November 2023

aflo:

xxspronkus420xx:

world-heritage-posts:

geosaurusrex:

I bought this last night. This is a total game changer. Internet fame, here I come.

world heritage post

Holy shit what. This is like if someone in ancient sumeria had a camera

we should’ve killed him when we had the chance

girlzero:

girlzero:

girlzero:

Ohhh Musk has no idea how badly he’s fucked up

Tesla Faces its First Ever Strike after Refusing to Negotiate with Swedish Union

  • The strike was initiated by IF Metall after five years of Tesla refusing to negotiate a collective agreement.
  • It is the first formal labor conflict called against Tesla anywhere in the world.
  • The National Mediation Office summoned both parties, but Tesla’s representatives quickly withdrew from negotiations.
  • The strike was then extended to include all repair shops servicing Tesla vehicles in Sweden.
  • Swedish employer unions have also pressured Tesla to cave and align with the country’s labour model.
  • Strikebreakers have been sent in, a tactic forbidden since the 1930s by agreement between the Swedish unions and employers. (Ie. not illegal but liable to make the entire country hate you.)

As noted by Atle Høie, general secretary of IndustriALL, an industrial union confederation representing 50 million workers in 140 countries: “Elon Musk’s business model is to avoid respecting human rights. Now he is taken on by one of our strongest unions. We must defeat the Tesla business model, and Sweden is the best place to start.”

Sweden has one of the highest rates of unionization out of the Nordics (which have the highest rates of unionization globally alongside Cuba and Vietnam) and the thing about that is you get sympathy strikes:

There’s already talk of launching similar strikes here in Norway if the Swedes aren’t heard. For an idea of what happens if they keep this up, let’s look at the time McDonald’s tried these kinds of tactics:

Or Toys R Us:

Tesla’s presence in the country is limited compared to those, but I think it’s fair to say their choice is going to be between pulling out or caving to their demands, because these kinds of threats to union power are not tolerated.

If you’ve seen news declaring the strike was called off and that the workers are all happy with their jobs: It’s misinfo, those are scabs, the strike is on and it could very well break Tesla’s resistance to unionization and trigger a domino effect in other countries if the Swedes win out.

It’s confirmed, Tesla is doubling down and the strikes are ramping up!!

The import blockade began in select cities today, and Tesla has already tired to get around it. The unions have responded by extending the blockade to every port in the country, with further measures in the works if Musk refuses to budge.

With Musk controlling Twitter/X now, discussions about it on there are predictably filled with trolls and detractors. The workers at Tesla could all be tremendously happy with their jobs and it would not change the fact that this is an attack on the entire labour model that gives other workers decent conditions. This is not just about Tesla, it’s about preventing it from setting a precedent for other employers.

IF Metall have asked people to talk about this on social media, particularly on X, to counteract Musk’s army of trolls and build awareness and support for the strikes, so please do if you can. Here’s an up-to-date (Nov 7th) article in English which you can share:

Talk about it! Post about it! (Be more concise than me about it!) The hate they’re getting from Musk’s shills on X right now is insane.

girlzero:

girlzero:

girlzero:

Ohhh Musk has no idea how badly he’s fucked up

Tesla Faces its First Ever Strike after Refusing to Negotiate with Swedish Union

  • The strike was initiated by IF Metall after five years of Tesla refusing to negotiate a collective agreement.
  • It is the first formal labor conflict called against Tesla anywhere in the world.
  • The National Mediation Office summoned both parties, but Tesla’s representatives quickly withdrew from negotiations.
  • The strike was then extended to include all repair shops servicing Tesla vehicles in Sweden.
  • Swedish employer unions have also pressured Tesla to cave and align with the country’s labour model.
  • Strikebreakers have been sent in, a tactic forbidden since the 1930s by agreement between the Swedish unions and employers. (Ie. not illegal but liable to make the entire country hate you.)

As noted by Atle Høie, general secretary of IndustriALL, an industrial union confederation representing 50 million workers in 140 countries: “Elon Musk’s business model is to avoid respecting human rights. Now he is taken on by one of our strongest unions. We must defeat the Tesla business model, and Sweden is the best place to start.”

Sweden has one of the highest rates of unionization out of the Nordics (which have the highest rates of unionization globally alongside Cuba and Vietnam) and the thing about that is you get sympathy strikes:

There’s already talk of launching similar strikes here in Norway if the Swedes aren’t heard. For an idea of what happens if they keep this up, let’s look at the time McDonald’s tried these kinds of tactics:

Or Toys R Us:

Tesla’s presence in the country is limited compared to those, but I think it’s fair to say their choice is going to be between pulling out or caving to their demands, because these kinds of threats to union power are not tolerated.

If you’ve seen news declaring the strike was called off and that the workers are all happy with their jobs: It’s misinfo, those are scabs, the strike is on and it could very well break Tesla’s resistance to unionization and trigger a domino effect in other countries if the Swedes win out.

It’s confirmed, Tesla is doubling down and the strikes are ramping up!!

The import blockade began in select cities today, and Tesla has already tired to get around it. The unions have responded by extending the blockade to every port in the country, with further measures in the works if Musk refuses to budge.

With Musk controlling Twitter/X now, discussions about it on there are predictably filled with trolls and detractors. The workers at Tesla could all be tremendously happy with their jobs and it would not change the fact that this is an attack on the entire labour model that gives other workers decent conditions. This is not just about Tesla, it’s about preventing it from setting a precedent for other employers.

IF Metall have asked people to talk about this on social media, particularly on X, to counteract Musk’s army of trolls and build awareness and support for the strikes, so please do if you can. Here’s an up-to-date (Nov 7th) article in English which you can share:

Talk about it! Post about it! (Be more concise than me about it!) The hate they’re getting from Musk’s shills on X right now is insane.

nonbinary-arsonists:

Page 1: Four zoomed out panels showing various characters from The Amazing Digital Circus. Instead of dialog, they talk in generic icons. Panel 1: Gangle comes across Kinger's pillow fort and asks to come inside. Panel 2: Kinger opens the pillow door and Gangle happily walks in. Pomni looks intrigued. Panel 3: Pomni asks to come in. Panel 4: Ragatha asks to come in with Zooble looking interested behind her. ALT
Page 2: Panel 1: Jax scratches the back of his head and walks aimlessley. He asks, "Man, where the bleep is everyone?" His swear is bleeped out with Caine's face. Panel 2: Jax kicks at Kinger's fort. He says, "King-face, you see where" but is interrupted.  ALT
Page 3: Panel 1: Jax looks shocked, lit from the back. His ears have turned into an exclamation point and a question mark. Panel 2: A scene showing the inside of Kinger's pillow fort. Pomni, Gangle, Zooble, and Ragatha are all sound asleep on the many pillows. Pomni is curled up in a ball. Gangle is a pile of ribbon. Only Zooble's head is visible. Ragatha is face-down in the soft floor. Kinger leans out.  ALT
Page 4: Panel 1: Kinger says, "Jax! Come on in!" He looks excited. There are sparkles surrounding his head. Panel 2: Jax looks away, crossing his arms and smiling. He says, "Pff. You really think I'd join you in your stupid..." He trails off. Panel 3: Jax looks back towards the fort. One of his ears droops and he holds an arm uncomfortably. He says, "Comfy..."ALT
Page 5: A zoomed out page with no background, similar to the first page. Panel 1: Jax stands in silence as Kinger stares at him. Panel 2: Jax walks toward the fort, saying, "Alright make room." Kinger "smiles."ALT

I will take that rabbit and give him found family whether he LIKES IT or NOT.

Click for higher quality + alt text :)

AITA for pressing the “emergency” button?

Alright, so, I’m PRETTY sure I’m justified in this, but a lot of people (the entire police force) think I was crazy and stupid for it, so here we are! For context I am a white blood cell and it is literally my Job to do what I did. Yeah? Okay. Here we go.

So, I live inside this human (F) and I’m gonna be honest here, he’s not great. Doesn’t respect us, constantly shovelling nasty unhealthy stuff into his body, you know how it is. One day F ate a really polluted oyster while at a school fair, and I just so happened to be at the stomach to see it coming. You know what I saw? Bad bacteria! Viruses! They were just hanging out in there, ready to escape the stomach and take over the rest of the body! Naturally I couldn’t let that happen.

But see, here’s the thing. There’s a button that you can press down there that evacutates the stomach, pretty simple process, just put things back where they came in. But this button is only for “emergencies”. As in, F would be in life threatening danger if the button is not pressed. Now look at the current situation… That seemed like an emergency to me! I mean- I cannot even begin to describe how nasty those guys in there looked! They’d have torn F to shreds!

So I pressed the button….. And F’s stomach evacuated, all right. Right onto his daughter’s teacher. It was in the news. Really horrible.

I feel really justified in this, because I saved F’s life, and my (work) partner agrees with me, but I still have an entire police force against me on it, not to mention our mayor. So let me know what you think!

AITA?

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just-broken-thoughts:

just-shower-thoughts:

Using Internet Explorer to download Chrome is like using an ugly girl to get to her hot friend.

Using Chrome is like dating a chad that may look good at first sight, but secretly cheats with someone else behind your back.

Using Firefox is like dating someone where people say “Them? Really? You can do better,” but they don’t know them like you do.

Shred the Chez 🤤

the-ordinary-doctor:

|God, why is my stupid fucking post about eating shredded cheese for 0 reason the most popular post ive ever made on this blog for an OC i have but rarely ever use-|

|WHY DID THE COLLECTIVE TUMBLR BRAINCELL GO “oh, post about cheese? REBLOG AND LIKE MM YES I TOO LVOE CHEESE”|

|I DID NOT INTEND FOR THE CHEESE POST TO BECOME THE SOLE REASON WHY THIS SIDEBLOG IS INNATELY ALIVE-|

nothing-an-iratze-cant-fix:

arsonforcharlie:

deadcatwithaflamethrower:

lostmind3:

porcupine-girl:

jenroses:

lrgcarter:

rhube:

rcmclachlan:

Turns out, 2000 was 20 years ago. Which is odd, since 1980 was also.

The thing Gen-Z really needs to understand is that no one older than them is ever going to be able to estimate time correctly because the Millennium.

The Millennium will always be Not That Long Ago. Everything since the Millennium will always be, in some sense, ‘new’.

It just broke us, OK? It was too big and we’ll never quite be able to deal.

Was the real millennium bug inside us all along?

yep.

I think at least part of this is that pop culture has gotten such a longer shelf life over the past 20 years.

You can listen to a Top 40 station now and hear a song from 10 years ago easily, even songs from the 80s or 90s on special occasions (which might just be the Nineties at Noon or whatever every single day).

A Top 40 station in the 80s? Played the current fucking Top 40 and that was it. You were lucky if you heard a song that was one year old, definitely never ten. I was born in 1979 and heard almost no music from before I was born until high school or college. If you wanted to hear anything older than a year, you had to listen to a classic rock (late 60s to 70s) or oldies (50s to early 60s) station. There was nothing earlier than that on the radio.

A restaurant was playing What a Feeling, from 1983. 28 years before my son was born. That’s the equivalent of hearing a song from 1951 in the late 80s, which just did not happen. Even for an oldies station, it was hard to find anything that old.

VCRs were just getting big in the mid-80s, but there was a limited selection of videos you could buy (or even rent) for them. Most video rental stores didn’t bother to stock TV shows, it just wasn’t worth it. (Few shows were even released on VHS.)

So you could generally watch recent movies and “classics” but if you were looking for some random movie from the mid-70s - that’s only ten years previous - you were mostly out of luck. Imagine looking for a movie from 2006 right now, and you can find maybe the top-grossing ones and a few that won Oscars, but Night at the Museum? The Devil Wears Prada? You’re shit outta luck. That’s what it would have been like looking for movies from 1976 in 1989.

So for those of us who grew up in the 80s and early 90s, pop culture had a hard limit of about a decade, if that. By the late 90s, the internet was good enough that music was starting to stretch that, but you still couldn’t really get video through the internet and DVDs were still catching up in terms of what was available. You didn’t really get entire seasons of TV on DVD until the early 00s - the first season of The Simpsons, which aired in 1989, wasn’t released on DVD until 2001.

Anyhow, I think that’s why a lot of older millennials and Gen Xers are having trouble wrapping our heads around the idea that the year 2000 was almost 20 years ago. Because we grew up in a world where if you heard a song regularly, or watched a movie or a TV show that wasn’t late-night reruns, it had probably been released within the past 5 years, and almost definitely within the past 20. Our brains haven’t quite gotten used to hearing a new song followed by a 30-year-old song on the radio and not just being able to find any decade-old movie at will but seeing gifs of decade-old movies almost daily. Our brains think that means those things must still be new.

I have never heard anyone explain it so clearly before. And I LIVED it.

This is just further proof that time doesn’t exist.

radio stations are still doing the “playing the 80s, 90s, and NOW” thing they were doing when i was a teenager, despite the fact that NOW currently extends past 20 years

Also don’t forget that we’ve never really come up with decent names for the decades after the millennium so we often don’t speak specifically of them and thus they collapse into the *post-millennium* timeframe.

the-library-alcove:

charlesoberonn:

Tweet by Parker Molloy @ParkerMolloy:

"Just staring at this tweet in disbelief"

Below is a screenshot of the tweet in question by Stripe @Stripey:

"Can you name one instance of a group of Christians attacking and killing people and declaring it to be the mandate of God?"ALT

Do they want that list in alphabetical, chronological, or body count order?

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the-gnomish-bastard:

catgirlcommunism:

femmenietzsche:

Imagine if you survived taking a railroad spike to the brain but you didn’t get any personality changes out of it but everyone was constantly assuming that you did and it made you notably more irritable than you used to be

Maybe the real brain damage… was society

Maybe the real brain damage… was the friends we made along the way.

along the RAILway…?

wizardpotions:

wizardpotions:

We NEED to put sex and magic back on the pride flag right now

I’m fed up of people being like yea we need magic but not the sex one, sex positivity is vital to the lgbtq+ community it is not invalidating to asexual people to celebrate gay sex as something that is positive and beautiful and natural. We should be celebrating all the aspects of our community and this can include both asexuals and sex positivity

cryptotheism:

gunsandfireandshit:

sexhaver:

how fucking funny would it be if the new tumblr monetization strategy of “employ the bare minimum amount of staff to keep the lights on and never update anything” actually ends up being the secret sauce that makes this site finally turn a profit after three different CEOs over a decade and a half drove themselves insane trying

I’ve been thinking the same, how much you wanna bet their whole budget has been going into dipshit techbro “idea guy” types who fundamentally don’t understand the entire appeal of the site, all of the updates for the past forever sure seem like that’s the case

Straight up. A lot of the stories from the Yahoo days paint pictures of a small dedicated team of former Tumblr users maintaining the site, while a bloated staff runs interference from a management that wants Tumblr to be “The New PDF”

glavilio:

glavilio:

does anyone else see infinite cascading beauty in the pattern embossed on the surface of the store brand chocolate and cream cookie

littlestpersimmon:


American oomfs pack her up please. No one this callous should work for the government. Also let us know what non Americans can do to stop this madness.

littlestpersimmon:


American oomfs pack her up please. No one this callous should work for the government. Also let us know what non Americans can do to stop this madness.

hometoursandotherstuff:

twinkboom1:

twinkboom1:

jozdreaming:

radicallyaligned:

lilcowgirl7:

I needed this drag. Let’s change guys and not look back

working out your brain is a must!!

• hydrate it by drinking lots of water

• eat dark chocolate and blueberries and walnuts and salmon and other foods high in antioxidants!!

• play little brain games on your phone; I like wordconenct! anything that makes you think!

• read books. It’s simple but necessary. Even better - join a book club, or read with a friend, so you can have discussions after. This will improve your reading comprehension.

• do puzzles - it doesnt have to be sudoku, I love playing Beat Saber on the Oculus Rift because it makes my brain have to match colorful patterns to physical movements very quickly!

• learn a new dance - even a tik tok trendy dance. Learning new dance moves are proven to strengthen synapses!!

• go bird watching, or foraging, or anything outdoors that requires you to explore pattern recognition and visual searching

• watch a movie with the intent of analysis - this is best done with a cinephile friend!! talk about tropes and symbolism and character growth

• cross stitch, or sew, or do anything that requires matching nimble hand movements to patterns

• play or learn an instrument!

• develop a consistent sleep schedule (or as close to consistent as you can get!)

• when eating, try to identify the ingredients and flavors you’re perceiving!

I hope this helps :)

I like how this went from me feeling like “hm why is this attacking me 🤨” at first, but feeling grateful seeing an added guide on a genuine expansion on a “ how to” work out the brain. This genuinely helps a bunch. People find solace in doing activities that get them through life by doing said activities of phone/tv or if that’s all they’ve ever known in their life to get them through things + etc tho. However, this was very impt to point out. Slowly beginning incorporating things to work the brain in ones own time.

pipcomix:

pipcomix:

Thank fucking god for plumbers who are willing to go behind their corporate bosses’ backs and be like “yeah don’t pay the 150 dollar emergency fee just gimme 40 bucks under the table, also, don’t buy a water heater from us, my boss will charge u like 800 bucks. go to Lowe’s and ask for a Scratch n’ Dent, they’ll give you for like 200 bucks. Call me tomorrow and I can install it for you in like an hour” wow… solidarity

I cannot express how much I would rather slip one workperson 40 bucks directly into their pocket for doing me a solid by not making me get ripped off by his bosses, like…….. thanks bro

latenightgasstationwalk:

Of course it goes without saying that I am hopelessly dependent on the ingot

somitomi:

sufficientlylargen:

l0stvegas:

God I hate these fucking floating monoliths. They always go, like, 10mph below the speed limit and if you try to pass them they just fucking distort reality around them until you’re back behind them again. One of them cut me off on the highway once and when I honked it banished me to a hoary netherworld where I wandered, lost and alone, for untold centuries, trapped in the liminal space between what could have been and what never was, black stars dotting the bright infinity yawning out around me as I drove out of thought and time, through endless ruined cities and blighted lands unmarked by the sun’s cold rays, and when I finally got out I was more than 20m late for my dentist appointment and they had to reschedule me.

radiofreederry:

There's obviously a lot of talk about Tumblr being shut down, which does not appear to be happening, but do you think the re-organization will be enough to keep Tumblr running indefinitely? Or is this maybe the start of an eventual shut down of Tumblr?

gayweedanimal:

photomatt:

What’s super clear is our previous approach wasn’t working. It didn’t turn around the business to make enough money to support the investment of infrastructure and staff needed to run Tumblr, and a lot of users were unhappy with some of the changes we tried. There have been a few staff changes within the team, but basically what we’re saying is starting January 1, 2024 we’ll try a different structure with smaller, more focused teams working on the core parts of Tumblr that people say they want improved. We’ll sunset or rollback some things we tried that didn’t work.

I’m advocating for this change because I think it has a good chance at success. I don’t do anything hoping to fail. There are lots of examples of products with hundreds of millions more MAUs and smaller teams than Tumblr currently has, and there are amazing examples like OpenAI and Telegram running circles around much bigger players with small teams. That’s what we hope to replicate.

The good news is as well, since people leaving Tumblr aren’t being laid off, they’re just switching to other teams within Automattic, if something doesn’t work or breaks we can always pull them back in to work on it.

nice to hear people aren’t being laid off, and if i’m reading between the lines correctly we may finally be rid of tumblr live and other useless cruft

dicklessswonder:

she borderline on my personality till i disorder

fluttershyweed757:

Enchantment tier list

retrogamingblog2:

derinthescarletpescatarian:

feathery-dickmuffins-deactivate:

derinthescarletpescatarian:

derinthescarletpescatarian:

derinthescarletpescatarian:

I think people get mixed up a lot about what is fun and what is rewarding. These are two very different kinds of pleasure. You need to be able to tell them apart because if you don’t have a balanced diet of both then it will fuck you up, and I mean that in a “known cause of persistent clinical depression” kind of way.

When people say they enjoy things, they usually mean one of two things. The first is that these things are fun; that is, they satisfy immediate emotional needs or desires for pleasure. Candy Crush is fun, for people who are into that sort of thing; waterslides are fun, watching TV is fun. Fun, in the way I’m defining it for this post, is the party food of pleasure; immediately and usually temporarily satisfying, and after that, mostly satisfying only as a happy memory (although some of these activities, like watching a TV show, can generate further opportunities for pleasure down the line like daydreaming, discussion, and making fanart). Like party food, this kind of fun is a good thing to have, and someone who doesn’t get enough of it is at high risk of stress-related health concerns. Also burnout. A lack of fun is a major contributor to burnout.

The second kind of pleasure that most people talk about is rewarding activity. The lack of rewarding activity in one’s life is a major contributor to depression. It creates a sense of purposelessness and worthlessness and generates a low attention span, sapping the ability to feel long-term motivation or pleasure. People usually try to pick themselves up with the first kind of fun, which is a band-aid but not a very sticky one; the lack of rewarding activity grows and festers over time. Rewarding pleasure involves working on something long-term that feels worthwhile. There are usually also spots of fun (or you wouldn’t have gotten into the activity enough for it to become rewarding), but there also tends to be long slogs that aren’t that fun. Nevertheless, when people report on doing said activity, they will speak about it with great enjoyment and remember it being enjoyable and claim they like it. (I like being a writer. Writing can sometimes be boring as shit.) (Look into Csíkszentmihályi’s work on experience sampling and flow states for more info on this, it is FASCINATING.)

In Reality is Broken, Jane McGonigal sums up what she thinks are the most important contributing factors to rewarding activity. These are not the only factors, but I agree that they’re a good baseline of the critical ones. I’m going to paraphrase them using different language. The four big contributors are:

Satisfying work. This is the vaguest one because different people find different things satisfying. Basically, the task itself should feel productive, and you should not feel bad about doing it to the point where it causes you distress. Satisfying work involves clear goals with actionable steps and a clear product, preferably something that you can see, touch or use. A clean house, a new high score, a freshly built table, a happy child.

Mastery. Rewarding pleasure is often something that you can get better at. There are things to learn, practice, improve. Improving your ability to solve tricky code problems, getting better at painting landscapes, figuring out fun new strategies in Magic: The Gathering, being able to build computers better or faster or cheaper. Mastery does not require becoming the best at something (although some people enjoy that specifically also), merely seeing progress in yourself and being able to take pride int he fact that you are better than you were.

Social connection. Rewarding pleasure often involves social or community connection. A long-term social group that discusses fan theories of their favourite show. Your weekly tabletop rpg. Teaching a room full of kids who to make leather belts. Working at a small bookshop and making small talk with all the tourists. Some people find social activity to be fun in the ‘immediate pleasure’ kind of way, some don’t, but it is a critical factor in mental health and in the long-term… rewardingness (?)… of a hobby. Animals can also partially fill this niche, but be warned, they are far, far less effective than people. Your cat might be able to stop you from committing suicide today. You cat alone will not make your life satisfying.

Contribution. Humans are community animals and have a need to be something larger than ourselves or, more specifically to be of service to something larger than ourselves. Looking after kids, cooking big meals for others, creating art or physical products for others. Teaching the next generation how to read. Serving your God. Saving a species of small fish from extinction. Volunteering at your local charity shop or soup kitchen. Being a member of a crowd to reach the Guinness World Record for “most people fit into a storage crate”. Making useful tutorial videos, being an entertainer, joining your local queer support group or political organisation. Humans fucking love to be part of something bigger than their own brain and they fucking love to help people.

The world is full of rewarding activities, and not all of them rate high in all four categories. The woman working in the charity shop warehouse and chatting with her coworkers isn’t necessarily all that interested in mastery of her job (although I’ve worked in these places and some people do take pride in learning to be as efficient as possible), the musical hermit training to become the best violinist in the world might not be all that interested in social connection or how the audience actually feels about him. You might have noticed that I’ve listed hobbies, jobs, and non-employed but important life work (volunteering and childrearing) as possible rewarding activities; you can find rewarding activities everywhere. (In fact the lack of rewarding pleasure in our work lives is a very serious problem that companies keep trying to condescendingly band-aid over. The late David Graeber had a lot to say about this and I highly recommend his work, particularly Bullshit Jobs, which is a book specifically discussing the lack of above points 1 and 4 (satisfying work and sense of contribution) in so many modern workplaces and its distressing psychological ramifications). Rewarding activities are not 'fun’ all the time; in fact, Csíkszentmihályi’s work found that many of them are quite unfun most of the time. They do, however, create long term pleasure, and are emotionally and psychologically critical.

One final point: research shows that computer stuff counts less. This isn’t a 'hurr durr edison was a witch get off your damn computers and get a real job’ point; plenty of people do most of their rewarding activity on computers, because the supply cost is so low (most of us already own some kind of computer) and it’s so much easier to find an existing community. But it does, psychologically speaking, count less; your brain isn’t very good at seeing computers stuff as as 'real’, on a primitive sensory level, as things you can touch with your hands or people that are right in front of you. Your massive community of fellow fans on the internet are less effective at filling your social needs than the crochet club at your local library, even if you like the people on the internet much more. It doesn’t have to be everything, but ideally you should have at least one physical meatspace social club and at least one physical meatspace hobby, craft, or volunteer job. (They can be the same thing. You can volunteer at a soup kitchen for both.) They don’t have to be the most important thing – I care way more about my writing (electronic) than my crochet (meatspace) and I do the writing a lot more – but the meatspace thing should exist, if you can manage it.

#makes sense; however - how do i get it to NOT cause me distres?#because you see the problem with any rewarding activity is that you can fail at it. and if i can fail at it; doing it causes me immense#distress.#like. what if i play a tune wrong? what if i make a wrong line? what if i write an awful paragraph? what if i give the wrong advice?#what if i organise an event badly? what if i cook something and its horrible?#these things all have a fail state. and if you reach the fail state; everyone hates you forever.#it doesn’t matter if you’ve succeeded before. it doesn’t matter if you remedy your mistake. you are your mistakes.#if you draw a line wrong everyone sees and everyone knows that you are a fraud and an imposter and you are no longer#considered 'the one who can draw.’#and if you make a mistake when it comes to organisation or advice the consequences are catastrophic#you have to be absolutely infallible when it comes to those. any kind of mistake will result in the misery of other people.#so obviously you have to feel nothing but distress the whole way through

I’m pretty alexythymic so I don’t know if this’ll work for everyone but I personally found it was possible to just decide not to give a fuck what other people think. If they don’t like the art they can look at someone else’s art. Plenty of art out there.

I might be off-base here but I find this kind of distress is quite common in people who view their work not as a craft but as a validation of themselves. I think you might be taking your own art too personally. Your art skills say zero things about you, good or bad, and nobody gives a fuck. Nobody is scrutinising your art to see if you’re a fraud or an impostor because that matters to exactly zero people who aren’t you. They either like the art or they don’t and their interest usually stops about there. On the whole they’ll neither admire nor hate you, they’re not judging your Worth As A Human As Depicted In The Shading On This Cat Picture, they’re thinking about what they’re going to get for lunch. It’s honestly not that big a deal. I make bad art all the time, I think everyone should make absolute trash fail art. It’s good for you and it’s good for the world.

Well you see the problem is that if I make a mistake, then I’ll forever be perceived as “bad at art” and if that happens, then people will hate me, because I’m not really a person as much as I am the things I contribute. And it isn’t just about art. It’s like you have to be the best at everything you do, because a mistake is indicative of your morality. “Good people don’t make mistakes.” “If you were a good person you’d succeed on the first try.” Etc etc. You cannot afford failure, or even a trip. Because as soon as you trip, everyone you know will be there, laughing, and they’ll leave forever. If you are perceived as decent at something, you have to be perfect at it forever. Because everyone’s constantly watching and itching for you to trip and fall. And they don’t care that you can pick yourself up. They only care that they can say that they saw you trip.

I can’t afford to fuck up a single line the way I can’t afford to sew something wrong the way I can’t afford to choose my words poorly the way I can’t afford to bake bad cookies the way I can’t afford to come up with a boring programme the way I can’t afford to say the wrong thing in the youth shelter. It’s all the same song, the same show that HAS to be performed perfectly with no errors forever, because failure to do so either leads to everyone hating me or to me causing harm. No mistake, even one that doesn’t matter and that can be quickly fixed, can ever be made, because it isn’t the results for people, no, it’s just about if they can say that they know you’ve made a mistake. Because if you have, then you are bad in their eyes. You’re just a useless and talentless hack with nothing to show. And of course if you’re that, then they don’t want to associate with you. So you just have to be perfect forever and that sucks.

Yeah literally none of that is true. Either your brain is lying to you or some arsehole in your life is. Possibly both. Find the person in your life you like and value who never made something bad or mediocre. They don’t exist. They made garbage and fucked shit up. Do you hate them now?

radwolf76:

You HALLOWEEN Miette?

You wear her costume like the Trick-Or-Treaters?

jordisstigander:

alex51324:

roseverdict:

roseverdict:

sushinfood:

mieaouy:

queerly-tony:

This is the best description I’ve heard for this method, I always thought it was bullshit because I never heard a description that actually explained how to do this other than “tap your head 20 times”.

I have anxiety-induced hissing, which sounds/feels different from sound-induced tinnitus (which I have also experience). Sound-based tinnitus actually sounds like you’re “hearing” something in your ears, whilst the hissing I have feels like it’s “inside my head”, if that makes sense. But this technique still helps!!

Here’s a visual I found because I couldn’t understand the instructions well

My ringing just went away for the first time in years. What is this blissful quiet.

wait wait i gotta try this, i don’t think i’ve had Actual Silence since i was like 5

HOW THE FUCK

Reblogging to save a life, and also because, even if you don’t have tinnitus, this is totally worth trying if you like new sensory experiences.  

Just showed this to my dad, and in his words, “The cicadas are still there, but the train is gone.”

stickiemax:

so that circus show, huh?

my insta :3

wumbreon:

The Middle

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I wrote and illustrated this story as a birthday present for my partner, I hope you enjoy it!

pigswithwings:

str8aura-no-not-that-one:

freemahjongonline:

he fucking killed the other guy

rare post where every single comment is funny

crying crying crying

cryptotheism:

gunsandfireandshit:

sexhaver:

how fucking funny would it be if the new tumblr monetization strategy of “employ the bare minimum amount of staff to keep the lights on and never update anything” actually ends up being the secret sauce that makes this site finally turn a profit after three different CEOs over a decade and a half drove themselves insane trying

I’ve been thinking the same, how much you wanna bet their whole budget has been going into dipshit techbro “idea guy” types who fundamentally don’t understand the entire appeal of the site, all of the updates for the past forever sure seem like that’s the case

Straight up. A lot of the stories from the Yahoo days paint pictures of a small dedicated team of former Tumblr users maintaining the site, while a bloated staff runs interference from a management that wants Tumblr to be “The New PDF”

yeehawpim:

Panel 1: Two kids wearing backpacks hugging in a dark hallway slightly to the left of a door. They cast a slight shadow in a long rectangular square of light on the ground.
Panel 2: The rectangular square of light on the ground is cast from a similarly shaped window above the doorknob of the door. The kid on the left waves goodbye as the kid on the right starts to walk further down the hallway.ALT
Panel 3: The kid continues to walk down the dark hallway. There's 2 iterations of them as they progress in the empty darkness.ALT
Panel 3 continued: 3rd iteration of the kid walking down the hallway, they approach a long strip of rectangular light on the floor.
Panel 4: The strip of light on the ground morphs into the light streaming through an open doorway like the one the kid on the right left the kid on the left with. The kid on the right is pushing the door open and walking inside. Their long shadow stretches behind them into the hallway.ALT
Panel 5: The kid sits down at a desk with their backpack hung up on the back of their chair. They are surrounded by the silhouettes about the same size as them all facing the front of the classroom. There is the vague outline of a small set of stairs and the legs of a giant silhouette in the front.
Panel 6: The kid is at their desk, peeling the top piece of a sticky note pad off.ALT
Panel 7: A slightly zoomed out view of the kid at their desk still, one hand over their face and one hand on the sticky note pad on their desk.
Panel 8: Zoomed out further and the kid blends in with all the other silhouettes at their desks. Their hands are folded in front of them on the desk revealing that they put a sticky note with a stoic expression drawn on. Every other silhouette has a similar square piece of paper stuck on their face with the same expression.ALT
Panel 9: A giant silhouette looms over the small ones, reaching a long arm and pointing at one of the silhouettes. They say, "WHAT IS ICE" in large lettering.
Panel 10: One of the silhouettes in the next row over from the kid says, "Drug."
The kid is sitting at their desk with a hand on their desk, not moving and facing forward.
Panel 11: The kid continues to sit without moving. The teacher from somewhere off the page says, "WHAT IS HELP" in large lettering. Someone in front of the kid but unseen says, "Magenta."ALT
Panel 12: The kid continues to sit at their desk, unmoving. The big silhouette says from off page, "WHAT IS GIRL" in large print.
Panel 13: The kid responds, "Winter." The silhouette says from somewhere off page, "WHAT IS ANGER" in large print.
Panel 14: The kid continues to sit at their desk without moving. Someone from behind them who isn't pictured says, "Photosynthesis."
Page begins to fade into black.
Panel 15: The big silhouette says from off page, "WHAT IS DIRT."
The page fades to completely black.ALT
Panel 16: The kid exits the room through the door into the dark hallway. They are slightly slumped and pushing on the door. They cast a long shadow that extends off the page.
Panel 17: The door is closed and the kid is standing in the dark hallway. They reach up for the piece of paper on their face tiredly.ALT
Panel 18: The kid tosses the sticky note to the ground. Their face is still underneath and they stand slumped.
Panel 19: Kid continues to stand in front of the door in the dark hallway, slumped and staring down at the piece of paper.ALT
Panel 20: Someone from off the left side of the page says, "!!!"
The kid standing in front of the door turns their head towards the sound.
Panel 21: A kid wearing a backpack runs in from the left. The kid on the right takes one step to face them.ALT
Panel 22: The kid on the left jumps and hugs the kid on the right, who's slightly knocked backwards by the force. Their eyes stare like they're surprised.
Panel 23: The two kids stand hugging in the darkness.ALT
Panel 24: A closer view of the kid on the right's face as they stand their hugging the kid on the right. They're still staring.
Panel 25: The kid on the right closes their eyes and smiles.ALT
Panel 26: The kids walk out a set of large double doors with push bars that are way too big for them. They're holding hands. It's light outside and the two kids cast shadows behind them as they exit. The kid on the right's shadow extends much longer before it fades into white.
Panel 27: A closer zoom of two hands holding each other.ALT
Panel 28: A larger panel of the two hands holding each other. An imprint of the words "I love you" can be seen on the hand on the left in mirror image along the palm.
A watermark reading, "@yeehawpim" is in the bottom right corner of the page.ALT

school pt 2

pt 1

tck-400-deactivated20250214:

R. I. P

luxidae:

spaceshipsandpurpledrank:

WE DOIN’ CRIMINAL DEEDS AND EVIL ACTS

⚠️ONLY⚠️

luxidae:

spaceshipsandpurpledrank:

WE DOIN’ CRIMINAL DEEDS AND EVIL ACTS

⚠️ONLY⚠️

mystic-sailboat:

foxes-in-love:

A comic of two foxes, one of whom is blue, the other is green. In this one, Green rushes to Blue, full of enthusiastic glee.
Green: Halloween is over and there's snow on the ground! You know what that means!
Blue: No?

Blue watches as the red cap of christmas spirit physically manifests onto Green's head.
Blue: Seriously? Already?
Green: I don't control it. The process is involuntary.ALT

i like how much rage this comic is garnering because it was posted on the 30th

amerricanartwork:

Oh my god, another one! They just keep coming!

At this point, though, the more the merrier! And this one looks like a jolly little fellow!

Oh, is that for me? How kind of you, little guy! Though I’m not hungry now.

Looks like the others are pretty hungry, though!

What a cute little picnic! I think I’m gonna like this new little creature…!

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Welcome to Rain Wool: Downpour! For the first entry in the series, I’ve got none other than the one, the only, the chonker of all time, the Gourmand!

Let me tell you, at first I wasn’t sure how well this would turn out. Not only did I struggle to find an adequate soft orange-yellow color, but I thought it would be a bit hard to figure out the exact volumes and degree of Gourmand’s chubbiness. I usually use a mix of in-game art, sprites, and certain fanart for reference, but even so it can be a little hard to translate them into a 3D form, especially with someone like Gourmand. But nonetheless, I’m really happy with how this guy turned out, and it seems to grow cuter every time I look at it!

For these characters, I also wanted to try something new. Some recent asks have really helped me realize that I honestly prefer making needle-felted figures as unique toys of sorts rather than traditional look-don’t-touch art pieces, so I’ll be designing the figures around that purpose.

And as such, to really act on that idea and further bring these slugcats to life, I thought I’d try making a few tiny props for them!

I’ve got a bunch of more game-accurate spears made from bamboo skewers, and for Gourmand in particular I needle-felted some simple food items! I would’ve done more variety, but alas I haven’t the right wool colors yet to make other foods.

Regardless, I hope you enjoy this little guy as much as I do, and continue to stick around as the rest of the Downpour cast takes up woolen form!

sophbun:

cousins….

kicchirikacchiri-deactivated202:

every typically heroic character should be allowed to go completely apeshit at least once its good for the ecosystem

chongoblog:

I really slept on Outside from Mad Rat Dead when I first heard it tbh

hurgablurg:

u-u-h:

doebt:

i love you people in my phone i know the seasonal depression is setting in so we need to hold eachother like a litter of kittens in a cardboard box okay…its important

paradichlorosocksy:

Starts spinning in 144p with free bird playing in the background

gloriousvermin:

pitbolshevik:

pitbolshevik:

to any teenagers reading this i just wanna say that you’re right. homework is bullshit, not accepting late work is bullshit, tardies are bullshit, having to ask to use the goddamn bathroom is bullshit. any adult who tells you differently is either lying or doesnt remember how much it sucked

you know what im actually just gonna block anyone who whines in the tags about how it’s actually totally reasonable to tell kids they aren’t allowed to take a piss

I think often teens see things that are bullshit and get upset and a lot of times nothing happens

wildbatz:

pitbolshevik:

pitbolshevik:

to any teenagers reading this i just wanna say that you’re right. homework is bullshit, not accepting late work is bullshit, tardies are bullshit, having to ask to use the goddamn bathroom is bullshit. any adult who tells you differently is either lying or doesnt remember how much it sucked

you know what im actually just gonna block anyone who whines in the tags about how it’s actually totally reasonable to tell kids they aren’t allowed to take a piss

one time i had this biology teacher who wouldn’t let me go to the toilet… while he was teaching a lesson about how the bladder works and why it’s beneficial to our bodies for us to pee 🤦‍♂️

pitbolshevik:

pitbolshevik:

to any teenagers reading this i just wanna say that you’re right. homework is bullshit, not accepting late work is bullshit, tardies are bullshit, having to ask to use the goddamn bathroom is bullshit. any adult who tells you differently is either lying or doesnt remember how much it sucked

you know what im actually just gonna block anyone who whines in the tags about how it’s actually totally reasonable to tell kids they aren’t allowed to take a piss