework by which particular marginalized groups or people are barred from expressing, describing, or sharing their understanding of their own lived experience.

to briefly explain the two subtypes, testimonial injustice refers to someone’s descriptions of their own experience to be distrusted, erased, or silenced based on the belief that they are not a reliable narrator or are otherwise being disingenuous somehow. Trans men often experience this too, but my main focus here is hermeneutical injustice, which is an imposed limitation on someone’s ability to interpret their own experiences - limitations on which types of inferences are considered valid or acceptable, or what vocabulary and concepts are allowed to be used in discussions.

Think of the aim of the fictional constructed form of English known as “Newspeak” in George Orwell’s 1984 - in the book, the intent of the language’s architects was to limit the types of ideas that could be entertained in conversations and even thoughts, removing ideas like “bad” and replacing them with ideas like “un-good.” The goal there was that anyone dissatisfied with the Ingsoc regime would be forced into discussing it in terms of mere shortcomings (ways it wasn’t good) and not the active evils that it perpetrated (ways it was bad).

So by limiting trans men and mascs’ ability to create terms for ourselves, this is what is being done - we are not able to name and specify the forms of oppression that affect us specifically unless we have the language to do so; without terms like “transandrophobia” (or transmisandry, or antitransmasculinity, or any of the other more niche terms that have been coined in an attempt to avoid this hermeneutical injustice) we must refer to “transphobia that is different than what transfems face” or constructions that are similarly awkward and circumscribed. Notably, these constructions force us to compare our struggles to transfems or cis women - much like “un-good” forces one to think in terms of a certain ideal of perfection while “bad” allows us to directly name problems, depriving us of our words for direct oppression against trans men do not allow us to discuss our own experiences without reference to the experiences of others.

We do not want to compare struggles. We do not want to say who has it better or worse. We just want the space to describe what happens to us, in our own words, so that we can raise awareness of the struggles we face and the solidarity we need.

THIS IS *EXACTLY* WHAT I MEAN!

“Men’s rights activists” dont need to exist because we alreadu live in a patriarchy- men already have rights, they just exist as pushback against feminism.

Just like how “white power” movements don’t need to exist because white people are already getting preferential treatment- they exist as pushback against civil rights movements.

But when I, as a transmasc, need to say, “I am continuously being reduced to a mysoginistic caricature of female victimhood in a way that denies my identity as a man”, that does NOT exist as pushpack against transfemmes

In this case, having a word to describe an experience is NOT an “all lives matter” reactionary movement- a counter-protest to a valid protest designed to undermine the movement- it’s just. Developing vocabulary to speak on a different problem

like. Why do you say “seafood allergy” when we ALREADY say “peanut allergy”? If it’s not an allergy to peanuts, you should just say “allergy”.

Well. Yeah, we could, but then how would I most efficiently describe my allergy to seafood

i would also like to add to this the fact that transandrophobia was coined by a black trans man who states that hatred, demonization, and fear of men IS an intersectional aspect of his oppression. as i am not black, i am not qualified to speak on the specific intersection of how blackness, manhood/masculinity, and transness intersect. i recommend checking out his blog @/saint-speaks to read about what transandrophobia means to hymn, as i think it’s an essential part of this conversation.

Yeah, to add to the most recent addition, not only is the term intersectional, it’s allowed to ‘work’ as a word differently from the way transmisogyny does.

Just because the word transmisogyny is a direct smushing together of transphobia and misogyny which are both their own axes of oppression, that doesn’t mean that any and all intersectional language has to follow this rule, else it doesn’t ‘work’. Because intersectionality doesn’t only look at intersections between oppressions, but also how different aspects of your identity will change how oppression will look.

It’d be nice if the people telling us we need to be more intersectional could actually learn what intersectionality is, and not use what they think it means as a weapon to silence us when we are directly applying intersectional lenses to our own experiences.

As mentioned in another branch of this post, transandrophobia is an unpaired word. It may lose that status at some point in the future via back-formation, but.

Transmisogyny is not an unpaired word, but transandrophobia is. It’s as simple as that. We don’t need to go further: this is basic grammar stuff.

transandrophobia isnt real the way transmisogyny is real because thats not how intersectionality works. transmisogyny is specifically the intersection of oppression transfemmes face of transphobia and misogyny. for transandrophobia to be real, androphobia itself would have to be real. men are not an oppressed class. there is no systemic disenfranchisement men face for being men when living in a patriarchal society. transmascs absolutely face transphobia, and there are certain aspects of transphobia that may be different between transmascs and transfemmes, but that is not transandrophobia.

vaspider:

a-polite-melody:

alabastermask:

teaboot:

transcyberism:

teaboot:

This is a fantastic explanation for why the term faces skepticism and I appreciate it because it’s finally made the argument against it click for me

The remaining issue is, I don’t have a different word to use when I specifically reference “transphobia that is distinctly directed towards trans men in ways that combine transphobia bioessentialism and mysoginy, that is similar to but also slightly different from that which is directed towards trans women” that still acknowleges that trans men are not women

IE, “You’re not a man, you just hate facing oppression as a woman”, “You’re not trans, you just have internalized mysoginy”, “You don’t have to be a man to accomplish your goals, You’re just pretending to be one so you don’t have to face female gender discrimination”, “Transitioning to male means you’re eager to oppress women”, “Now that you’re a man you don’t have to deal with mysoginy or gender-based violence”, etc

I think the men’s rights movement is bullshit, don’t get me wrong, but walking around being an openly trans man, emphasis on trans man and not just man, seems to read to a lot of people as “female gender-traitor pervert”, and I don’t have the VOCABULARY for that experience

and this particular exchange, the “men aren’t oppressed” vs “I don’t have words to talk about how trans men are oppressed,” is a great example of another way transandrophobia functions: through hermeneutical injustice.

“hermeneutical injustice” is a type of epistemic injustice, the other type being “testimonial injustice.” these terms were coined by Miranda Fricker in 1999 to describe a framework by which particular marginalized groups or people are barred from expressing, describing, or sharing their understanding of their own lived experience.

to briefly explain the two subtypes, testimonial injustice refers to someone’s descriptions of their own experience to be distrusted, erased, or silenced based on the belief that they are not a reliable narrator or are otherwise being disingenuous somehow. Trans men often experience this too, but my main focus here is hermeneutical injustice, which is an imposed limitation on someone’s ability to interpret their own experiences - limitations on which types of inferences are considered valid or acceptable, or what vocabulary and concepts are allowed to be used in discussions.

Think of the aim of the fictional constructed form of English known as “Newspeak” in George Orwell’s 1984 - in the book, the intent of the language’s architects was to limit the types of ideas that could be entertained in conversations and even thoughts, removing ideas like “bad” and replacing them with ideas like “un-good.” The goal there was that anyone dissatisfied with the Ingsoc regime would be forced into discussing it in terms of mere shortcomings (ways it wasn’t good) and not the active evils that it perpetrated (ways it was bad).

So by limiting trans men and mascs’ ability to create terms for ourselves, this is what is being done - we are not able to name and specify the forms of oppression that affect us specifically unless we have the language to do so; without terms like “transandrophobia” (or transmisandry, or antitransmasculinity, or any of the other more niche terms that have been coined in an attempt to avoid this hermeneutical injustice) we must refer to “transphobia that is different than what transfems face” or constructions that are similarly awkward and circumscribed. Notably, these constructions force us to compare our struggles to transfems or cis women - much like “un-good” forces one to think in terms of a certain ideal of perfection while “bad” allows us to directly name problems, depriving us of our words for direct oppression against trans men do not allow us to discuss our own experiences without reference to the experiences of others.

We do not want to compare struggles. We do not want to say who has it better or worse. We just want the space to describe what happens to us, in our own words, so that we can raise awareness of the struggles we face and the solidarity we need.

THIS IS *EXACTLY* WHAT I MEAN!

“Men’s rights activists” dont need to exist because we alreadu live in a patriarchy- men already have rights, they just exist as pushback against feminism.

Just like how “white power” movements don’t need to exist because white people are already getting preferential treatment- they exist as pushback against civil rights movements.

But when I, as a transmasc, need to say, “I am continuously being reduced to a mysoginistic caricature of female victimhood in a way that denies my identity as a man”, that does NOT exist as pushpack against transfemmes

In this case, having a word to describe an experience is NOT an “all lives matter” reactionary movement- a counter-protest to a valid protest designed to undermine the movement- it’s just. Developing vocabulary to speak on a different problem

like. Why do you say “seafood allergy” when we ALREADY say “peanut allergy”? If it’s not an allergy to peanuts, you should just say “allergy”.

Well. Yeah, we could, but then how would I most efficiently describe my allergy to seafood

i would also like to add to this the fact that transandrophobia was coined by a black trans man who states that hatred, demonization, and fear of men IS an intersectional aspect of his oppression. as i am not black, i am not qualified to speak on the specific intersection of how blackness, manhood/masculinity, and transness intersect. i recommend checking out his blog @/saint-speaks to read about what transandrophobia means to hymn, as i think it’s an essential part of this conversation.

Yeah, to add to the most recent addition, not only is the term intersectional, it’s allowed to ‘work’ as a word differently from the way transmisogyny does.

Just because the word transmisogyny is a direct smushing together of transphobia and misogyny which are both their own axes of oppression, that doesn’t mean that any and all intersectional language has to follow this rule, else it doesn’t ‘work’. Because intersectionality doesn’t only look at intersections between oppressions, but also how different aspects of your identity will change how oppression will look.

It’d be nice if the people telling us we need to be more intersectional could actually learn what intersectionality is, and not use what they think it means as a weapon to silence us when we are directly applying intersectional lenses to our own experiences.

As mentioned in another branch of this post, transandrophobia is an unpaired word. It may lose that status at some point in the future via back-formation, but.

Transmisogyny is not an unpaired word, but transandrophobia is. It’s as simple as that. We don’t need to go further: this is basic grammar stuff.

tanadrin:

people who for very silly reasons want to market prepared food products without preservatives in them who then discover why we started putting preservatives in prepared food products in the first place (because without a preservation method food quickly grows stale, and frequently also moldy or downright toxic) is a consistently good bit. like people really seem to think we put Evil Chemicals in food on purpose for no reason.

strawbpuppy:

i feel like disabled people are expected to tolerate and put up with things that able-bodied people aren’t. (in my experience and from what i’ve witnessed).

disabled people shouldn’t be expected to put up with ableism, rude comments, invasive questions, and just bad faith remarks in general.

we’re people with boundaries and emotions, but firstly, we’re people. we shouldn’t be held to a different standard of what we should think is okay. we don’t exist to educate or inform. we’re allowed to not answer a question, even if you meant it well.

disabled people aren’t mean for setting boundaries or having their caretakers/caregivers set boundaries for them if they are not able to set them themselves.

we’re allowed to have privacy.

villainessbian:

oojamaflip-whatchamacallit:

nudityandnerdery:

ranch-dressing-flavored-frog:

melynnwater:

please don’t reblog this post a devilish temptress tricked me into making it and she placed a hex upon it so that every reblog removes a molecule from my body

I think we can do it.

Posts that have 2x10^25 notes to me.

#we’re not even close to destroying a single cell#sunlight probably does more damage to op every day than we’ve done collectively as a site

We gotta work harder!!

please stop reblogging this post a devilish temptress tricked op into making it and she placed a hex upon it so that every reblog mails a handwritten letter to elon musk that reads “kung pow penis” and he has to read it personally

thelastwhimzy:

do you care about black lives?

yes!

of course!

100%!

See Results

if you chose one of the answers on this poll, i would really appreciate the share. i am an afro-indigenous, severely disabled/medically complex person with no support system near me. i was homeless from december 2023 to september 2024 and it was an extremely hard time for me, especially since my chronic illness makes me very vulnerable.

i cant get more gov assistance rn for a few different reasons but i still need help paying bills every month. my storage bill is currently late, i owe klarna a bunch this week, rent is due at the end of fhe month, and i need to repair/replace the two front wheels on my chair.

notes havent really reflected the amount we’ve raised recently and its mostly only a handful of people who help. the reality is that even a very small contribution can help a ton! so please, PLEASE help me survive. its getting harder all the time but i would like to eventually have more security/stability in my life 💕

pypal | vnmo | cshapp | ko-f1 | ppal pool

magnusbae:

In case you were wondering why Spotify Wrapped sucks balls this year, and more importantly doesn’t have any genre data:

Can you hear the sound of bells? That’s because they’re clowns. 🤡 🛎

renthony:

Discussions of what “counts” as “canon” queer representation fall apart the second you start talking about media older than about five years or so. If your only metric for “canon queerness” is a character looking directly into the camera and explaining their identity in specific, modern, US-American-English terminology, you’re not going to get a good picture of what queer media looks like. If your barometer for what counts as “canon” requires two characters of the same gender to kiss on-screen, you’re not going to get a good picture of what queer media looks like.

Dr. Septimus Pretorius (portrayed by Ernest Thesiger in 1935’s Bride of Frankenstein) was never going to look directly into the camera and explain his sexuality in 2024 terms, but he remains an icon in queer media history. You cannot look at that character (blatantly queer-coded in the manner of the time, played by a queer man in a film directed by another queer man) and tell me that he isn’t a part of queer media history.

To be honest, even when discussing modern queer media, I would argue that the popular idea of what “counts” as “canon” is very narrow and flawed. I’ve seen multiple posts in the past few days that say the Nimona movie is “implied” trans representation, and I just…no, y'all, it’s not “implied,” it’s an allegory. The entire damn movie is about transgender struggle, and the original comic is deeply tied into N.D. Stevenson’s own queer journey. It isn’t subtle. You cannot look at that movie and pretend that it isn’t about trans struggle. It’s blatant, and to say that Nimona “isn’t canonically trans” is a take that misses the story’s entire message, and the blatant queerphobia that almost kept the movie from happening. (I wrote a five thousand word essay about the topic.)

Queer themes, queer coding, queer exploration, and queer representation can all exist in a piece of media that doesn’t seem to have “canon queer characters” on the surface. Most queer characters are never going to be able to explicitly state their specific identity labels, be it due to censorship or just due to the fact that scenes like that don’t fit in some narratives. Some stories aren’t conducive to a big “so what’s your identity?” scene.

Explicit, undeniable, “this is my identity in no uncertain terms” scenes are very important and radical, and I’m not saying they shouldn’t ever exist. I am saying that you can’t consider those scenes the only way for queerness in a piece of media to be “canon.”

headspace-hotel:

y'all HAVE to watch this…interview??? with the inmates of the prison where luigi mangione is being held.

the reporter is standing outside the prison walls, while the inmates are inside watching the news, and collectively screaming out one-word answers to questions loud enough to be heard by the reporter.

I’ve never seen anything like it

bbqsamwich:

my-life-is-a-sidequest:

my-life-is-a-sidequest:

viralfrog:

You should just ignore it

I’d like to dedicate this joke to everyone who reads peoples urls

acegender:

explain your gender in 10 words or less without using boring words like “male”, “female”, “nonbinary”, “masculine”, “feminine” or “androgynous”.

go!

closet-keys:

it disturbs me that a significant number of people think that the issue with sexual violence, gendered violence, and misogyny is sexual desire rather than dehumanization, so they are relentlessly suspicious of others’ (and their own) desires while simultaneously never at all interrogating others’ (and their own) dehumanizing beliefs about other people, both within and outside of sexual contexts

funstyle:

funstyle:

i hate to admit this but i think if i were in a bad mood and spongebob were around i wouldnt be able to navigate that situation with the patience or grace it demands. and i worry he would blame himself

im no better than squidward

gayboygaming:

transformers-synergize:

Waspinator ref

lil dude appeared in the newest page of synergize

moonshoesmoonshoes:

derinthescarletpescatarian:

deathsmallcaps:

derinthescarletpescatarian:

I hate that I understand how the child has reached this conclusion.

Ten is a smaller word than three?

This child is learning the concept of ascending numbers; at that age, spelling ‘three’ is probably difficult for them.

At the age where this question would be appropriate, this child would be learning the early concepts of base ten addition with these:

And this:

While they would have seen children’s posters and toys that count up to ten countless times, rainbow numbers are probably their current main association with the number ten. However, this child doesn’t understand that ten is a larger number than three. There are two main reasons why this might be:

- the child doesn’t understand how many ten is, and sees the numbers 1 and 0, which they do understand. When asked to explain their reasoning, they don’t know how to (this kid is probably about 5 years old), so draw what the number 10 makes them think of.

- the child misunderstands the concept of ‘smaller’ in this question, and thinks of 10 as ‘simpler’ or ‘more fundamental’ a number. This is a common conclusion for little kids to draw because we put so much emphasis on learning to ad and count to 10, so they may think of using rainbow numbers as a way to simplify and reduce down to 10. Again, a 5 year old doesn’t have the self awareness or vocabulary to explain this, and having misunderstood the question, won’t do what is expected (drawing 3 dots next to 10 dots or something similar). Their answer is ‘the rainbow number chart says so’.

Further questioning could help find exactly which misconception the child has, but there’s little point; as soon as the child properly grasps what 10 is, the misconception will resolve itself in either case.

I love people who work with kids and figure out their communication styles instead of just “kid stupid silly kid knows nothing”

irl-donut:

it gets better

aliquid-de-magis:

store owner: why is the sand always mounded up a foot behind the glass all the way around the display?

the noble blueberry pancake:

spongebobssquarepants:

thememedaddy:

hocuschlocus:

sure you’re hot but are you also kind and a little stupid?

athelind:

izzy-mccalla:

rip mythbusters you would’ve loved destroying cybertrucks

that’s okay cybertrucks are doing a fine job destroying themselves

st5lker:

thesituation:

quickeggs:

thesituation:

thesituation:

“the US just needs a beautiful president again” the US needs to be dismantled quite frankly and the land repatriated back to its indigenous owners but i guess that’s too much to think about right

it really does piss me off how lackadaisical people are about landback. “it’s a good future plan but what about right now” right now? we start doing the fucking work to make that a reality what are you talking about. we start drumming up support for it and start taking it seriously instead of brushing it off like it’s a pipe dream. indigenous communities have been working their asses off to make it mainstream and you don’t get to call it “a nice idea but unrealistic” that’s not for you to decide. either join in or consider yourself against the cause i’m tired of the lack of serious political drive and fucking PRINCIPLES around here

and are we going to do this with every country in the world? Bc every single piece of land on this planet belonged to someone else at some point and was fucking stolen. as a native person i truly do not understand why we act like America was the only country where land was stolen, like this was some unique situation and not true for literally every fucking place on earth

i like the fact that this is straight up not true and just a blatant wild exaggeration of what “indigenous” means in relation to a land. to act like the US, a recent settler colonial nation, is the norm is just so wildly untrue and ridiculous that i can’t even engage with this comment. is this just like, rage bait or something? is that what’s going on here? because i really don’t want to believe someone could be this startlingly stupid and uneducated about the world.

there are sharks alive that are older than the united states btw. tennis is older than the united states. twinnings is a british tea company still in operation which is nearly 70 years older than the declaration of independence.

thememedaddy:

thememedaddy:

thathomestar:

just cast the fire spell. dip shit

pupphrodite:

madame-mongoose:

if no one else is gonna post it

It’s that time of year again

actuallyvady:

poetrylesbian:

so many of the “i only use chat gpt for ___” excuses are concerning because people use it in place of learning basic, valuable skills.

you don’t need chat gpt to write professional sounding emails for you, there are many many guides on the internet and with a bit of practise you can learn to write them yourself. a very important skill for a professional to have, and some of the basic rules will carry over into irl conversations!

you don’t need chat gpt to be a “more detailed search engine”, because you’re robbing yourself of the chance to learn how to find and filter information on the internet and evaluate the credibility of sources. which is a VITAL skill. plus, chat gpt is notorious for being wrong?

if you use it to write essays, you’re taking away your ability to hone your research skills, your writing skills, your critical thinking skills. your ability to create persuasive arguments!

and for most of the other reasons people use chat gpt, there are non-ai websites for that! for maths, wolfram alpha. for figuring out what you can cook with the ingredients you have there’s supercook and the like. for creating routines, there’s about a million apps!

whatever you “only” use chatgpt for i promise there are better websites out there that you don’t have to worry will produce complete bullshit???? and destroy the environment???

Hey, look! A study showing that people who use chatgpt to study do worse on exams!

Seriously: you are not helping yourself.

holythefirm:

i want to be one of those famous mediums who does readings for thousands of people in a huge theater and im on stage and im like does anyone have a grandma…a grandma and her name starts with a j and she died of a stroke in 2003 and someone is like oh my god that was my grandma how did you know!!! and then im like please let me take your hand. I have a message from her for you. she HATES when you masturbate

copywriteddad:

wannabe mountain man grifter on tiktok who tricks 19 year old guys into eating raw meat and a man who just invented a new type of shoe that lets you walk on electricity

smilesession:

I heard a rumor that a very special somebody will be coming to the mall this December

americanwoodcockfan:

flipchild:

americanwoodcockfan:

flipchild:

WHAT is that video that looks like spy kids bighead and has skipping audio/video and it’s a comedian (Carlos Mencia?) talking about stoners

Beautiful. Can we focus on the issue at hand

No

terramythos:

They call me handsome because I have some hands

argumate:

nudityandnerdery:

argumate:

has America (and Australia for that matter) had a year that could be described as “peacetime” since the 1930s?

According to this person’s work: 1997 and 2000. The attack on the USS Cole was in 2000, so I’m not sure that really should count. Wikipedia’s list of US military operations only has the military being deployed for assisting evacuations in 1997, though, so maybe that counts?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operation_Northern_Watch

hetstiel:

hetstiel:

hetstiel:

sucks that “incel” is just like a generic insult now synonymous with “virgin” bc if people had much of an idea of what incel ideology actually entails, we could have a conversation about radical feminism being quite literally, beat for beat, incel shit for girls

radfems 🤝 incels:

  • basic, inescapable biology dooms me to be a perpetual victim of the Other (Evil) Sex
  • me and my ingroup are the primary victims of a society that is fundamentally and irreparably broken
  • 99% of people cannot be trusted and will only hurt and disappoint me, so i need to stay sequestered in insular online communities where people won’t try to gaslight me into questioning these truths
  • the outside world becomes harder and harder to bear as people won’t accept my reality, and even my once-closest friends reveal themselves to be of the Enemy
  • eventually i have to accept the fact that nothing will ever, ever change, and i will die alone and deeply unhappy

like radfems also get blackpilled. they fall down pipelines into the deepest darkest extremes of their ideology, and it’s increasingly harder to get these people to reengage with the world specifically because their ideology posits that the world is corrupted and divided into Us and Them, and that the ingroup’s victim status is biological and innate. it’s a system that lends itself naturally to doomerism and blackpilling due partially to the social isolation that comes with it. and it’s equally difficult as with incels to “break through” the isolation because these people do not want help whatsoever. they have been thoroughly conditioned to see attempts at helping as Active Victimization and further proof of the rightness of their beliefs

hetstiel:

hetstiel:

hetstiel:

sucks that “incel” is just like a generic insult now synonymous with “virgin” bc if people had much of an idea of what incel ideology actually entails, we could have a conversation about radical feminism being quite literally, beat for beat, incel shit for girls

radfems 🤝 incels:

  • basic, inescapable biology dooms me to be a perpetual victim of the Other (Evil) Sex
  • me and my ingroup are the primary victims of a society that is fundamentally and irreparably broken
  • 99% of people cannot be trusted and will only hurt and disappoint me, so i need to stay sequestered in insular online communities where people won’t try to gaslight me into questioning these truths
  • the outside world becomes harder and harder to bear as people won’t accept my reality, and even my once-closest friends reveal themselves to be of the Enemy
  • eventually i have to accept the fact that nothing will ever, ever change, and i will die alone and deeply unhappy

like radfems also get blackpilled. they fall down pipelines into the deepest darkest extremes of their ideology, and it’s increasingly harder to get these people to reengage with the world specifically because their ideology posits that the world is corrupted and divided into Us and Them, and that the ingroup’s victim status is biological and innate. it’s a system that lends itself naturally to doomerism and blackpilling due partially to the social isolation that comes with it. and it’s equally difficult as with incels to “break through” the isolation because these people do not want help whatsoever. they have been thoroughly conditioned to see attempts at helping as Active Victimization and further proof of the rightness of their beliefs

txttletale:

lobotomydog:

anyone else exceedingly unnerved tho about how much information is able to be found about luigi mangione by just like. anyone. like why am i seeing posts about his spotify playlists and gaming catalogue. his twitter, his book reviews, his purchases. i do not need to know a stranger down to every minute detail and neither do you

dudes not even convicted and all of this is still being dredged up btw. like theres nothing stopping this from happening to you either

i understand your broader point (it is ridiculous that every random detail of his life is being treated as newsworthy by a system always in need of content) but there absolutely are ways to stop this happening to you with even the most basic levels of separation between your online accounts and your personal identity. all that stuff you mentioned – goodreads, twitter, spotify – was online under his full legal name. you can absolutely manage your digital footprint in such a way that someone with your full name can’t in fact find all of your accounts with minimal effort

auckie:

Encanto sucked so bad that even when people make valid points about ppl being weird and racist about it I’m like man I don’t care I think we should be as bad towards it as possible just bc Lin Manuel was involved. Disney should make a Latino movie about how much we hate good food and colors and family and loooved what the spaniards did but no character in it is remotely Spanish. Like they’re all nahaus and they love it when the white characters make border jokes. And they should put Danny Trejo in charge of it and then if white people are uncomfortable watching it bc it’s like. Yknow clearly really problematic, we should get so fucking mad at them like. Like violent and start crying and being like oh so you hate Latinos is that it. Oh and every character is like huge tits cock and ass. All of them. Every character has noticeable bulge and disgusting breasts. And their names are like. Flea Bag. Tijuana Trejo (this is Danny trejos chatacter). Clay pot. Gringo (this is the white character played also by danny Trejo). Enchilado (masculine of enchilada). Terracotta nightmare. Basura. Crustache. Racial Harmony. Pinto. Mamá Poop. And they live in a house they call the Pain Room. And it was alive but now it’s dead. I recognize nothing I’m saying is a valid critique of encanto and I apologize. None of this was justified. It would have a 700 million dollar budget and bankrupt the company due to the ensuing legal issues and also no one buys any tickets, and then Latino tiktokers start blaming white fans for killing Disney and marvel. This could change things man. We gotta make this happen. I understand if you choose to ignore this post but as a uh. Checks my id. Chewish batino trans gay mentally and chronically ill person I am begging my white allies. Never mind. Looks sway and blushes. Looks back coyly.

inhaledpie4:

smilelaptop:

evilidiot:

sandmandaddy69:

DO NOT RECREATE THIS PHOTO!!!! this dinner has been plated on a corelle dish from the 70s which contains upwards of 18,000 ppm of lead which is way above healthy levels. Eating skyrim is fine though you mfs eat credit cards anyways.

because of this post i’m finding out that corelle said ANY DISH MADE BEFORE 2005 should be DECORATIVE. This is the best infographic I could find that shows you some of the more popular patterns in case someone viewing this isn’t familiar with the brand.

i swear to god i’m just going to get one of those lead testing kits i’m so tired of seeing a cute plate and then finding out it’s got toxic levels of cadmium, lead, and is somehow also destructively radioactive.

… this is not a day I wanted to find out that many of my plates probably contain dangerous levels of these chemicals

yourplayersaidwhat:

“What do you mean there’s a Bear in the Spiderweb? I thought we were playing D&D, not Skyrim!”

questcult:

echeveriia:

echeveriia:

echeveriia:

i’m starting a collection

the collection grows!!!!!

Don’t forget this one.


maryland-officially:

robonitrogen:

catasters:

@maryland-officially

*dies of adorable*

gutpuker:

“there is something wrong with me” would imply theres something right with other people. which i dont believe

The more I am subjected to trans discourse against my will (there should be a tag for this stuff) the more I feel my brain rotting

At this point you’re talking more about the terms than the things they actually represent??? You have lost the plot

Also, the casual phobia against non-binary people that laces every part of these “discussions” isn’t really encouraging nor does it make me want to agree with anyone here (referring to the those who keep actively discoursing)

tucsonhorse:

lhylice:

dailymanners:

Offer to let other people go ahead of you in line, especially if you’re approaching the line at the same time. This is double applicable if you’re in a store and the other person has fewer items than you.

This is a small gesture of kindness that in most cases will cost you very little time or effort. It shows consideration for other people’s time. Especially in the case of being in a store and letting someone with fewer items than you go first, there is no sense in making someone else wait for you who would otherwise be able to get in and out much quicker.

Let people with a few items go first in line.

Slow down a little and let the person in the lane next to you merge.

Hold the door for someone if you go through first.

Offer napkins to the person at the next table who just spilled their drink.

Help someone pick up things they just dropped.

Say “Thankyou so much!” to workers who help you even though it’s literally their job.

Wish everyone a nice day, because we all need a nice day.

Can confirm, the thank yous to a service worker for doing their job has the potential to be the only thing that sustains us through a shitty day. It’s tiny for you, but big for the other person

elioli-art:

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We’re so excited for you to watch and listen when it’s out! And thank you to our crew! You helped us out so much!!!

voltaspistol:

secondlina:

Sleepy crow.

teaboot:

realmengetpegged:

crazy-pages:

puppybotz:

To everybody claiming that luigi mangione really is the guy.

This is the manifesto the cops say they found

“To the Feds, I’ll keep this short, because I do respect what you do for our country. To save you a lengthy investigation, I state plainly that I wasn’t working with anyone. This was fairly trivial: some elementary social engineering, basic CAD, a lot of patience. The spiral notebook, if present, has some straggling notes and To Do lists that illuminate the gist of it. My tech is pretty locked down because I work in engineering so probably not much info there. I do apologize for any strife of traumas but it had to be done. Frankly, these parasites simply had it coming. A reminder: the US has the #1 most expensive healthcare system in the world, yet we rank roughly #42 in life expectancy. United is the [indecipherable] largest company in the US by market cap, behind only Apple, Google, Walmart. It has grown and grown, but as our life expectancy? No the reality is, these [indecipherable] have simply gotten too powerful, and they continue to abuse our country for immense profit because the American public has allwed them to get away with it. Obviously the problem is more complex, but I do not have space, and frankly I do not pretend to be the most qualified person to lay out the full argument. But many have illuminated the corruption and greed (e.g.: Rosenthal, Moore), decades ago and the problems simply remain. It is not an issue of awareness at this point, but clearly power games at play. Evidently I am the first to face it with such brutal honesty.”


like “ohh yeah we got our guy, he was holding the murder weapon, a manifesto that says "Hey feds! I did that crime and did it with this gun!! this is because the US has the most expensive healthcare but we don’t even live as long as some other countries? and its the fault of the american public who I hate!” anne 10 grand! is obvious that this is our guy, and he’s just a low down criminal who hates your! the american public"

also if they did find him with that why would he respond to their arrest with immediate legal defense rather than dignified resignation like the manifesto implies.

So the manifesto has no actual rhetoric or justification and he demures authority and intelligence. No advice or urging for others to do the same. It frames him as alone and unusual in taking his hatred as far as he has. It says there’s no point trying to get into his devices, yup, definitely no reasons for the cops to try to do so because there’s nothing on there which might contradict their story like location data. (How much you wanna bet they disappear from lockup before the trial?)

And it explicitly praises and gives respect to the cops, when while being taken by cops he shouted “It’s completely out of touch! It’s an insult to the intelligence of the American people!”

Yeah okay, this does it, I’m pretty convinced they’re framing an innocent man. No one willing to throw their life away killing a monster and expecting to get arrested for it and their words distributed is actually writing something like this.

Also like the cops would ever actually publish his real manifesto if they’re worried about class war for real

“We found a manifesto!”

Manifesto: “I did it” followed by 3-4 paragraphs of flowery waffling