people in the global south: hey isnt it so fucked up how america basically dictates world geopolitics and can directly fund and endorse our murder and displacement no matter who is in charge and how the system fundamentally prevents people from changing that and that americans who feign allyship make no effort to change that?
some annoying fucking white person with hufflepuff in their bio: so you’re telling me you want me to vote for trump right. is that what you want. you want me to vote for the orange man. you’re a russian bot aren’t you
Unfortunately, after 3.5 years, COVID finally sunk its teeth into me. Thankfully it wasn’t TOO bad, but it has cost me a week of work, maybe more depending on when I start testing negative and can go back in. I recently started going back to college for a new degree, so I was already working less than normal, which means losing even just the single week will MASSIVELY impact my ability to pay my bills. I’m single and live alone, so there’s no one around to help pick up the slack a bit. I’m also maxed out on hours at work and because it’s a student job, there’s a lot of weird rules around hours and such that mean I can’t even try and make up my missing hours at all in the coming weeks. So I’m doing this little fundraiser to hopefully make up for the missed work, and pay for some additional little expenses being sick incurred such as food deliveries and various odd “I’m sick and miserable” supplies.
Thank you so much to everyone who helps. It is truly, truly appreciated.
daaaaaamn forcing a shitty live streaming platform and constantly pissing off your userbase with transphobic moderation practices and condescending statements from staff members didn’t make this site profitable, who knew. weird how nobody wants to buy merchandise from you when you’re ignoring user feedback either? daaaaaamn should’ve done more a/b testing I guess
“600 person years of work went into trying to salvage this site” and how many of those went into making the desktop UI changes that everyone vocally hated. how many of those went into making the mobile experience worse with the stupid lightbox view for images and the video player that’s a pain in the ass to fucking pause.
daaaaaamn forcing a shitty live streaming platform and constantly pissing off your userbase with transphobic moderation practices and condescending statements from staff members didn’t make this site profitable, who knew. weird how nobody wants to buy merchandise from you when you’re ignoring user feedback either? daaaaaamn should’ve done more a/b testing I guess
“600 person years of work went into trying to salvage this site” and how many of those went into making the desktop UI changes that everyone vocally hated. how many of those went into making the mobile experience worse with the stupid lightbox view for images and the video player that’s a pain in the ass to fucking pause.
“she’s 20 and im 23 so like that would be bordering on pedophilia” what the fuck are tiktokers on about
everyone reblogging this with “well yea they’re like 12 years old ofc they think like this” are rly proving once again that this is the pissing on the poor website
I miss the days when, no matter how slow your internet was, if you paused any video and let it buffer long enough, you could watch it uninterrupted
If you use Firefox, you can go to the about:config page, search for “media.mediasource.enabled” and double click on it to set it to false. After you restart Firefox, all youtube videos will load entirely even when paused! This also affects other streaming websites :)
We should build out a national High-speed rail network, it would significantly improve the lives of millions of Americans while lowering carbon emissions and travel times
I think this person on reddit summed up the youtube adblocker situation perfectly. my reaction to this is not “oh man guess I’ll watch ads.” its, “well, I guess I’ll just do something more productive with my time.” I highly doubt any adblock user is going to willingly go back to watching ads. so what actually happens is youtube loses a functionally tiny amount of its userbase–because adblockers weren’t even losing them a significant amount of money in the first place(!)–and a bunch of adblock users move on to something else. what a fantastic waste of time and effort
Some of you need to hang out with normal people and just stop overthinking and blast some pop music and have a nice beverage
I refuse to listen to radio music.
All modern pop music is some whore singing about her cunt.
No thanks.
I will listen to literally anything but Pop. Black fucking Tschiakowsky or Judas Priest, I don’t care, but for the love of God, anything but Pop. Or Rap. Otherwise I will take anything. Classic, Rock, Metal, if you insist rap, Electro, Jazz, Swing, fucking russian tribal synth, but not Pop.
realism at work. no, in fact, i would rather have the dissolution of the united states, a blowjob, and a suit tailored just for me in a lightweight italian wool.
”discord is for gaming” “discord is for talking to classmates” discord is for popping open the general chat in a server at 3 in the morning to go “hey guys i just remembered i can recite all of psalm 24 king james version from memory. im gonna type it” and then doing that
Obviously all eyes are now on Gaza but the west bank is undergoing some nauseating horrors of its own
Major checkpoints are closed, cafes are empty, the once-overflowing university classrooms are void of students and produce on the shelves of stores is starting to dwindle. Travel between cities and to surrounding villages has become a dangerous and difficult feat.
“We do not leave Ramallah – all the roads are closed and there are checkpoints everywhere. People are afraid, and we cannot take responsibility for anyone’s life,” said 35-year-old driver Ali Jamal Taleb. […]
In the occupied West Bank and East Jerusalem, the Israeli army has stepped up its daily deadly raids on Palestinian neighbourhoods, villages and cities. Killings of residents by armed settlers have also become more frequent, leaving people in a state of fear.
More than 100 Palestinians have been killed by the army and settlers in those areas over the past 21 days.
The tense atmosphere and closures in the occupied West Bank have affected almost all sectors of society.
You ended up in a utopian parallel world. The catch? People are so good in that world, that you’re now literally the most evil person alive.
I never knew I had so much potential in me. That I could be some one who is remembered years and years after my death. Although to be remembered as the most evil person to have existed in the history of humanity isn’t exactly pleasant, it is still a great achievement.
I threw garbage outside the trash can on more than one occasion. I cut the line at the ATM machine. I even played Stairway to Heaven inside two guitar stores while trying out guitars with speakers. All this I did within a week and I’m all over the news with just this.
God knows I was born to be great. I love this world so much. These people are too good to punish me too harshly so the worst I’ve faced is to be assigned two yoga classes a day for one whole week. I even enjoyed few of the punishments. The pineapple pizza wasn’t really bad but rather enjoyable. I’m really evil, clearly.
so when straight people ask me why I say I’m “queer” or “gay” instead of sharing my actual identity as a panromantic demisexual non-binary sapphic queer I just tell them “ok look, when you’re talking to someone who isn’t local and they ask you where you’re from and you either say the name of the largest city nearby or ‘town name, suburb of large nearby city’ so they can get some geographical context of where you’re located right, bc they’re probably not going to know the name of the little town you actually live in.”
but if you’re talking to a local you can say the name of your actual town bc they have a greater chance of knowing where/what that is.
ok well when I’m talking to a straight person I start with queer bc chances are they aren’t as familiar with the context of all the little towns in that big queer city and need gps (gay positioning system) to find me.
if I’m talking to another queer person and I say I live in a suburb of gay city in a town called panromantic on the demisexual side of the tracks which is in the county of queer and I live off the intersection of non-binary and sapphic, they’d probably be able to find me with little to no problems, make sense?
Also because my exact address in Queertown is usually nobody’s business.
Zombies shouldn’t growl or snarl, they should babble a mixture of incomplete word sounds and whole words or sentence fragments. Every zombie should sound almost but not quite like it’s trying to tell you something.
this may not be what you’re saying, but what I’m hearing is that zombies should make everyone feel like they’ve developed sudden onset audio processing disorder.
Like if you could just hear it more clearly, you’d understand what they’re saying, but in reality it’s nonsense and there’s nothing to understand.
And damn if it doesn’t convince so many folks that their loved ones are still in there, they just need to keep them locked up safely in the barn until someone finds the cure, then everything can go back to the way they were.
THIS is exactly what this particular zombie trope is missing. Like we all understand, conceptually, that this still looks like someone they love, but it would be 1000 times more effective if it still somewhat behaved like someone they love.
oooh muscle memory. i’m not into zombie media enough to tell if this has been done or not but. zombies that will automatically reach into their pocket for their phone when they hear a ring, even if it’s dead, broken or lost. zombies that reach up to play with their hair or necklace, the same way your loved one did. zombies that bite their nails. a zombie rolling up its sleeves with perfect practice while looking at you with the utterly blank eyes of a dead animal
This is why I really love The Return of the Living Dead because they introduced not only the whole “zombies eat brains” thing, but they talked. They communicated that they were in pain, and if they ate brains, it would make the pain go away momentarily. It’s what made them so much more interesting and horrifying to me because there was no clean-cut way to kill them, and they’re suffering the whole time, allowing you to actually see them as people again. Also, they were smart!! They could figure out how to solve puzzles! An unstoppable force that you can not defeat.
I just think everyone should know that the only thing I was thinking about when I wrote this post originally is how I don’t understand what my cat is trying to tell me when he says “meow.”
There are a lot of notes here and it’s not my fault, I was looking at my cat and thinking about how he probably doesn’t think like directly in sentences because he’s a cat so his brain is probably more like [thing / concept-feeling] -> (noise type) insofar as his body has the ability to make a sound associated with something that his brain has the capacity to formulate, so I can’t really understand my cat per se, but I wish I knew what exactly his concept-feeling sounds were in more detail other than when he’s begging for food.
[ID: A 6-panel, black and white comic. The panels are as follows:
1. The text “There is only one pronoun in Cantonese” next to that pronoun, 佢, written in grid paper.
2. White text against black. It reads, “Not neutral as in a statement. Neutral as in ‘never considered’“
3. A child on the ground, laying on their stomach with a pen in hand, in front of the paper with
佢
on it. Text next to them reads, “I think that’s part of why I didn’t consider gender much as a kid”
4. Someone wearing a qipao and two braids, drawn from the neck down. They put a hand up in a “stop” gesture at someone else’s hand, which reaches towards them from offscreen. Text reads, “But like the Mandarin 他 / the white people came / split 女 from 人”
5. Text reading “Split
into 他 她” The two pronouns are written so that they form the labels of bathroom doors.
6. A person gestures forward. Blood drips from their mouth and the center of their palm. Text reads, “I gender myself in a tongue that is not my own / and taste the bitterness of colonization”
note - there were only 2 criteria for this list, artists had to be both:
1. considered popular and/or overplayed
2. heavily made fun of or meme’d on on tumblr
don’t try and read any deeper than that bc I really couldn’t care less about how otherwise comparable or not these artists are thanks, ok so nobody actually be an asshole about anyone elses music taste or the music in general but like ig idgaf if you have beef with the artists themselves lmao
If Imagine Dragons was a mid tier popularity band they would be enjoyed. Punished by over-saturation.
Ahhhhh weve got to the point of closet and transition where we choose shirts partly by how much they hide our boobs
We’re becoming more powerful day by day <3
This is just a random tip I use that is very helpful for colder weather but large sweaters are absolutely everything. And they’re usually cheap at stores like Walmart, and good quality
They’re also comfy! :D
they are! And most times if you’re lucky you’ll find ones in color that fit comfortably
yeeee! they’re quite nice <3
esp when they’re fitting, but just a Lil oversized. for Aesthetic
youtubers love to say “i hope i’m pronouncing that correctly” while recording themselves in a video that they upload to the internet, which they have access to
Hint: its because the video is not as well researched as its presentation implies
Hint: it’s because sometimes it’s hard to pronounce words especially if you don’t use them very often
Don’t leave this in the tags!! They’re good points! An attempt is better than nothing!
It’s one thing to listen to a correct pronunciation. It’s another to actually have your mouth form the words, especially when you’re using a sound you don’t normally use in your native language.
Maybe they’re not saying “I didn’t look up the actual pronunciation and I’m just winging it.” Maybe it’s “I looked it up and it uses a sound that I don’t use in my day to day speech and I don’t think I did it quite right but I tried.”
And sometimes, there aren’t sufficient resources to teach you the correct pronunciation! Sometimes you’ll get bot-made videos that contradict each other.
This this this this. As someone who struggles to pronounce a couple of words I use fairly often my FIRST LANGUAGE, thanks to those particular sounds just being difficult shapes for me to string together coherently, I am constantly afraid of fucking up words in other languages or even just with roots in other languages.
It’s one thing to not even try, but the “I hope I’m doing this correctly” isn’t always “I’m hoping I can just wing this word with whatever I think it’s supposed to sound like,” a lot of times it “okay so I’ve looked it up and tried it a few times so I’m really hoping its coming out right, but I’m not used enough to the language to really be sure .”
Languages are fucking DIFFICULT for a lot of people. Not just the repeating/speaking part, but also the ability to HEAR and RECOGNIZE the patterns and sounds.
I think it’s also important to add… a lot of the researchers for videos or podcasts aren’t the hosts. The host themselves may not have had the foreknowledge to look a name pronunciation up or have the ability to do it then and there during recording (time during the schedule, internet access, studio rules, etc etc).
different languages use different sounds, and not only do we struggle to vocalize sounds we aren’t used to, it is very common when one language distinguishes between two sounds but the languages a person speaks doesn’t that their brains literally can’t tell the sounds apart.
When a language make a distinction that, in your sound inventory, are the same sound? Yeah, you’re fucked for pronouncing it. There’s a reason that people who learn other languages have accents from their primary language which persist for years without intense and specialized training. You can listen to somebody pronounce it but not only do you not know how to physically make the inside of your mouth make the sound, you might not know how to make your brain hear the sound in the first place.
A lot of languages like Russian and Turkish have sounds they make distinctions between that to English speakers is just “k”, and the Chinese distinction between what we romanize as Shi and Xi are just the same fucking sound to us. Grow up speaking Japanese? Congrats, the rhotic R and lateral L are both the same liquid consonant and you hear them both as the same thing. Speak Arabic as a first language? Good luck with English’s distinction between Sh and Ch!
I know where this comes from, it’s tumblr’s sympathy with the very real problem that many people with names in foreign languages experience where people don’t even try to pronounce their names correctly and refuse to learn even when you try to teach them.
But somewhere along the way we picked up the idea that any mispronunciation is just people not trying hard enough and deliberately being an asshole when like, no, different languages are different in a way that goes beyond grammar and vocabulary, in a way that interacts with a part of our brain which streamlines sounds into meaning in a way that actually obscures the precise specifics of what you are hearing. When you get this far into it, you loop around to treating people shitty for not speaking second languages perfectly and congrats we’re back to the very xenophobia we were trying to avoid.
I’m glad folks are expressing this. Whenever we encounter non-English proper nouns on the podcast, I get really anxious about saying them correctly. (“Oh no, I’m one of those horrible ignorant Americans people are always complaining about online, maybe I should just cut this whole section out of the recording to hide my shame…”)
It’s kind of a no-win situation. Just confidently saying the word incorrectly is obviously the wrong approach. Posts like the OP tell me it’s also wrong to acknowledge that you might be mispronouncing it. (And I’ve seen similar posts saying that, if you’re conversing with a native speaker, it’s also wrong to ask them how to pronounce stuff because, like, it implies that these are Strange and Exotic Words for you or something.) So what do you even do when you come across a personal name or place name or etcetera that you don’t know how to say?
The only option remaining is to Already Know and say it right the first time without any qualification or hesitation. So you go to look it up ahead of time, and… surprise! Whatever massive database full of reliable pronunciations people think you can just search through doesn’t exist. More often than not, all you get are those bot-made recordings @syphabelnyades mentions. And even if you were willing to trust the pronunciation of a random Youtube channel (which, why would you be? what are this robot’s qualifications?), they’re obviously untrustworthy because they often contradict each other. (Which you know because you checked more than one, because you know enough about information literacy to not just blindly trust the top Google result, which i kind of suspect is what these people who swear you can just easily Google unfamiliar pronunciations are doing.) Like, we all know that Googling something these days gets you mostly junk that you have to sift through in order to find anything reliable. The same applies here — and in the situation where all of your results are pretty sketchy looking (this website says it’s pronounced such-and-such, but it’s not clear who made this website or where they get their information and it kind of looks like it might just be another bot), what are you meant to trust?
Now, sometimes you can get an actual dictionary entry (extremely rare if you’re looking for a proper noun, though, since dictionaries generally don’t include those), or you’ll luck out & the Wikipedia entry will include the IPA. Then you have to deal with the fact that it’s still an unfamiliar word. People mispronounce words that aren’t from their native language all the time! This is known! This happens even when they’re relatively fluent in that language and have years of education and immersion to lean on! Of course it’s going to be hard if you don’t speak the language at all. Different languages have different phonemes — even if you’re pretty familiar with IPA and know what all the symbols mean (I recommend learning the IPA, incidentally, it is a useful tool and it’s interesting in its own right), your mouth does not have practice making those sounds. You’re going to screw up. And then there’s the whole issue of allophones that @open-sketchbook describes. Or maybe it’s a tonal language or something, and you’re not used to that even being an aspect of pronunciation that carries real lexical weight. There are challenges, is what I’m saying.
At the end of the day, you’re going to have to make peace with the fact that you’re not fully confident in how you’re saying that word. But if you acknowledge this on air, you’re going to get folks like OP up there going “oh, you didn’t even bother to look it up.” Like, no! I tried! I’m doing my best! When I say I might be pronouncing something wrong, I’m just acknowledging that I am a flawed and fallible human who does not speak every language I encounter with perfect ease, and that I want to apologize for any errors I might make. That seems obviously better than just forging ahead, probably saying it wrong, and not admitting it.
Because what is the alternative? Make sure you only ever mention people & places that have English names so that you never have to try and say a word from an unfamiliar language? Seems bad!
(Also, I do want to acknowledge a bit of hypocrisy on my part here in that for French words specifically, I have basically given up on getting them right. Those I do sometimes just sort of wing because I know it’s going to be wrong anyway, and I’m sorry. Other languages I do look stuff up and try my best, but French… look, I know I shouldn’t be throwing stones from the glass house that is English orthography, so I’ll just stop there.)
“I acknowledge I might get this wrong” is never identical to “I did no research on this.” Someone who didn’t think of researching something is NOT going to acknowledge that it might be wrong, they’ll just proceed confidently with their wrongness.
I’m Deaf. There are words I’ve never actually heard. I can stare at the pronunciation guide for five hours and still be no wiser because they look like runes to me.
But I’m still gonna try and apologise if I’m not sure.
What the fuck is up with borzoi by the way, those fuckers are never just doing dog shit. Those things don’t play fetch or bark at the postman they’re always looming or being foreboding or predicting the exact date of your death or some shit
What the fuck is up with borzoi by the way, those fuckers are never just doing dog shit. Those things don’t play fetch or bark at the postman they’re always looming or being foreboding or predicting the exact date of your death or some shit