November 2023

okiitos:

mysharona1987:


Rescue professional here:

If you need rescuing or help, DON’T FUCKING MOVE. You are so much easier to find when you stay put.

leenikgeelofromthemynock:

marzipanandminutiae:

doubleca5t:

dumbunnii:

bogleech:

If you still call tumblr the hellsite you haven’t seen twitter’s recent discourse over whether short women can be loved for anything other than a fetish

a significant percent of bad discourse is just:

  • Treating fictional characters as if they are real living human people
  • Treating real people as if they are characters in a story

so as a 4'11" 30-year-old woman, am I just supposed to live a celibate life devoid of romance because it’s inherently ~problematic~ to be attracted to me?

ye gods. these assholes either didn’t think about the implications of their beliefs on real, actual short people, or didn’t care

vacuously-true:

2k2002:

In the club

I think I’m literally never gonna be sick of this masterpiece. I think watching it on a loop for eight hours could fix me. Dancing’s what clears my soul. Dancing’s what makes me whole.

roadhogsbigbelly:

roadhogsbigbelly:

i’m not very excited for the prospect of video game movies replacing superhero movies in our current culturally zeitgeist, not just because the possible discourse surrounding it would/will be extremely obnoxious, but because with how much work is put into modern video game’s visual and cinematography, a live action adaption of kindgom hearts for instance seems extremely redundant when we already have “KINGDOM HEARTS HD 1.5 REMIX All Cutscenes (Game Movie) 1080p HD” right there.

it’s part of the larger trend where people don’t see adaptions of comic books, or video games or animation as new takes on the same stories, just using the different techniques of live action movies, but rather “fixing stories that were held back by their "inferior medium” as if video games by themselves aren’t a perfectly fine and sometimes better way of telling a story compared to a 1 and a half hour movie.

like genuinely i don’t think there’d be so much disdain against live action adaptions of animated disney movies, if they were more like different takes on the same story rather than ‘we took the story you loved but IMPROVED IT by not making it a cartoon anymore! cause that’s clearly what was holding it back from being real art, i guess"

Resources For Writing Deaf, Mute, or Blind Characters

thecaffeinebookwarrior:

thecaffeinebookwarrior:

Despite the fact that I am not deaf, mute, or blind myself, one of the most common questions I receive is how to portray characters with these disabilities in fiction.

As such, I’ve compiled the resources I’ve accumulated (from real life deaf, mute, or blind people) into a handy masterlist.

Deaf Characters:

Deaf characters masterpost

Deaf dialogue thread

Dialogue with signing characters (also applies to mute characters.)

A deaf author’s advice on deaf characters

Dialogue between deaf characters


Mute Characters

Life as a Mute

My Silent Summer:  Life as a Mute

What It’s Like Being Mute

21 People Reveal What It’s Really Like To Be Mute

I am a 20 year old Mute, ask me anything at all!


Blind Characters:

The 33 Worst Mistakes Writers Make About Blind Characters.

@referenceforwriters masterpost of resources for writing/playing blind characters.

The youtube channel of the wonderful Tommy Edison, a man blind from birth with great insight into the depiction of blind people and their lives.

An Absolute Write thread on the depiction of blind characters, with lots of different viewpoints and some great tips.

And finally, this short, handy masterpost of resources for writing blind characters.


Characters Who Are Blind in One Eye

4 Ways Life Looks Shockingly Different With One Eye

Learning to Live With One Eye

Adapting to the Loss of an Eye

Adapting to Eye Loss and Monocular Vision

Monocular Depth Perception



Deaf-Blind Characters

What Is It Like To Be Deafblind?

Going Deaf and Blind in a City of Noise and Lights

Deaf and Blind by 30

Sarita is Blind, Deaf, and Employed (video)

Born Deaf and Blind, This Eritrean American Graduated Harvard Law School (video)

A Day of a Deaf Blind Person

Lesser Known Things About Being Deafblind

How the Deaf-Blind Communicate

Early Interactions With Children Who Are Deaf-Blind

Raising a DeafBlind Baby


If you have any more resources to add, let me know!  I’ll be adding to this post as I find more resources.

I hope this helps, and happy writing!  <3

Updated with more resources, specifically for characters who are blind in one eye.

Don't ever hesitate. Reblog this. TUMBLR RULE. When you see it, REBLOG IT.

awakefor48hours:

sips-tea-cutely:

im-actually-useless69:

artist-in-too-many-fandoms:

midnigth-thoughts:

justmemyselfandthefridge:

wundersimp:

The original post only has US helplines. I’ve added UK helplines underneath. It would be great if people could add numbers from everywhere in the world.

Depression Hotline: 1-630-482-9696

Suicide Hotline: 1-800-784-8433

LifeLine: 1-800-273-8255

Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386

Sexuality Support: 1-800-246-7743

Eating Disorders Hotline: 1-847-831-3438

Rape and Sexual Assault: 1-800-656-4673

Grief Support: 1-650-321-5272

Runaway: 1-800-843-5200, 1-800-843-5678, 1-800-621-4000

Exhale: After Abortion Hotline/Pro-Voice: 1-866-4394253

Child Abuse: 1-800-422-4453

UK Helplines:

Samaritans (for any problem): 08457909090 e-mail jo@samaritans.org

Childline (for anyone under 18 with any problem): 08001111

Mind infoline (mental health information): 0300 123 3393 e-mail: info@mind.org.uk

Mind legal advice (for people who need mental-health related legal advice): 0300 466 6463 legal@mind.org.uk

b-eat eating disorder support: 0845 634 14 14 (only open Mon-Fri 10.30am-8.30pm and Saturday 1pm-4.30pm) e-mail: help@b-eat.co.uk

b-eat youthline (for under 25’s with eating disorders): 08456347650 (open Mon-Fri 4.30pm - 8.30pm, Saturday 1pm-4.30pm)

Cruse Bereavement Care: 08444779400 e-mail: helpline@cruse.org.uk

Frank (information and advice on drugs): 0800776600

Drinkline: 0800 9178282

Rape Crisis England & Wales: 0808 802 9999 1(open 2 - 2.30pm 7 - 9.30pm) e-mail info@rapecrisis.org.uk

Rape Crisis Scotland: 08088 01 03 02 every day, 6pm to midnight

India Self Harm Hotline: 00 08001006614

India Suicide Helpline: 022-27546669

Kids Help Phone (Canada): 1-800-668-6868, Free and available 24/7

suicide hotlines;

Argentina: 54-0223-493-0430

Australia: 13-11-14

Austria: 01-713-3374

Barbados: 429-9999

Belgium: 106

Botswana: 391-1270

Brazil: 21-233-9191

China: 852-2382-0000

(Hong Kong: 2389-2222)

Costa Rica: 606-253-5439

Croatia: 01-4833-888

Cyprus: 357-77-77-72-67

Czech Republic: 222-580-697, 476-701-908

Denmark: 70-201-201

Egypt: 762-1602

Estonia: 6-558-088

Finland: 040-5032199

France: 01-45-39-4000

Germany: 0800-181-0721

Greece: 1018

Guatemala: 502-234-1239

Holland: 0900-0767

Honduras: 504-237-3623

Hungary: 06-80-820-111

Iceland: 44-0-8457-90-90-90

Israel: 09-8892333

Italy: 06-705-4444

Japan: 3-5286-9090

Latvia: 6722-2922, 2772-2292

Malaysia: 03-756-8144

(Singapore: 1-800-221-4444)

Mexico: 525-510-2550

Netherlands: 0900-0767

New Zealand: 4-473-9739

New Guinea: 675-326-0011

Nicaragua: 505-268-6171

Norway: 47-815-33-300

Philippines: 02-896-9191

Poland: 52-70-000

Portugal: 239-72-10-10

Russia: 8-20-222-82-10

Spain: 91-459-00-50

South Africa: 0861-322-322

South Korea: 2-715-8600

Sweden: 031-711-2400

Switzerland: 143

Taiwan: 0800-788-995

Thailand: 02-249-9977

Trinidad and Tobago: 868-645-2800

Ukraine: 0487-327715

Here’s some Canadian ones too!

Canada Suicide Prevention Service: Call: 1-833-456-4566 (24/7) or text: 45645 (4 pm to 12 am EST) 

Kids Help Phone: Call: 1-800-668-6868 or text CONNECT to 686868.

First Nations and Inuit Hope For Wellness Help Line: 1-855-242-3310

Transgender Crisis Line: 1-877-330-6366

And then don’t forget about 911 as well! 

Please reblog. This is important!

Reblog this please, somebody might really need it!

I may not be able to spread the message much but still i will try. If you are in any trouble please get help you need. I care about you and love you.

National Suicide Hotline (English, Spanish): 800-273-8255

TherapyRoute (24 Hours, Philippines):

  • PLDT: (02) 804-4673
  • Globe: (0917) 558-4673
  • Toll-free for Globe/TM: 2919
  • Helpline: 0917-854-9191

Tawau Paglaum—Centro Bisaya (Cebu):

  • (939) 937-5433
  • (927) 654-1629

The National Center for Mental Health Crisis Hotline (PH):

  • Telephone: (02) 989-8727
  • Cellphone: (0917) 899-8727

China:

  • Helpline 1 (Free): 0800-810-11@7
  • Helpline 2 (Mobile/IP/extension users): 010-8295-1332

Japan:

  • Helpline 1: 03 5774 0992

Malaysia:

  • Helpline 1: (063) 92850039
  • Helpline 2: (063) 92850279
  • Helpline 3: (063) 92850049

Singapore:

Thailand:

  • Helpline 1: (02) 713-6793


India:

United Kingdom:

  • Samaritans: 08457 909090
  • Childline: 0800 1111
  • Abuse Not: 0808 8005015
  • Brook Young People’s Information Service: 0800 0185023
  • Eating Disorder Support: 01494 793223
  • Anxiety UK: 0844 477 5774
  • Depression Alliance: 0845 123 23 20
  • Rape Crisis Centre: 01708 765200
  • Rape/sexual assault: 0808 8000 123 (female) or 0808 8000 122 (male)
  • Miscarriage Association: 01924 200799
  • LLGS Helpline (LGBT): 0300 330 0630
  • Sexuality support: 01708 765200
  • Bereavment: 0800 9177 416
  • Runaway/homeless: 0808 800 70 70
  • CareConfidential Pregnancy/post abortion: 0800 028 2228
  • Domestic Violence Helpline: 0345 023 468
  • National AIDS Helpline: 0800 567 123

I will reblog this as many times as possible, I recommend anyone reading to do the same

genderkoolaid:

genderkoolaid:

also if you wanna combat the “women in the past only crossdressed because of misogyny!” you have GOTTA read chapter 11 in Transgender Warriors where leslie feinberg does such a good job constructing an argument against this kind of radfem reductionism

“"No wonder you’ve passed as a man! This is such an anti-woman society,” a lesbian friend told me. To her, females passing as males are simply trying to escape women’s oppression- period. She believes that once true equality is achieved in society, humankind will be genderless. I don’t have a crystal ball, so I can’t predict human behavior in the distant future. But I know what she’s thinking- if we can build a more just society, people like me will cease to exist. She assumes that I am simply a product of oppression. Gee, thanks so much.“

"First, let’s talk about who can pass as another sex. My same friend reminds me periodically that she too might have passed as a men a century ago to escape women’s oppression. She stares right past my gender expression as she speaks. […] I don’t want to burst her bubble. Everyone deserves untrammeled dreams. But I want to tell her that, in the dead of winter, if she was bundled up against the cold, with a hood or hat covering her head, some man in a deli might call her "sir.” But could she pass as male on a board ship, sleeping with and sharing common facilities with her fellow sailors for decades and not be discovered? Of course, hundreds of thousands of women have dreamed of escaping the economic and social inequities of their lives, but how many could live as a man for a decade or a lifetime? While a woman could throw on men’s clothing and pass as a man for safety on dark roadways, could she pass as a man at an inn where men slept together in the same beds? Could she maintain her identity in daylight? Pass the scrutiny of co-workers? Would she really feel safer and more free? How could females have lived and been accepted as men without hormones or surgery? They must have been masculine; they must have been trans-gendered. If they were not, how could they pass? We don’t know how each of the thousands who passed from female to male over the centuries would define themselves today- whether as transgender or transsexual or drag or any other modern definition. The point is that their gender expression allowed them to transition. I just don’t believe that the debate about why “women pass as men” can be understood only in the light of women’s, or of lesbian and gay, oppression. It has to be viewed in the context of trans history in order to make sense.“

"Look at George Sand, the nineteenth-century novelist. It’s true that she could not have published without a male nom de plume at that time. But if that’s all there was to her identity, why did she wear men’s clothing? Why was she attacked for masculine behavior? And if it was just a question of lesbian oppression, what was she doing in bed with Chopin? If passing from female to male is simply motivated by the need to escape lesbian oppression, then why have females who have passed as males chosen other men as lovers?”

“Finally, if so many females have passed as men only to escape women’s oppression, then why have so many males passed as women? While it is biologically easier for a female to pass as a young boy than for a male to pass as a woman, there are many, many examples in the modern era of those who passed from male to female.”

“We have not always been forced to pass, to go underground, in order to work and live. We have a right to live openly and proudly. When we are denied those rights, we are the ones who suffer that oppression. But when our lives are suppressed, everyone is denied an understanding of the rich diversity of sex and gender expression and experience that exist in human society. I have lived as a man because I could not survive openly as a transgendered person. Yes, I am oppressed in this society, but I am not merely product of oppression. That is a phrase that renders all our trans identities meaningless. Passing means having to hide your identity in fear, in order to live. Being forced to pass is a recent historical development. It is passing that is a product of oppression.”

mersinia:

mayhem-moth:

callisposts:

firegal19:

fandomnerd9602:

seymonecristina:

jacobmick:

haiku-robot:

someoneintheshadow446:

mrsolodolo24:

drayaintshit:

galvan-in-portland:

luckytaters:

skuubasally:

tumblgang:

codyslipring:

spn-fandom-breathing-heavily:

westbor0baptistchurch:

“But if you forget to reblog Madame Zeroni, you and your family will be cursed for always and eternity.”

image

not even risking that shit

scrolled past this, re-evaluated my life, then SCROOOLLLED back up and hit the damn reblog button. 

  1. She ain’t no games in real life so I take her serious all the time
  2. Anyone with a name that starts with a “Z”, ends with an “i”, and isn’t some kind of Italian pasta, IS SERIOUS
  3. I’m not climbing no mountain with a pig on my back, 🙅🏽🙅🏾🙅🏿 Negative.

Nope. I know better, have your reblog Madame Zeroni.

who the fuck is Madame Zeroni

Look at these stupid children who don’t know who Madame Zeroni is

☝🏾😂

Man lissen if you don’t know you better ask somebody AFTER you hit the reblog button

Idk who she is but I have an exam today so I’ll reblog her

idk who she is but
i have an exam today
so i’ll reblog her



^Haiku^bot^0.4. Sometimes I do stupid things (but I have improved with syllables!). Beep-boop!

Because wise, I am.

Oh fucks no she’s back lmao must reblog. I’m sorry guys

Oh I’m not risking it! I’ve seen Holes and know the risks!

Keep those yellow spotted lizards away from me!!!

Don’t know who this girl is. Don’t care. I’ma reblog this before something bad happens

I love myself and my family way too much for me to just scroll past this

OOHHHHH THAT LADY ALR

I’m not sure who this is but I’m also kinda scared so reblogging to not fail my 2 exams

foxes-in-love:

A comic of two foxes, one of whom is blue, the other is green. In this one, Blue marches onto the scene, angry and determined. Green looks delighted by this.
Blue: I am done being nice!
Green: That's great!
Blue: No more Mr. Nice Guy!
Green: Yes, good!

Blue looks up in determination, and Green is intrigued by this.
Blue: It's time I stop having a problem, and start being a problem!
Green: Ooh?

Blue pulls out his phone, and starts texting someone. Green is delighted by this.
Blue: I'm going to set boundaries at work!
Green: Nice!ALT

roadhogsbigbelly:

my issue with “ipad kids” discourse is not that i don’t think that giving your 11 month year old an ipad and than leaving them alone for 11 hours ISN"T possibly unhealthy, even considering the fact that while previous forms of entertainment like books, radio, or tv were also criticized for “rotting children’s brains” they’re at least like. a bare minimum of quality in terms of what’s being consumed. a 6 year old watching nothing but nickelodeon or cartoon network is still probably getting more out of it than a 6 year watching ai generated elsa spiderman slime videos. so like yeah spend more time with your kids or at least show them like. pbs shows instead of youtube kids.

my actual issue with the discourse is how it’s framed through this really obnoxious “generational war lense” specially how like self proclaimed “gen z” zoomers are talking about millennials in the exact same way boomers were talking about “iphone’s turning millennials into brain dead zombies” 10 years ago that everyone thought was lame and outdated until 20 year old tiktok influencers started saying it so it’s woke or and based? like i’m not even saying zoomers are wrong, but are we also gonna agree that boomers were right all along, or was the only thing people took away from dumbass generational divides was “old people are lame and young people are inherently correct and progressive” and not “generations were made up by marketers to sell us shit and arent’ a good way of measuring progressiveness or anything really”

alleycatboy:

endreal:

oneheadtoanother:

Thank you Linux

this goes hard as fuck

catchymemes:

ambassadorquark:

the best britticism is “taking the piss” 100%. no word for this in the president’s english

Reblog this if you AREN'T homophobic.

gayfrogsarecool:

mthedib:

mem-kevin:

yaoifuck114:

dannybot:

dudapoconeh:

gryffindorfairygodmother:

quality-binbag:

creepymax:

gaygothur:

hyenuh:

leedle-leedle-lee:

Just want to see how many of my followers actually reblog this.

I’m homophobic :/

Sorry you reblogged this post, you don’t get to be homophobic 

👁️👁️

I’m gay

Gay people are cool :3

(Shout-out to my gf)

o-lanterns:

cmon child safety lid you know it’s me

bloodied-wolf:

roycohn:

hearing a song you really like on the radio just hits different than streaming it. same with catching a movie you really like on cable just as it’s starting. streaming services will never be able to capture this very specific kind of simple joy

lizardlicks:

faelapis:

faelapis:

also greg is the most bisexual-coded cartoon dad ever

so greg you’re telling me your conservative family doesnt approve of your musical awakening coming from a naked gay icon in gnc/drag makeup and they want to send you to the military but you ran away and changed your name and ended up with a musical aesthetic best described as indie glam rock dad with a non-binary space alien gf instead? das crazy, tell me more about how straight you are

prokopetz:

esoteric-merit:

prokopetz:

I’m not saying Canadian truth-in-advertising laws are perfect, but I just got a promotional email with five separate footnoted disclaimers in the space of as many sentences, and it’s kind of fun to see exactly how they plan to screw you over clearly outlined in bulleted list format.

I still get business-to-business emails for a certain industry, and I often get both the American-directed and Canadian-directed emails. Now, truth in advertising doesn’t exactly apply to B2B advertising, but it did change what precedents were set with relation to fraud.

And now and again, you do get two wildly different emails, mostly of the variety where some claims just … don’t appear in the Canadian version of the email. Rows missing off comparison tables and the like. My holy grail, should I ever receive it, will be when the Canadian version simply makes no claims whatsoever.

I think my favourite example that I’ve encountered of promotional claims varying by jurisdiction is a breakfast cereal where the front of the American packaging says it contains 22 essential vitamins and minerals, but the front of the Canadian packaging for the exact same cereal with the exact same listed ingredients only says it contains 9 essential vitamins and minerals.

prokopetz:

the-owl-is-not-amused:

prokopetz:

prokopetz:

With the way American tradcaths are currently speedrunning schismatism, I’m about 80% convinced we’ll see a non-trivially supported American antipope within my lifetime, and not gonna lie, I’d be fascinated to see how that would go down.

@dubbedcorn replied:

I understand maybe 50% of the words in this post

In brief:

tradcaths: Traditional Catholics; folks who profess to be Roman Catholic, but oppose the reforms introduced by the Catholic Church in tie Second Ecumenical Council of the Vatican in 1962 (colloquially known as Vatican II). Mostly they tend to have a problem with local priests being allowed to administer rites in whatever language is spoken locally rather than only in Latin, though there are other reforms they often object to as well.

The Traditional Catholic movement is closely associated with sedevacantism, the belief that the apostolic succession of the papacy has been interrupted and the Holy See is thus vacant – or, in plain English, the belief that somewhere along the line, one of the popes lost God’s support, and thus, that pope and all of his official successors, including the current pope, have been imposters. Sedevacantists usually identify Pope Pius XII (who died in 1958) as the last real pope, though there’s some disagreement on this point.

(Note that not all tradcaths are sedevacantists, and not all sedevacantists are tradcaths – there’s merely substantial overlap.)

Antipope: Anyone other than the official pope who claims to be the pope. All antipopes are sedevacantists, though their justifications for why they’re the real pope vary; some are self-elected, while others claim to be the legitimate successors of a secret lineage of “true” popes that branched off when the official popes lost their legitimacy. Naturally, no antipope would describe themselves as such – as far as they’re concerned, they’re the real pope, and it’s the guy currently warming the big chair in Rome who’s an antipope!

Historically, antipopes have sometimes been a very big deal; consider, for example, the latter part of the Western Schism, a period of eight years from 1409 to 1417 where there were three competing papal lineages who all denounced each other as antipopes and made a whole thing of it. More recent claimants tend not to get much traction; the latest American antipope, Pope Michael, for example, never had more than a couple dozen verifiable supporters.

Hm. Would sedevacantism qualify as heresy? Just asking for clarification.

Not necessarily. Heresy is about doctrine, and you can disagree about who the current pope is without rejecting any particular point of Catholic doctrine – indeed, sedevacantism is often motivated by the belief that the pope himself is a heretic.

(Note, however, that all forms of schismatism, including sedevacantism, carry a penalty of automatic excommunication from the Catholic Church regardless of whether they’re founded in heresy, specifically to avoid anyone squeaking by on that particular technicality, so in practice the distinction is somewhat academic.)

holespoles:

I just realized that the kanji for bone, 「骨」, looks like a little skeleton fella, and I can’t get over it…

deanwinchesterapologist:

deanwinchesterapologist:

deanwinchesterapologist:

People without siblings should be required to undergo rigorous training before they’re allowed to be a roommate

Only children in the notes are so mad you’d think I asked them to share or something

this post is funny because the angry only children writing me paragraphs about how I didn’t factor in their specific personal experiences don’t realize they’re exhibiting only child behavior in a way I couldn’t make up

marlynnofmany:

trxye-and-txlly:

walkingbomb:

reminder to:

  • straighten your back
  • go pee goddAMN IT STOP HOLDING IT
  • go take your meds if you need to
  • drink some water
  • go get a snack if you havent eaten in a while
  • maybe wander around the house/stretch a little if you’ve been sat at the computer a while (artists especially: sTRETCH THOSE WRISTS)
  • reply to that text/message from earlier you’d forgotten about
  • maybe send a nice lil message to someone having a bad day?

I just would like to thank everyone who ever reblogs this so that it somehow ends up back on my dash because I usually need the reminder (especially the drinking water one)

Of all posts to see with a million notes, I’m glad it’s this one.

ceausescue:

i feel like i personally struggle with forgiving people who have done bad things because as a pure utilitarian and utility monster, it’s been very easy to be almost perfectly good my entire life and i can’t really put myself into their shoes. luckily my mild discomfort vastly outweighs any problems this attitude causes, so i can continue dismissing anyone who isn’t perfectly good (ie, who has not dedicated their life to the overwhelming necessity of my happiness) without feeling the slightest bit bad. this morality shit is easy

tothechaos:

tothechaos:

people will try to make you forget that youre made of meat. do not EVER forget that youre made of meat.

hi! i have no memory of posting this

yorickish-deactivated20240226:

nothing makes me a better programmer than having some prose I should be writing instead

fleshdyke:

there should be just one language but instead of just picking one and erasing all the others like some kind of eugenicist we should just merge every language togetjer so there’s a million words for the same thing and the grammar system is the most fucked up thing you’ve ever seen

good-gamers:

marlynnofmany:

trxye-and-txlly:

walkingbomb:

reminder to:

  • straighten your back
  • go pee goddAMN IT STOP HOLDING IT
  • go take your meds if you need to
  • drink some water
  • go get a snack if you havent eaten in a while
  • maybe wander around the house/stretch a little if you’ve been sat at the computer a while (artists especially: sTRETCH THOSE WRISTS)
  • reply to that text/message from earlier you’d forgotten about
  • maybe send a nice lil message to someone having a bad day?

I just would like to thank everyone who ever reblogs this so that it somehow ends up back on my dash because I usually need the reminder (especially the drinking water one)

Of all posts to see with a million notes, I’m glad it’s this one.

so-over-ableism:

to all the people with “gross” symptoms/illnesses such as constipation, diarrhea, nausea, vomiting, gas, incontinence, etc., i hope you’re having an amazing day and your symptoms are recognized here and i will never judge you for them

catchymemes:

radicalgraff:

“If you saw someone stealing food; no you didn’t”

Poster spotted in Manchester, UK

STOP

the-violet-writer:

thewritingwarrior:

Every time you see this post on your dash, open up your WIP and write one sentence. It doesn’t matter if the sentence is good, makes sense or works perfectly with your story. You can go back to edit it later. 

Congrats, you made some progress on your WIP!

Make sure to reblog to help fellow writers make progress on their wip!

Everytime this post comes up, I go “DAMNIT!” but then I end up writing a lot and I get proud of myself so. Keep reblogging this!

gendertrickster:

lgbt history with june egbert

memeuplift:

fairycosmos:

my biggest obstacle as a writer is that i desperately want to be a popular and well-known fic author, but my main fic inspiration comes from characters most fans don’t want to read fic for, or ideas that go against popular fanon/characterization and so are doomed from the start. i end up feeling paralyzed and like i can’t write the unpopular ideas I want to write, because i hate knowing i could have done better by writing something with broader appeal. but whenever i try to write solely for numbers i lose motivation while the halfway through the fic. so i end up unable to write anything and feeling miserable because of it.

i want to see my unpopular ideas come to life, but i don’t want to see my fics crash and burn and keep missing the chance to create fic that people really love. so most times, i don’t write anything, but i hate that i’m so hamstrung by my own anxieties. i so desperately wish i could create one of those extremely well-known long fics that most people love and always rec everywhere, but i feel like i’m completely incapable of that. i know i should be writing for myself, but i’m greedy and want results and for people to like my fic, however unlikely that is. wanting to write my ideas but knowing i’ll limit my audience if i do is something that’s constantly on my mind. do you have any advice for me?

operaofsocks:

ao3commentoftheday:

My biggest question after reading your ask is simply: why?

You’re very clear about wanting to be a popular writer. You want to write a fic that lots of people talk about, and you want people to know who you are. Have you examined that desire at all?

You say that the things you actually want to write are not the things that will make you a popular author. That means you have a choice:

  • write things you don’t care about with no guarantee of becoming that Big Name Fan or
  • write things you love and enjoy spending time writing and know that BNF status will probably never happen.

Writing fanfic is really not a great way to try to become popular. It’s an even worse way to try to become “famous” in any kind of way. So dig into what it is that you hope to get from the “broader audience” that you could appeal to by writing something you don’t really like.

Are you trying to get a feeling of being liked? Respected? Looked up to? Do you want to be someone other fans look to for advice or for setting the tone of the fandom? Do you want love? Power? Some kind of community connection? Recognition of the effort you put into your works?

Some of those things likely will require you to pretend to be someone you’re not. You might even manage to write that one big fic that gets thousands of comments and tons of people talking about it on tumblr (or wherever else you care about, social media-wise).

Others you can probably still get by writing your “unpopular” ideas but seeking out your fellow fans. It will take more legwork to find them and you’ll need to be willing to be the first one to reach out for a conversation, but it can definitely be done.

I’ll leave it up to you to decide what you actually want, anon. But take your time and scrape off the top layer of shiny thoughts about popularity first. Then you’ll be able to see what’s underneath.

if i may…

being a popular and well-known fic author isn’t really like… a thing? in modern day fandom? maybe in some, sure, but your cassandra clares or whoever else just don’t really happen anymore. fandom is much bigger than it used to be, and you’ll always be putting your work onto a pile of existing works, unless it’s a small fandom, in which case you’ll be one of the few posting it but also one of the few even around to read it.

and, look, here’s the thing: your fic will be popular, at best. you, as a person? that still requires some legwork. you cannot just write well and become a household name in the same breath. like even for famous published authors, how many people do you think know who stephen king is as a person? his name is certainly “household”, but he’s also been putting out an obscene amount of work for decades.

now. i’m not actually trying to be disparaging, here. i just wanted to get the ugly bits out of the way first.

here are the metrics on my most popular fic:

and here’s the raw text of that screenshot:

Comments: 397 Kudos: 2,351 Bookmarks: 170 Hits: 29,345

i’m sure there’s tons out there with more than mine, but for my fandom i think this is pretty good. now let me tell you how i did this:

i wrote what i wanted to.

this is not a guarantee. it is not a surefire way to become popular. but it is fun, and people will recognize your passion. they’ll enjoy your work more because you’re enjoying it. writing what you want, how you want will always be better for EVERYONE involved, i promise. if you write to meet a quota, to appeal to the common denominator, people can tell. it’s not nearly as fun to read unless you’re really, really good at it, in which case you’d honestly be better off using that talent on things you like anyway!

and my fic has not made me popular. is the fic popular? reasonably speaking, sure. but i’ve been plugging this tumblr into the comments of every chapter for a few of those now, and the people who have followed me are few, and the people who’ve actively spoken to me are even less. and this isn’t a bad thing! i don’t want anyone to feel obligated to talk to me because they like my writing. in fact, if they actually want to do it, it’s way more fun for both of us! sound familiar?

if you want people to like your work, you need to make work you can be proud of, anon. people will be far more interested in you if you do. and they’ll give you nice comments and theorize on where you’re going and write essays in your inbox about their favorite parts. that feels so good. way better than raw metrics ever could!

do not chase the high of popularity. it will only hurt you, i promise. someone will like what you do, and if not, write something else you want to write, and keep doing that until someone does finally come along and go, “oh, wow, look at all this content for this thing i didn’t think anyone else would like!”

anyway, sorry for the ramble. hope it helps.

ame-wa-ame:

following my mutual’s mutual like hey man we have two degrees of separation so we’re basically best friends in law anyway favorite controller shape?

doctorbluesmanreturns:

If you’re the person in your friend group who initiates conversations 90-100% of the time, it can feel tempting sometimes to just stop contacting people to see if they will reach out, and therefore if they actually like you or if you are inflicting yourself on them. The problem with this is there are multiple flaws that can’t be overcome in this type of test, including the fact that if you always reach out and suddenly don’t, people will assume you’re busy rather than that you want them to reach out, or just the fact that some people genuinely enjoy your company but hate or are terrible at remembering to reach out. So basically don’t immediately assume that silence always equals disinterest or disdain; that’s your own hangups talking, not the people you care about.

randomslasher:

unamedwatcher:

xingshining:

bossymarmalade:

thxstral:

brunhiddensmusings:

zachsanomaiy:

brunhiddensmusings:

sunshine-tattoo:

brunhiddensmusings:

skrytch:

2fngrsin:

shadowkat678:

dandy-boi-ftm:

natalie-cats:

The best part is the fact that out of the two of them Martha Stewart was the one who went to prison.

Wait…what?

Wiiiiild. He did commit murder (in self defense - no judging) and America‘s Best Housewife was sent to jail because of insider trading, securities fraud, obstruction of justice and conspiracy. This is wiiiiiild 😄😄😄

also he has every right to make fun of kanye west considering snoop has had a successful career for about two decades including his own cookbook and appearing in movies whereas kanye is a flat earther who had to crowdfund another album because he ran out of money despite kim kardashian being with him, not having the money to produce another album should be the metric when you know you can tell a musician has failed somewhere in either money management or actually being a musician rather then a famous trainwreck

snoop dogg is a good man who loves cooking, nature, and supporting the dreams of young children in poverty. kanye west helped get trump elected.

seriously though check out his cookbook its beautiful

and filled with lgiht humor, legit cooking, and charming life stories

Whenever I think about snoop I remember that episode of cribs where he lived in an unusually modest house compared to everyone else on that show, spent the entire time with his young daughter hugging onto his leg and dragging her around as he walked. He even talked about how he didn’t want his kids to be musicians and that he just wants them to have a chance at a normal life / he doesn’t wish music career drama on anyone

The dude is mega down to earth for having a networth of 135 million dollars and staying relevant for longer than some of the top charting musicians have been alive

he says he keeps a supply of poptarts in the house for his nieces/nephews and grandkids but admits theyre really for him and then goes on to discuss what selection of condiments your fridge should have to jazz up leftover takeout

hes one of the most thoroughly human humans ive ever known of

Doesn’t he also coach football for kids, and stops smoking during the season to set a good example for the kids?

all these people going on about how Hozier is the peak representation of musical soft masculinity when Snoop has been out here rocking the smoothest braids and most hype manicures for decades

Have you seen his Planet Earth voiceover video? It’s the best thing I’ve ever heard. Man knows nothing about otters

Plizzanet Earth is a joy. Here’s the playlist:

necromancelena:

You would think that the biggest risk of trying out something new is that you won’t like it, but it’s when it’s so good it raises your standards where the real problems start

is-this-plural:

geocaprican:

thegaymertrainer:

Omg Suzy you’re so crazy

Rating: yeah

is-this-plural:

geocaprican:

thegaymertrainer:

Omg Suzy you’re so crazy

Rating: yeah

hater-of-terfs:

vickytokio:

sputnik-laika:

roastedmoose:

aphroditestummyrolls:

aphroditestummyrolls:

Folks, friends, y’all…. esk*mo is a slur. I understand a lot of people don’t know that, I don’t want to be a dick about it, but I’ve been seeing it in fics. Wanna write “esk*mo kisses”? Just say “nuzzled noses” or something.

I’m not here to call anybody out, it’s been in multiple fics, I’m not vague posting. This is just a psa. 👍🏻

If you could help me spread awareness about this by reblogging, I’d really appreciate it.

I’ve had this post on insta saved for sometime ❤️

[Text Description: “Hey! Reminder: Eskimo is a slur. It means ‘snow eaters’ in Cree and is a slur against Inuit . Also don’t use ‘Eskimo kisses’. It’s called Kunik. It is a greeting mostly used for family… Kunik was how I’d greet my mom and grandmother as a small child.” /TD]

Rebloging for the awareness and especially for the alternative words

And so people who are just learning this now know the proper usage: “Inuit” is plural. The singular is “Inuk”, as in “he is an Inuk”

hater-of-terfs:

vickytokio:

sputnik-laika:

roastedmoose:

aphroditestummyrolls:

aphroditestummyrolls:

Folks, friends, y’all…. esk*mo is a slur. I understand a lot of people don’t know that, I don’t want to be a dick about it, but I’ve been seeing it in fics. Wanna write “esk*mo kisses”? Just say “nuzzled noses” or something.

I’m not here to call anybody out, it’s been in multiple fics, I’m not vague posting. This is just a psa. 👍🏻

If you could help me spread awareness about this by reblogging, I’d really appreciate it.

I’ve had this post on insta saved for sometime ❤️

[Text Description: “Hey! Reminder: Eskimo is a slur. It means ‘snow eaters’ in Cree and is a slur against Inuit . Also don’t use ‘Eskimo kisses’. It’s called Kunik. It is a greeting mostly used for family… Kunik was how I’d greet my mom and grandmother as a small child.” /TD]

Rebloging for the awareness and especially for the alternative words

And so people who are just learning this now know the proper usage: “Inuit” is plural. The singular is “Inuk”, as in “he is an Inuk”

is-the-post-reliable:

cryptid-deity:

elektraking:

[Images description: a Twitter thread by Alisa Lynn Valdés, M.S., @ AlisaValdesRod1. It goes as follows:

“This quote, from the @ nytimes review of the Oppenheimer film: (quote) “He served as director of a clandestine weapons lab built in a near-desolate stretch of Los Alamos, in New Mexico” (end quote)… It was inhabited by Hispanos. They were given less than 24 hr to leave. Their farms bulldozed. 1.

Many of those families had been on the same land for centuries. The Oppenheimer’s crew literally shot all of their livestock through the head and bulldozed them. People fled on foot with nowhere to go. Land rich, money poor. Their land seized by the government. 2.

All of the Hispano NM men who were displaced by the labs later were hired to work with beryllium by Oppenheimer. The white men got protective gear. The Hispano men did not. 3.

The Hispano men all died of berylliosis. These were US citizens, folks. Their land taken, animals killed, farms bulldozed, forced to work for the people who took everything from them, and killed by those people. 4.

For 20 years I have been trying to sell a film based on the story of Loyda Martinez, a remarkable whistleblower whose family’s land was seized for the labs. Her dad was one of the men who died from beryllium exposure at the labs. She later went to work there too. 5.

She is a computer whiz who rose to the top of her department at Los Alamos. Then she started digging for info on the Hispano men the labs killed, like her father. She filed a class action lawsuit, and won. 6.

The first Hispano governor of NM, Bill Richardson, appointed Loyda to run the state’s human rights commission. She then filed a second class-action against Los Alamos, on behalf of women scientists not paid fairly. 7.

But, no. We want more films about the “complex and troubled” “heroic” white men, who conducted their GENIUS in a “virtually unpopulated” place. These are ALL lies. This is mythology in service to white supremacy and the military industrial complex, masquerading as “nuanced.” 8.

Because of what the labs did to the local Hispano people in northern NM, our communities now have the highest rates of heroin overdose deaths in the nation. The generational trauma and forced poverty is outrageous. We need the real stories of Oppenheimer to be told. End.”

End description.]

requested by anonymous:

RATING: PARTIALLY RELIABLE

It is true that Hispano people inhabited the Pajarito Plateau before they were displaced by the lab. Most sources state were given 48 hours to leave, not ‘less than 24 hours’ as the tweets claim.

From Reuters article “Oppenheimer’ and the story behind those who lost their land to the lab’: 'In the movie "Oppenheimer” the eponymous character played by Cillian Murphy says the proposed site for a secret atomic weapons lab in northern New Mexico has only a boys’ school and Indians performing burial rites.

But there were homesteaders living on that land.

In 1942, the U.S. Army gave 32 Hispano families on the Pajarito Plateau 48 hours to leave their homes and land, in some cases at gunpoint, to build the lab that would create the world’s first atomic bombs, according to relatives of those removed and a former lab employee.’


The claim that 'many of those families had been on the same land for centuries’ seems to be untrue, as the Pajarito Plateau was abandoned by it’s population by the late 16th century, and was not repopulated until the late 19th century. Therefore the families would not have been settled there for centuries, but around 55 years at most, if these dates are correct.

From an Atomic Heritage Foundation article on Los Alamos: 'Though abandoned by the end of the sixteenth century, the area was forever changed by these peoples. […] Descendants of these early Spanish settlers began settling on the Pajarito Plateau in the nineteenth century.’

From a National Park Service article on Los Alamos: 'Although people had been using the Pajarito Plataeu on a seasonal basis, homesteading originally began in March 1887 when Juan Louis Garcia filed for a homesteaded. The majority of the homesteaders on the plataeu were Hispanic.’


Loyda Martinez has recounted that homes were bulldozed and that some (not all as said in the tweets) livestock were shot, and some let loose. The National Nuclear Security Administration has denied that homes were destroyed or that livestock were killed.

From Reuters article “Oppenheimer’ and the story behind those who lost their land to the lab’: 'Homes were bulldozed, livestock shot or let loose, and families given little or no compensation, according to Loyda Martinez, 67, who worked as a computer scientist for 32 years at Los Alamos National Laboratory (LANL) and cited accounts from evicted ranching and farming families who are her neighbors in the Espanola Valley.

A National Nuclear Security Administration spokesperson said Hispanic farmers were compensated at a significantly lower rate than white property owners but the agency was not aware of homes being destroyed and animals killed or abandoned. The agency did not address whether homesteaders were forcefully removed.’


The claims that all of the Hispano men who were displaced went to work at the lab, and all died of berrylliosis after not being provided protective gear like the white workers, is suspect. It is unlikely that all of them would die of berylliosis, as berylliosis only affects 2-5% of workers exposed to beryllium. Furthermore, the mortality rate is 5-38%, so the odds of the entire group dying from this condition seems extremely unlikely.

From a scientific paper on Berylliosis: 'CBD is a hypersensitivity granulomatous disease that occurs in 2 to 5% of beryllium-exposed workers […] Overall mortality rates are 5% to 38%’

Furthermore, I could not find any source suggesting that the Hispano men were given less protective gear than white workers. Whilst exposure to radiation undoubtedly put health at risk, it does not seem that this was targeted at the Hispano workers.

Quote from ex-employee Ruben Montoya, from the thesis paper 'The scientific conquest of New Mexico : local legacies of the Manhattan Project 1942-2015’: 'We would be working under a hood, we used a respirator. We took all the precautions we could when I recognized we were working with dangerous materials.’

Furthermore, I could not find any evidence that Loyda Martinez filed or won a class action lawsuit regarding the discrimination, lack of protective gear, or deaths of the Hispano workers.

From a Mary Sue article on the twitter thread (please note that the Mary Sue is less reliable than most sources I use): 'Valdes also alleges that Martinez filed and won another lawsuit against the lab for denying Hispano men safety gear when working with beryllium. However, there are no public records of this lawsuit, and the claims about Martinez’s father and other Hispano men being victims of beryllium exposure cannot be verified.’

However, it does seem that Loyda Martinez did lobby the government on this subject, even if there was no lawsuit. Her father did die after working with beryllium, and she did serve on New Mexico human rights commission.

From Reuters article ’'Oppenheimer’ and the story behind those who lost their land to the lab’: 'Martinez lobbied the U.S. Congress for compensation for employees like her father, a lab worker who died after working with toxic chemical element beryllium.

In 2000 Congress acknowledged that radiation and other toxins had contributed to the deaths or illnesses of thousands of nuclear weapons workers.

The Department of Labor set up a compensation fund for those affected but it took years for families to be paid, said Martinez, who served on New Mexico’s state human rights commission in the early 2000s.”


The second class action suit referenced does seem to exist, and succeeded in getting a payout to female and hispano workers who faced pay discrimination. Loyda Martinez was one of plaintiffs.

From a Mary Sue article on the twitter thread (please note that the Mary Sue is less reliable than most sources I use): 'Valdés detailed the story of Loyda Martinez, who in 2006 was one of five plaintiffs to originate a class-action discrimination lawsuit against Los Alamos National Laboratory for paying female and male Hispano workers less than white males. The plaintiffs succeeded in obtaining a $12 million award for members of the lawsuit.’


I have had difficulty verifying the claim that 'Because of what the labs did to the local Hispano people in northern NM, our communities now have the highest rates of heroin overdose deaths in the nation.’ New Mexico has the 6th highest drug overdose mortality rate of US states, but heroin is not the leading cause of drug death in the state.

From an AP News article on overdose and drug use in New Mexico: 'Fentanyl and meth have surpassed heroin and prescription opioids as the leading causes of overdose deaths in the state. In fact, the two drugs were involved in 78% of overdose deaths in 2020.’

Furthermore, the claim that the labs inflict 'forced poverty’ in the community is not backed by statistics.

From Reuters article “Oppenheimer’ and the story behind those who lost their land to the lab’: 'Today Los Alamos County, where the lab is based, is one of the richest and best-educated in the United States.’

calvin-arium:

It’s here !! The guide for two-legged people who don’t know how to draw wheelchairs !!!

7 pages of infodump !

Disclaimer : I don’t know everything, I have one (1) experience of wheelchair user who used both bad and good chairs, and I share what I learned.



Image description :

1) Calvin in his wheelchair saying “yo” under a huge title “how to draw manual wheelchairs properly by Calvin Arium, a wheelchair user comic artist”.

2) A character says “my character self propels in a chair that was outdated in 1970 lol”
Calvin says “so it looks like you two legged people don’t know the difference between an hospital chair and a chair made to be independant”
an arrow point the crapppy chair, saying “we never want to see this again”

a bubble says “the hospital chair is extremely unpractical, tough considering it’s cheaper than a good custom chair a lot of us have only this”

3) a character hurt himself trying to reach the wheels of the hospital chair. Several arrows point why the chair is unpractical : “high backrest restrain shoulders movement” “huge armrest restrains wheel access” “separated footrest : amovible, cheap, bulky” “x structure, foldable but heavy” “huge front casters for stability” “heavy wheels”

4) Several arrows point an active wheelchair (the KSL by Küshall) : “usually no armrest” “a low backrest allow more movement” “light, design, ferning expersive” “special cushion to avoind injuries” “knee angle is usually 90°” “one single piece of frame, sometimes entirely welded” “weight : from 4 to 10kg” “often rigid” “center of the wheel is the center of gravity” “higher quality wheels : less spikes”

5) A hand grab different parts of the wheel, pushing harder in the second half. Bubbles says “some have gloves, some don’t. The hand must grab the biggest area possible. Less movement = more energy. This is a common but not only way to push.Calvin is on his back wheels, rolling on grass and dirt
bubble says “popping a wheelie is when a wheelchair user rolls on their back wheels to roll on every complicated surface.

6) several drawings illustrate the folding frame, the ergonomic but rigid and expensive backrest, the separated footrest (only for folding frame), the handles, the folding handles, athe amovibles handles, or no handles, the cool fancy loopwheels, the pretty custom colors 

7) More Features ! The fancy rigid-foldable frame, the anti tippers (sometimes used by beginners), the motorization (wheels, smart drive) when propelling yourself is difficult
Calvin says “and now vroom vroom motherfuckers”

pukicho:

saschagemruler:

pukicho:

agayhomestuck:

pukicho:

You get turned back into a baby but you retain all your skills and memory, what do you do?

Eat a nickel

A reminder: You have retained all your skills and memories

Eat a nickel

Ok

pigswithwings:

pigswithwings:

pigswithwings:

pigswithwings:

pigswithwings:

pigswithwings:

the angel staying over at my house asked for a nightlight in their room and i told them buddy, don’t you produce your own light? what’re you gonna do with more? and they said they wanted to see why people like it so much. and also that the nightlight i own is blue and they’re been trying to understand color. anyways i think they’ve stared at it for an hour now

the angel staying over at my house said their eyes hurt from staring, so i took them to the store to get some eye drops. well midway through the medicine aisle i turned around to see them flashing in and out of colors like a combusting star, so i asked them what was up without looking directly at them. they told me that there were too many people at the store and they forgot how they looked. which. is understandable to be honest they’ve only been on earth for a little over 24 hours. my phone started to melt a little when i showed them pictures of themself, but my hand feels fine even though they held it while calming down. they’re currently resting and i am not sure what to do with 5 empty bottles of eye drops

the angel staying over at my house has been eating my food for the past few days and i don’t really know if they can taste it because the food sort of bursts into ash and fire before it reaches their mouth? but they seem to enjoy eating it or at least watching me cook. they tried to help me fry some onions earlier but the stove flame turned from blue to white and the onions started crackling instead of sizzling so they backed off. however they have the ability to chop garlic like a pro

the angel staying over at my house is taking daily walks with me around the neighborhood and i don’t think they know about animals yet. we were going past someone’s house and this labrador started barking at us. normal, right? but the angel staying over at my house asked me if that was music. and i had to stop and think about that one for a second. in the end i said it can be music to us, it’s just that the dog doesn’t know it (and may never know it, which is a real tragedy). then they asked me what’s a dog

the angel staying over at my house went to the library with me and they wanted to know if humans actually dream or if that was something people made up for television. guess what the staff told us that the full name of the angel staying over at my house couldn’t be printed on a library card so i just said well couldn’t we have one anyways? and now we do but it’s really like the first third of their name and not written correctly. oh well. i have to go help carry some huge books about neuroscience into the house

today the angel staying over at my house came up to me and started crying tears that melted through my carpet. told me they realised they wouldn’t be able to use their library card after they left earth and i. i honestly forgot that was going to happen. but i told them hey dude that’s just how humans feel too. can’t read all the books, but the fact that you got to read some is worth bragging about, right? they could tell all of their angel friends about the cool stuff they’ve done. and they said that they used to think that the world was so small and that humans were being petty about missing earth but now they live here and they feel small too. and they’re not sure what to tell their angel friends.

so i asked to hold their hand again. they didn’t burn me this time, either. and i asked them if this moment felt small to them. they said it didn’t.


anyways we made popcorn and watched it’s a wonderful life. they told me that angels don’t speak like that at all by the way