recently saw ppl discuss whether they put their medicines in a kitchen cabinet or a bathroom cabinet and i was shocked by the fact that many ppl said kitchen cabinet. so now i need you to reblog this and say where you keep yours
fucking hell i forget that some people violently hate polyamory and are way too proud of admitting it :/
“if my partner suggested polyamory i would kill them and then myself” what happened to being respectful? do you not hear how shitty that is to say ??? whats fucking wrong with people
responses to a “what would you do if your partner suggested polyamory?” poll. what the fuck.
Hey pals, this kind of behavior is a huge red flag. Translate this threat to simple English: “I would punish my partner with emotional and physical violence (or the threat of it) simply for asking a question I don’t like.”
This is manipulation and abuse. The polyamory thing is so incredibly beside the point – if they will threaten to punish you for asking one question they don’t like, then chances are they will threaten/punish you for asking any question they don’t like.
It might not always be physically violent: Someone breaking down into hysterics every time you try to communicate your needs/wants/idle hypothetical curiosities, to the point where you feel afraid to start a good-faith conversation about your relationship because they will blame you for causing their feelings – thatis still manipulation and abuse.
If you feel like there’s no “right way” to advocate for your own needs without causing a catastrophic meltdown in your partner, or if you are afraid of your partner’s patterns of emotional response in any way, that is a symptom of manipulation and abuse. If you feel like you have to be constantly hyper-vigilant about every word you say for fear of hurting them, that is a symptom of manipulation and abuse.
Get out or get help. You are not the bad guy. You are not the bad guy. You are not the bad guy. You are not obligated to stay with someone who has threatened you, threatened themselves as a way of controlling your behavior, or otherwise made you afraid like this. YOU ARE NOT THE BAD GUY. YOU’RE NOT.
If you are in this situation, please consider telling a friend, a trusted mentor, a parent, a therapist, etc about what’s happening. There may be resources in your country for domestic violence services to help you get out if you need to leave and feel like you can’t. (Also please note that although I have used the word “partner” here, you can replace that word with any other word (“friend”, “boss”, “parent”, whatever) and the point still stands.)
Finally, if you are one of the people who answered something like the above screenshots? Friend, this is a come-to-jesus moment, because that is NOT an appropriate way to handle an upsetting conversation. You’re allowed to be upset; you’re allowed to dislike a question; you’re allowed to excuse yourself to another room and cry for a while. It is okay to have big, hurt, scared feelings. It is NOT okay to control someone’s behavior via threats of violence, even if they are threats of violence against yourself. It is NOT okay to browbeat your partner into compliance and silence with your unregulated emotional displays. I really hope you sit with this quietly and think about it.
Keeping an axe in your attic is for when the water rises and you can no longer leave through doorways on lower levels. Lots of people end up trapped or drowning in their attics when flood water rises. The axe is for when you have to make your own exit onto the roof or another structure.
Stay safe everyone 🖤
Life threatening flash flooding is also possible in:
Georgia, North Carolina, South Carolina, eastern Tennessee, southwest Virginia and southern West Virginia
75% of all hurricane deaths are related to water, either from storm surge or flash flooding
Water rescues are already occurring in Florida as of 12:12AM September 27th
>Hear people constantly complaining that the current union leadership is super corrupt, it’s all just the same ten guys making all the decisions in secret and nobody else in the union ever gets to know what’s going on
>Go to the monthly union meetings that are completely open to all 1200 union members
>The only attendees are the same ten guys every month, giving detailed reports about everything that’s going on
Taking a photo of something with two mirrors is not easy. And this was my first success at shooting a mirrored subject like this. And then the 80s color palette is just for vibes.
not a huge fl*wer enjoyer (I <3 disgusting plants with twisted lore) and less so am a commercial fl*wer enjoyer (find it unsettling when they’re named a barcode) but whoever was responsible for mums DID kinda did go off with it I cannot deny
me: can’t even walk down the damn street anymore without a bee trying to tell me about the flowers 2 inches to my left like they’re mother nature’s best gift to earth and everybody
me when I see a plant in a decorative pot that’s been bred so all the flowers bloom at once in a continuous rounded dome kind of growth habit: and I can touch it you say? with an open palm?
It’s with a heavy but hopeful heart that I watch Palestinian families fundraiser on here, slowly accumulating the precious little money to go around that they need to survive. However, not everyone is so lucky. A lot of Palestinians that have not had that kind of luck, that did not get early verification, that did not get massive platforms behind them from large bloggers, have approached me in my inbox, asking me kindly to do what I can for them.
It kills me that I have so little to give myself, but I’ve seen this platform collectively raise enough to change someone’s life. I’ve made a list of Palestinian fundraisers that are extremely low on funds, in the hope that drawing attention to people who have not been lucky at all can help turn that luck around.
I know most of us can’t possibly give enough to get all of these families safe in one go. But please, reblog this list. Pick one or two fundraisers, give what you can, and then keep track of it. Slowly, collectively, we can make a difference in these people’s lives.
Does anyone remember when you weren’t supposed to tell people online your personal info and it was weird and suspicious to ask for it I miss that sometimes
Does anyone remember when you weren’t supposed to tell people online your personal info and it was weird and suspicious to ask for it I miss that sometimes
Does anyone remember when you weren’t supposed to tell people online your personal info and it was weird and suspicious to ask for it I miss that sometimes
Does anyone remember when you weren’t supposed to tell people online your personal info and it was weird and suspicious to ask for it I miss that sometimes
Does anyone remember when you weren’t supposed to tell people online your personal info and it was weird and suspicious to ask for it I miss that sometimes
Does anyone remember when you weren’t supposed to tell people online your personal info and it was weird and suspicious to ask for it I miss that sometimes
Does anyone remember when you weren’t supposed to tell people online your personal info and it was weird and suspicious to ask for it I miss that sometimes
I and some colleagues were talking about how we wish everyone could see the safety videos that our company was showing us, because I don’t think most people understand how traffic works in a truck. So here’s some things we wish everyone on the road knew.
- we’re not kidding about tailgating. If you’re right behind us on a straight highway? Chances are we have NO IDEA you’re there, which means we can’t anticipate any of your movements. Plus slowing down takes multiple downshifts, so we might start decreasing speed way earlier than you expect.
- We’re not kidding about any of our blind spots. WE CAN’T SEE YOU, GUYS.
- That bit about slowing down taking a while? The same goes for when you’re in front of us. Don’t cut off a truck. Oh god, PLEASE don’t cut off a truck. If you cut me off, I’m not irritated, I’m terrified. For YOU. It can take 7 to 9 seconds for us to stop. DON’T CUT OFF TRUCKS.
- Before you get mad about how slow we’re going on the highway, keep in mind that many companies govern their vehicles so they literally CAN’T go over 60 or 65. This is a good thing, I promise. Because…
- Do you know what happens when a car meets a truck in an accident? The car gets totaled and the truck needs a new coat of paint. You will not win this fight. I know nobody likes getting stuck behind a big dumb truck, but it’s not worth your life.
We are trying our best to protect you from our 80,000 pound death machines. Please help us out.
This information is actually useful. Thanks for posting.
Random bonus info. These bad boys
are full of liquid. That liquid? doesn’t wanna stop. A lot of semis that carry liquid have breaks in them to help with that problem, but not milk trucks
To prevent microbe growth, milk trucks are one long tube of inertia wanting to slam into the front of the container when the truck goes to stop
So like, don’t cut off trucks. But REALLY don’t cut off these kinds of trucks. The truck may want to stop, but the milk really really doesn’t.
do not underestimate the freeboard effect. the inertia of sloshing liquid can and has sunk ships that should have been able to float.
There’s an etiquette to typo roasting. Like if they type “on” instead of “in” you overlook that. That’s some autocorrect bs. But if they type “pebis” or some shit that’s when you gotta get his ass
Some of y'all are worse than Facebook moms throwing tantrums about being called cisgender
Why the fuck do some people just wanna be intersex so damn bad? Why does it piss these people off so bad to be reminded they’re not intersex? What will it take to keep perisex people from talking over us?
If you believe shit like this, you;
Don’t know what intersex means
Fetishize/idealize intersex bodies
Are too immature to accept when something isn’t about you
Needless to say; No. An intersex body is NOT always similar to a person trans person’s body. There isn’t just one way a person can be intersex. We deserve non-pathologizing words to describe ourselves and advocate for our recognition as a natural variation in human anatomy. We deserve spaces to discuss our health and our issues, we’re already drowned out by perisex people enough as it is. An intersex person, cis or trans, with Salt-wasting CAH or Sawyer syndrome or pre-cancerous ovotestes or Turner syndrome (+ others) has a far different body with far different needs than any perisex trans person. My variation is not life-threatening or disabling, but it DOES cause medical complications and is a huge headache for my doctors at times! I do not share these issues with perisex trans people! It is not fucking transphobic or “"eugenicist”“ to say that!
Perisex does not imply any specific body type.
Perisex only implies a lack of naturally occurring intersex traits.
Perisex ≠ Cissexual
A perisex body can look like anything. Just as an intersex body can look like anything. Being trans puts you outside the ‘sex binary’, it makes you sex-variant, but it does not make you intersex.
If you believe it is possible to medically transition into Intersexuality, you must also believe medical abuse successfully 'fixes’ us, and makes us perisex.
Referring to words coined & used by intersex people to differentiate our bodies from our oppressors as "eugenicist” is deeply intersexist and frankly fucking entitled.
Yes. I did say perisex people are an oppressor class. You can be a marginalized person and still be part of an oppressive majority (example, I am white). If this makes you angry, that’s not my problem, it’s yours. You need to recognize your privilege as a perisex person before you can be an ally to intersex people.
hi, my name is delilah, im an autistic trans girl trying to figure out life but ive barely got enough money to pay rent and i cant afford my estrogen & other necessities
ive just barely turned 18 and ive already lost my home twice, im dealing with an insane amount of stress and any amount of help would be such a load off my shoulders.
ive lost so much stuff that was dearly important to me, i dont currently have my own bed, and im trying to figure out moving to a new place where rent isnt as encumbering. please, please help if you can
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