Today I was helping run the booth for the local queer non-profit at the farmer’s market and a woman told me that she would like a flag, pointing to our little bucket of flags. So I picked up the bucket and I brought it over and asked her which one she’d like.
“Well, tell me about them!”
“Oh! Okay! This one is the inclusion flag- its for everyone, including allies.”
“What’s this one?”
“That’s the bisexual flag: it represents people who are attracted to two or more genders.”
“Hmm… what about this one?”
“That’s the nonbinary flag: it represents people whose gender isn’t strictly ‘male or female.’”
“Hmm… what’s this purple one?”
“That’s the asexual flag: it represents people who may not feel sexual attraction the way that others do.”
She put her hand to her chest and got this really curious look on her face. “Tell me more about that!”
“Oh, happy to! So like if you’re out with your bestie and someone real fine walks by and she’s like 'omg look at him’ and you’re like 'girl get a grip?’ Or like you just don’t get what the 'big deal’ is about sex or why everyone is so weird about it? But there’s also room for like- you don’t fall in love with the way someone looks, you’re attracted to the person- their sense of humor and their kindness, or there’s something about their personality that just makes it click for you? That’s asexuality, too!”
And she got real quiet and seemed to think about it for a minute. So I grabbed our little informational sheet about different queer identities and handed her a copy. “If you want to do some research, this is probably a great place to start.”
She thanked me and took an ace flag, stuck it in her hair.
Sometimes when you’re online all the time, its easy to think that 'everyone knows about (topic), there’s no reason to keep talking about it so much.’ But while the people on the internet are real people, the internet ISN’T real life. And there are lots of people who do need to know that they do have community!
One of the jokes is that I’m a lot of people’s 'patient zero’ for discovering that they’re queer. This is why.
i do not have and will never have an iphone but i’ve been watching hugh jeffrey’s videos where he keeps exposing apple’s cartoonishly evil anti-repair practices and whatever you think they are doing to keep people purchasing new devices, it is astonishingly worse.
jeffrey’s releases videos every time there’s a new iphone where he tries to switch parts between two brand new, straight-from-the-store working phones and shows how apple has serialized the internal components so multiple phone functions are disabled when a part with a different serial number is put inside it, effectively killing third party repair, as well as scraping non-functioning phones for parts, while iOS deceptively claims that it is a third party part and it is locking the phone for “safety” purposes.
apple was also exposed recently for not only shredding half a million traded-in phones, but taking the company they were hiring to do so to court for failing to destroy products and instead selling some of them on the side 💀
this video jeffrey posted a month ago puts side to side the claims an apple technician gave at a legislative hearing when speaking against oregon’s right to repair bill, and jefferey himself demonstrating that they were, well, lying out of their ass. it doesn’t have nearly enough views imo so i’m sharing it here.
in short: stop buying apple products if you care about the right to repair, reducing e-waste and human rights.
i made a grindr and in under 24 hours i got the most insane unsolicited nude to ever exist. hes fully nude on the beach and in his right hand is a black tipped reef shark i could not make this shit up if i tried
artistic rendition
i fucking wish i had a way to prove this but a) passing around nudes is wrong even when its a 40 year old nudist shark freak and b) he unsent the messages bc my silence made him nervous ig. wish he was instead nervous about sharks around his panenis but im not his dad
btw another pic in the set he sent me was essentially the same photo but the shark was a fishing spear and his penis was erect this time. do you think he meant it as a metaphor thats kind of poignant symbolism
he looked almost regal in a florida man way
actually fuck do you guys think i ghosted Poseidon on grindr be honest its hurricane season and im on the gulf i mean did you SEE what that guy did to odysseus
“We’re grateful that today Assange will be on a flight to Australia, and not to Virginia to face trial and further punishment. The precedent set by this guilty plea would have been far more dangerous had it been ratified by federal courts. But make no mistake, the vital work of national security journalists will be more difficult today than it was yesterday.”
My friend’s kid gave me pinkeye and I have been on a particularly fuckt up sleep schedule about it and dreamed an entire Italian Opera on the themes of heaven and hell and the power of love and recognition of the self in other and the tragedy of loving the idea of something rather than the thing itself and the dream ended with the phrase “-And then it was banned EVERYWHERE.”
The plot starts off with a hybrid of Cinderella and the Taming Of The Shrew where a woman with her own daughter marries a Duke who has an older daughter, and then the Duke dies under “Mysterious circumstances”.
But he leaves in his will that his fortune won’t be disbursed until his daughter (the elder one) marries.
The elder daughter (like, 20ish?) is refusing to get married because her step-mother is trying to set her step-sister (age 12) with IDK A Medieval Italian supreme court judge?? (Age 65) , but the marriage can’t go through until the Duke’s fortune disburses and the mother can pay the dowry.
Other thing about the Eldest Daughter: She Always Speaks The Truth. Not only does she refuse to lie, but kind of like a retroactive Cassandra, everything she says is True. As you can imagine, this is not terribly popular In Fantasy Medieval Italian High Society.
The mother, big mad about being stuck with this stubborn, awkward girl, gets a Lawyer and a Bishop and a bunch of other authority figures to modify the will so that “Should the plague take my eldest, we will not be bereft *wink*” AKA if the eldest just dies or disappears without getting married, the mother will get the money anyway. (They all know she’s going to kill the girl, but they’re getting a cut.) The Step-Mother then, in true operatic fashion of Going Way Too Hard tortures the Elder daughter, and locks her in the basement to bleed out and die.
There, in the darkness, abandoned by God and the Law and Family etc. the daughter turns to the last thing she has left.
BLACK MAGIC
(Come on, it’s Opera. Everybody knows Black Magic)
My friend’s kid gave me pinkeye and I have been on a particularly fuckt up sleep schedule about it and dreamed an entire Italian Opera on the themes of heaven and hell and the power of love and recognition of the self in other and the tragedy of loving the idea of something rather than the thing itself and the dream ended with the phrase “-And then it was banned EVERYWHERE.”
The plot starts off with a hybrid of Cinderella and the Taming Of The Shrew where a woman with her own daughter marries a Duke who has an older daughter, and then the Duke dies under “Mysterious circumstances”.
But he leaves in his will that his fortune won’t be disbursed until his daughter (the elder one) marries.
The elder daughter (like, 20ish?) is refusing to get married because her step-mother is trying to set her step-sister (age 12) with IDK A Medieval Italian supreme court judge?? (Age 65) , but the marriage can’t go through until the Duke’s fortune disburses and the mother can pay the dowry.
Other thing about the Eldest Daughter: She Always Speaks The Truth. Not only does she refuse to lie, but kind of like a retroactive Cassandra, everything she says is True. As you can imagine, this is not terribly popular In Fantasy Medieval Italian High Society.
The mother, big mad about being stuck with this stubborn, awkward girl, gets a Lawyer and a Bishop and a bunch of other authority figures to modify the will so that “Should the plague take my eldest, we will not be bereft *wink*” AKA if the eldest just dies or disappears without getting married, the mother will get the money anyway. (They all know she’s going to kill the girl, but they’re getting a cut.) The Step-Mother then, in true operatic fashion of Going Way Too Hard tortures the Elder daughter, and locks her in the basement to bleed out and die.
There, in the darkness, abandoned by God and the Law and Family etc. the daughter turns to the last thing she has left.
BLACK MAGIC
(Come on, it’s Opera. Everybody knows Black Magic)
My friend’s kid gave me pinkeye and I have been on a particularly fuckt up sleep schedule about it and dreamed an entire Italian Opera on the themes of heaven and hell and the power of love and recognition of the self in other and the tragedy of loving the idea of something rather than the thing itself and the dream ended with the phrase “-And then it was banned EVERYWHERE.”
The plot starts off with a hybrid of Cinderella and the Taming Of The Shrew where a woman with her own daughter marries a Duke who has an older daughter, and then the Duke dies under “Mysterious circumstances”.
But he leaves in his will that his fortune won’t be disbursed until his daughter (the elder one) marries.
The elder daughter (like, 20ish?) is refusing to get married because her step-mother is trying to set her step-sister (age 12) with IDK A Medieval Italian supreme court judge?? (Age 65) , but the marriage can’t go through until the Duke’s fortune disburses and the mother can pay the dowry.
Other thing about the Eldest Daughter: She Always Speaks The Truth. Not only does she refuse to lie, but kind of like a retroactive Cassandra, everything she says is True. As you can imagine, this is not terribly popular In Fantasy Medieval Italian High Society.
The mother, big mad about being stuck with this stubborn, awkward girl, gets a Lawyer and a Bishop and a bunch of other authority figures to modify the will so that “Should the plague take my eldest, we will not be bereft *wink*” AKA if the eldest just dies or disappears without getting married, the mother will get the money anyway. (They all know she’s going to kill the girl, but they’re getting a cut.) The Step-Mother then, in true operatic fashion of Going Way Too Hard tortures the Elder daughter, and locks her in the basement to bleed out and die.
There, in the darkness, abandoned by God and the Law and Family etc. the daughter turns to the last thing she has left.
BLACK MAGIC
(Come on, it’s Opera. Everybody knows Black Magic)
starts punching and tearing at everything in a blind rage. i want AROMANTIC characters i want characters with not an OUNCE of romance about them i don’t JUST want aroace characters i want AROMANTIC characters that AREN’T ASEXUAL i want people to headcanon characters as AROMANTIC not just aroace i want fandom to treat AROMANTICISM as AROMANTICISM, and not a SUBCATEGORY OF ASEXUALITY. RRRAAAAAAAAGHHHHHH
hello, tumblr user. before you is an aromantic character. they have never expressed any hint of asexuality. your task is simple: do not refer to them as an “aroace” or get mad at people writing smut about them. the duration of this task is the rest of your life. if you fail at any point in the future, i will personally shoot you.
Dude, he’s fucking the girl you jack off to. That’s the exact opposite of being cucked.
The comments are full of people going “it’s not like they’re having sex in these examples or anything” so I’ll go ahead and bite the controversy bullet and add:
Even if a sex worker partner is having sex with clients, it’s also literally just work. It isn’t morally wrong. There is nothing wrong with it if both parties in a relationship are aware of the work, and if everyone is being safe.
Sex workers who have sex are no worse or “dirtier” than sex workers who provide other services.
Oh, your husband’s a plumber, huh? He just fixed my pipes and charged me $1000, bet you feel like a real moron when he unclogs your drain with his dick or something idk I didn’t really think about where this was going
I think an important part of the “D&D is easy to learn” argument is that a lot of those people don’t actually know how to play D&D. They know they need to roll a d20 and add some numbers and sometimes they need to roll another type of die for damage. A part of it is the culture of basically fucking around and letting the GM sort it out. Players don’t actually feel the need to learn the rules.
Now I don’t think the above actually counts as knowing the rules. D&D is a relatively crunchy game that actually rewards system mastery and actually learning how to play D&D well, as in to make mechanically informed tactical decisions and utilizing the mechanics to your advantage, is actually a skill that needs to be learned and cultivated. None of that is to say that you need to be a perfectly tuned CharOp machine to know how to play D&D. But to actually start to make the sorts of decisions D&D as a game rewards you kind of need to know the rules.
And like, a lot of people don’t seem to know the rules. They know how to play D&D in the most abstract sense of knowing that they need to say things and sometimes the person scowling at them from behind the screen will ask them to roll a die. But that’s hardly engaging with the mechanics of the game, like the actual game part.
And to paraphrase @prokopetz this also contributes to the impression that other games are hard to learn: because a lot of other games don’t have the same culture of play of D&D so like instead of letting new players coast by with a shallow understanding of the rules and letting the GM do all the work, they ask players to start making mechanically informed decisions right away. Sure, it can suck for onboarding, but learning from your mistakes can often be a great way to learn.
I think this also hurts group dynamics as well.
When you have people that have actually done some reading on the rules vs. people that just coast and foist the majority of the game onto the GM, it makes it appear like the more knowledgeable players are sweaty power-gamers or rules-laywers.
Best example I’ve got with asking players to make informed decisions was when I ran the Wilderfeast Quick Start. The GM has the info about what ingredients can be gathered in any of the regions, but the party then has to cook it. They know what the ingredient does and just have to make the decision on how they want to combine their ingredients as a party.
My point is not to say that people who don’t want to learn the rules shouldn’t play, only that people who don’t actually know the rules aren’t necessarily engaging with the game to its fullest, especially in the case of a relatively rules-heavy game like D&D, and that as the previous poster mentioned it can actually result in a bad rules dynamic where the DM needs to do more work due to player unwillingness to learn the rules as well as casting players who actually know the rules and can engage with them in unfavorable light. All of these are negative elements of the culture of play surrounding.
Like, there isn’t anything meaningfully gatekeepy about saying “players who don’t know the rules of the game aren’t as good at playing the game as the people who know the rules of the game.” Because playing games is a skill that can be cultivated and knowledge of the rules is an important part of that skill.
And respectfully, if the idea of learning the rules of D&D seems like an insurmountable task, you don’t have to learn them, but you might actually gain something out of actually making an effort because it can make engaging with the game more rewarding for you. Or if the idea of learning the rules of a game that has hundreds of pages is an insurmountable obstacle, there are lots of games with much more modest page counts! D&D is actually relatively heavy as far as RPGs go but it’s not the only RPG, and you can get rewarding mechanical engagement combined with cool stories for a much smaller time investment.
Pointing out that, if you’re playing a game with a several-hundred-page rulebook and haven’t even made the effort to read the parts of it relevant to your character, then you’re pushing a lot of cognitive load onto your friends, isn’t gatekeeping. Nobody’s kicking you out of your group for it.
i also think that the OP is kind of more about the people who bite back against people going “hey, maybe try something other than D&D” with “but those games are too crunchy/hard to learn” when they don’t even really know the actual rules of D&D. i mean, i’ve had people like this push back against learning PbtA games.
i really hope this was just an unusual case, but i’ve even had that exist response from one of the local DMs where i live, when i invited him to be a player in a game of Masks i was starting up.
Oh yeah, that was definitely the original context. And it’s really funny to hear “learning another game is hard” as a reason for not engaging in game beyond D&D when clearly people are not learning D&D either if they consider the act of reading the rules beyond the pale.
The folks this post is about are the reason you get dudes on Reddit posting about prepping to DM games for 60+ hours a week and still feeling inadequate.
At this point, it’s a fun game for *almost* everyone at the table. And nobody wants to take on the role that has you showing up to game night with a wagon full of paper, an external hard drive, and a heart condition due to anxiety.
Be kind to your GM. Learn bits of the rules and help out :)
Quite so. If you just want to fool around and occasionally roll some shiny math rocks, that’s a perfectly cromulent aspiration, and there are plenty of games that will give you exactly that – but if you just want to fool around and occasionally roll some shiny math rocks while simultaneously insisting upon using a rules-heavy system whose rules you refuse to learn, what you’re doing in practice is making the GM do all the work of playing your character for you. It isn’t gatekeeping to point this out; it’s simply a fact. To be sure, there are a few GMs who are receptive to that sort of thing – it’s often termed “black box” play in the hobby’s jargon, likening the rules to a box the players can’t see inside – but most GMs merely tolerate having all the work of making your character happen dumped on them for the sake of avoiding drama. It can be worthwhile to think carefully about whether this is something you’re really okay with doing to someone you call a friend.
Like, there’s this stereotype of the “play literally any other game” crowd as a bunch of arty snobs who want to force everybody to play semi-freeform Jungian psychodramas about giant telepathic bugs or what-have-you, but in my experience, the greater part of them are folks who’ve been GMing Dungeons & Dragons for years, and spent that time single-handedly doing all the work of making the game happen, and all they really want is for their group to pick a game whose baked-in expectations regarding mechanical engagement are compatible with the level of engagement they’re actually willing to put forth!
This is all assuming the GM insists on following all the rules to their fullest extent and won’t have any fun improvising or running a casual game. You are all going “if the players’ play style and the GM’s play style are at odds it will not be fun for either,” which is true, but from that you are coming to the conclusion “therefore if you have a casual play style you are a bad player and being shitty to your GM” and, like…if the GM also has a casual play style it is not an issue for a player to have a casual play style!!!!! If you are a player with a casual play style you can find a GM with a casual play style! I am a GM with a casual play style & it’s baffling that this post insists we don’t exist and insists GMs all secretly resent the players that don’t care about the minutiae of the rules. I also don’t care about the minutiae of the rules, I don’t structure my games so that they’ll collapse if no one adheres to the minutiae of the rules. No, players, your GM does not necessarily secretly resent you if you don’t know all the rules. If you ARE a GM and you secretly resent your players, you need to be a goddamn adult about it and TELL THEM your play styles are incompatible instead of being all boo-hoo woe-is-me about your players “not caring” about you. “It’s not fun for people who care about rules to play with people who don’t care about rules” and it’s also not fun for people who don’t care about rules to play with people who care about rules…no one is having fun incorrectly, y'all, you just need to find people you can have fun with.
Like, if this post is about “people that can’t even do the basic character creation,” fine, but “I just wanna go on a fun romp with my friends and roleplay and I don’t care about minmaxing or doing The Most and gaining the The Most XP to level up” is a fine way to be a player. Some people I know don’t even play with XP or levels. You can bend D&D to your will. You can take the bones of D&D and make it a different game. You’re allowed to do that! You can play a non-rules-centric game and have a ton of fun. Even if it isn’t “"technically D&D.”“ You don’t NEED to learn another game, even if it IS be more suited to your play style, if you’re already having fun and have found people that have fun playing D&D the same way you have fun playing D&D!
In discussions of D&D as a game I find it most meaningful to talk about D&D the game as it exists in the rules. I know that more casual playstyles where a large swathe of the rules are ignored exist, but for the sake of discussing D&D as it exists in the rulebooks and for the sake of players developing system mastery in the game of D&D I don’t find it relevant. It’s a valid playstyle and obviously won’t cause friction, but your assumption that I think this playstyle is bad because I don’t explicitly discuss it is implied nowhere in the post, it is simply an inference you chose to make.
So of course if your table is more casual and ignores most of the rules, then this doesn’t apply to your table, because no one is giving you the GM too much rules-knowing burden. But at the same time in tables which ignore most of the rules neither players nor GM are necessarily developing system mastery in a way that translates to other tables.
And yeah this isn’t "about” any specific type of player who doesn’t know the rules, but the notes on this post are full of examples including players not knowing how their characters’ abilities or spells work, which no matter how you slice it is offloading a burden to other players. Not knowing the rules is obviously a gradient and not a binary, but at tables that run the game assuming the rulebooks as a baseline I think knowing at least the rules relevant to your character, as well as the general player-facing rules, should be a minimum.
A couple of additional points:
Conflating “players who refuse to engage with the mechanics” with “casual players” isn’t appropriate. Plenty of players in the former cohort do want to play Dungeons & Dragons with all the bells and whistles in – they just want someone else to do the actual work of understanding them and carrying them out. Basically, they’re approaching tabletop roleplaying like a video game, and treating the GM as the computer. This isn’t a weird edge case; it’s a common problem, and the notes of this post are full of GMs sharing horror stories about it. “I feel like my players are treating me like a game console” is one of the most frequently cited complaints when discussing GM burnout.
Responding to that by going “well, if that does ever happen it’s 100% the GM’s fault for not clearly communicating with their players” is perverse; the GM being expected to do all the work of making the game happen is, itself, the problem.
Also extremely weird how this person conflates “knowing the rules” with “being a minmaxing powergamer who cares primarily about optimization and levelling up” like that’s a pretty big logical leap.
That’s actually a sadly common logical leap! In many D&D spaces players demonstrating knowledge of the rules or expressing system mastery is quickly conflated with being a horrible powergaming munchkin who is then to be punished by the GM. This is such an unhealthy player/GM relationship that one of the best known comedy RPGs, Paranoia, released thirty forty years ago in literally 1984 lampoons this setup.
Anyway I think it’s a really silly conflation to make and a toxic attitude that is unfortunately very common in the culture surrounding D&D! Sad!
They are so important to rodents or are a very important rodent themselves. Please be kind to them and leave offerings of fruit and/or cheese in their inbox.
the best part abt torrenting imo is that it reminds me so much of the old internet with the “12 minutes left, 53 minutes left, 50 minutes left. 2 hrs. ok it’s done.”
1930s news about a trans woman: Well I’ll be curfuffled young Corlotta Jhonson has transformed herself from a dandy into a dame and what a Bombshell she’s become. And How!
1930s news about trans men: Wanted dead or alive this young lady who started wearing trousers, the tomboy terror known only as The Crust is wanted for snorting the President’s personal stash of opium and has slain nearly every senate member in a pistol duel.
Community college is not only OK, it’s a very good idea. 90% of jobs aren’t going to care where you got your degree. For those remaining 10%, here’s a hack that can save you tens of thousands of dollars in tuition.
Go to community college, get an Associate’s Degree in General Ed. This will take you two years, and it is statistically likely that at the end of those two years you will have a better idea of what you want to actually do with your life than you did when you were fucking seventeen years old.
THEN Decide on your major. If you need a Prestigious School, you are much more likely to get in with an associate’s degree and a good GPA than you were with a diploma and a good GPA. Since you have an associate’s degree, those credits are locked. None of this “Okay, you can transfer to our college, but you’re going to have to retake your English Credits and maybe another humanities course” shit. You have a degree that says you completed that part of your education, and you can now concentrate on the remaining two years required for a four year degree in your major.
Stage 1: using your native language’s idioms in English out of habit/lack of knowledge
Stage 2: using English idioms as much as you can to prove that you’re good at English
Stage 3: using your native language’s idioms in English because they fuck actually
“either take off your cross or put on your underwear” (ukrainian) to say that you can’t have both things at once is my favorite expression to ever exist in any language. i needed to put this out into the world so bad, im finally free.
I’m gonna write some:
“you can’t put doors to the countryside” referring to something you cannot control
“to honour which saint?🤨” A response to someone doing such a bizarre thing that you can only assume it’s for a very specific god ritual (what my mom says when I’m caught cooking a full meal at 3am)
“my mouth is dryer than Christ’s sandals” or nsfw version “dryer than a doll’s underwear”
“never say from this water I shan’t drink” like never say never.
“to write the dots on the i’s” to make a negotiation very clear, point out flaws.
“you have to feed him separately” as in ‘this person is a handful’
“it’s like throwing daisies to the pigs” wasteful, or useless, unappreciated act
“no one gave you a candle in this burial” you don’t have permission to talk/give your opinion
“it’s like going to pee and not letting even a drop” pointless, absurd, waste of time
“when the devil is bored he kills flies with his tail” when someone you hate is suspiciously idle and seems innocent (and you KNOW!!! they’ll do something)
“my saint went back to the sky” meaning you were so distracted/zoned out that you didn’t even notice a saint had descended to help you until it left lmao
“I’m more tied up than a Roman’s leg” (refering to Roman knee high sandals) it means you’re very busy
Welsh has a couple that absolutely slap, but the best one is:
“There’s no use lifting your petticoats after you’ve pissed” - essentially 'don’t cry over spilt milk’, what’s done is done so you just have to deal with it
I WISH english had an equivalent for “leglo kao budali šamar”
Which is basically “it landed/fit/belonged like a slap on an idiot’s face” all at once. Like, tfw a meal was so good and satisfying you’d compare it to the satisfaction of slapping an idiot.
I think “playing the flute in front of a bull” is fun, which basically means trying to explain something to someone who’s a complete numbskull
on the one hand this is a joke post because lol i have never made a good post in my life, but also, if i hadn’t made the connection
between this update and my sudden nosedive in activity, i would have been really fucking discouraged about all the shit i’ve been working on lately. i guarantee there are people on tumblr right now who haven’t made that connection, and who are trying to figure out why suddenly no one likes anything they’ve made. and that fucking sucks.
Reminder to go into your settings and turn off ‘Best Stuff First’ because my activity’s tanked a couple days ago for no reason so this stuff IS happening.
You WILL miss content with that setting on.
i ain’t joking when i say that my activity looks JUST like this too and i wasn’t sure why
I can only find the option on the app under Settings > Dashboard Preferences.
To support content creators do us a favour and turn off “Best stuff first”. Open the tumblr app (Android or iOs) and go to “Settings > Dashboard Preferences. And please reblog this post, so that everybody will see this. Thank you very much!
I assumed I just wasn’t writing very well, but maybe it’s not just me.
Am I supposed to pay to get my writing in front of followers now?
We interrupt your regularly-scheduled sci-fi content because this is important for app users, and it sucks. We all follow blogs because we want to see their content, not to have a crappy algorithm decide what’s best.
This blog is down approximately 80%, which doesn’t affect me other than as an annoyance (as this is a hobby and @okayto is small-ish) but the issue undoubtedly hurts others.
Below are instructions for turning it off. You have to do it individually–it doesn’t matter if a blog you follow turns it off, you’ll still be affected unless you do the same.
We don’t normally reblog PSAs, but this is very clearly affecting us, too! If you haven’t been getting your daily dose of RPG humor, this setting is probably why. Turn it off so you can see all the silly shit players say!
Trying to reblog the versions of these instructions with the most notes, so they’ll actually show up for the people afflicted by this update.
TRANS OHIOANS - START STOCKPILING YOUR HRT AND PLAN HOW YOU WILL BE ABLE TO CONTINUE YOUR TRANSITION CARE
Ohio has taken a page out of Florida’s book and is proposing to effectively ban adult transition care via the requirements of numerous specialists - a psychiatrist, endocrinologist, and a bioethicist.
Since most trans people get their HRT from nurse practioners via the informed consent model, this will create undue burden on both trans people and the medical system – the bottlenecks will effectively ban transition care for adults. This is what has happened in Florida, and Ohio’s rules look much more draconian and surveiliance-heavy. All trans healthcare will be reported to the state.
These new rules have not taken effect yet. Trans Ohioans should plan for the worst now.
The rules are open to public comment through 5pm Friday, Jan 19, 2024. The full copy of the rules and how to comment are below:
As a Floridian who saw the writing on the wall and fled his state (my clinic hasn’t been allowed to fill HRT prescriptions since May 2023 now) – do not delay on making preparations. If this is approved, the rules will likely catch everyone by surprise. Start talking with your providers now and plan out your options assuming the ban will take place.
Wow what I never realized the colors were inverted
You’d think I would have noticed that
That’s the point. The world Coraline lives in is supposed to be boring and gray, but the people are what give it life and purpose. In the Other Mother’s world the people are plastic puppets where she pulls the strings because it presumably changes for every child she takes, but the world around them is bright and colorful for the purpose of enticing the children to stay… before they notice the inhabitants are nothing but dust.
There are reasons I love this movie so much! I mean, the book is fantastic, but the things Laika did with the visuals are just incredible. It’s such a beautiful world.
